My girlfriend is a stripper..don't know what to do...

3/11/2010 8:28:45 PM

 I've been dating this girl for a few months now and I recently found out that she was a stripper...Unfortunately, for me, this revelation came to me after I had already fallen in love with her.  I have gotten mysterious calls telling me that she does "extras". I don't know how anyone got my number first of all.. Secondly, she insists, to the point of tears, that she does not perform "extras" and that she is being faithful.  I'm deeply concerned and don't know what to do...Every guy imagines dating a stripper would be a fantasy come true, but in reality it is incredibly nerve-wracking. She works at one of the Spearmint Rhino locations but in the interest of anonymity I can't reveal which...Is it likely that she is doing "extras" for customers.  Also, what does a typical lap dance at the SR entail...Is it just grinding or is there more to it than that. I've heard that this place is relatively tame compared to other clubs, but I'm not sure.  Any helpful replies would be greatly appreciated!!!

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emmett

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15 years ago

Dick Johnson? Is that you?

jabthehut

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15 years ago

Dick, 
Go to your review of the SR to find out what things are like in the SR.  You have to be a long time member here since you stated in your review, "She was a mixed bag of tricks - Chinese, Spanish, Filipina and some moves I can't describe without getting flagged<qtlend></qtlend>."  Why would a new member say something like that if they weren't familiar with the site?

sharkiee123

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15 years ago

You have to write a review in order to get vip access to this site..I copied and pasted a review from another website...mystery solved.

samsung1

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15 years ago

aww your GF is a stripper?  poor you... 
 
come on, look at the bright side, I am sure your sex life is amazing

arbeeguy

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15 years ago

Personally I doubt if Shark is AKA Dick Johnson. 
 
However, it is always good to remember the disclaimer printed at the bottom of the screen: 
 
Eveything on this site should be considered a work of fiction

rickdugan

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15 years ago

Ah, so it is ok for her to climb all over other men and grind her ass into their laps, but only crosses the line if she get a handful, mouthful, or something else full.  Okay then. 
 
But fear not sharkie, no doubt that she really was sleeping at 2:30 am when you couldn't reach her on her cell ;)  
 
Moral of the story - a stripper is good for a lot of things, but a relationship isn't one of them :)

MisterGuy

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15 years ago

Hey, if you really want to know what she is up to at work, then you really need to give out her stage name & where she works.  It's likely that some of her customers are out there with the info that you want yanno.

potheadpl

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15 years ago

Didn't you notice some signs she's a stripper? You know, like having clear heels in her closet, and always having a lot of singles?

Player11

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15 years ago

Many strippers do extras for customers.  The one I have been seeing otc and itc for sex 2-3 times a week is common law married and will be getting married for real next month.  She says it will not change our meetings. 
 
You seem to think your are gonna own that pussy.  Your prob gonna be sharing is with a lot of guys and prob not even know it.

DT27

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15 years ago

You cheated.

TxWaltz

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15 years ago

Strippers are women first.  They want one guy they can share and do the deed with.  My experience with strippers is, if they're involved in a relationship, extra's aren't readily available, unless rent is due tomorrow. 

sexystrip

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15 years ago

Until you see it for yourself !!!  Innocent until proven guilty... Belive 1/2 of what you hear, People like to strir sh*t.... If you love her then thats all that matters :)) go be happy !!

alkaholik

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15 years ago

jackschitt

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15 years ago

I have a similar problem. If she works at SR in city of industry mabe we can help each other out. PM me if youre interested.

newsecond

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14 years ago

to whom those have a girlfriend or a wife who has a "regular" job;
Are you sure what your GF does when she goes out with her girlfriends. While you are playing with your PS probably she is flashing her boobs to people or dancing with a random guy in a club or maybe cheating on you.
I don't mean every woman do things like this but you also cant say every stripper does extras.
An average striper is better than anyone who sleeps with random guys just met at the bar.

troop

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14 years ago

^^^^
zero reviews and his only comment is in a year old thread?! duh, :rolleyes:

Realist123

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14 years ago

There is only one way I can help you, give me her information, stage name and the club she works at, when she works and I will approach her and try to get her to give me extras.

I then will report back to you on the information, of whether she said no, or how good she fucked my brains out.

This is the only true way we (myself) can help you.

SuperDude

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14 years ago

Go to her club on her day/nights off and get dances. After you have developed a level of trust, learn the rules of the club. Drop her name to other dancers and see what kind of reputation she has with co-workers. You can accept the fact that she's a stripper, grinding on other guys, giving extras and there's nothing you can do about it. You can break it off and save yourself a lot of heartache.

Clubber

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14 years ago

OK, your gf is a stripper. And you are looking for a downside? REALLY?

steve229

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14 years ago

@ troop - I thought this thread looked familiar

steve229

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14 years ago

Actually, the title has the making of a good song...let's see, "My girlfriend is a stripper..."

No, that's not quite it, how about, "My girlfriend is a dancer..." ah, that's better.

"My girlfriend is a dancer, a titty dancer..." Yeah, that's it.

Let me work on that.

Clubber

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14 years ago

We can all work on it...

Such a "dear", but not Rudolph. or Prancer, but Dancer.

vincemichaels

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14 years ago

Clubber, meet me there. We'll test drive her.

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