Figure this one out...

The company where I work as a manager is 82% female. My boss, the chief manager, fosters an environment of what I call "drama and trauma". Every single day is another adventure of accusations and ugliness. If the male population of the planet was accidentally wiped and reproduction was asexual, females would have wars that would make World War 2 look like an extremely minor misunderstanding. I'm talking genocide and scorched earth, with salt sowed into the soil so that nothing would ever grow there-ever.

I have got it figured out...these are strippers, not much too figure out here. Move on.

Thanks Shadowcat. You have just confirmed my reason for having only one favorite dancer in each club that I go to...

there you go thinking with your big head again...sheesh. What does it matter as long as you are getting your needs met LOL. These girls have to have constant DRAMA or they cant function day to day.

elemental23: I am glad to have TUSCL buddies like you to bring me back to reality. Strange part was that snowtime was with me and baffled too. Dancer "D" has become my top favorite. She is only the 3rd that has gotten the real me. We swapped phone numbers, snail mail addresses, email addresses and TUSCL. She may post on TUSCL. I won't run her off.

how will we know it is her? Will she post under the handle "Dancer D" ?

A lot of girls at Platinum Plus used to tell customers I was dating the DJ so they would go ahead and dance with them and not wait for me...this proved to be especially hilarious when told to some of his friends one night when they came in to hang out. The dancer was told...no sweetie, I am the DJ's best friend and that is not his girlfriend.
I make it a rule not to put other dancers down or talk about their personal/club business...it keeps me out of DRAMA. I have come to notice customers don't have a good time when there is a catfight going on or someone bitching at them like the wife they came to the club to avoid.

missfrankiexxx,

To me, if I see a bit of drama in a club, that is a plus! Why, because it it usually over some trivial BS and in any case, I am not involved, but still funny.

I mean, if there are two girls sitting with you that break out in an argument and drag you into the BS it seems like that would be a buzz kill...just saying.

missfrankiexxx: Are you talking about the Columbia SC Platinum Plus? If so, do you know the candy man?

missfrankiexxx,

What you state, "...if there are two girls sitting with you that break out in an argument and drag you into the BS...", would not happen, as I would not get involved. Rather I would sit back and enjoy the cat fight.

I know this isn't the "Ask missfrankiexxx" post, but BTW, is that your picture? If so, wonderful!

I have seen some cat fights. Some involving my favorite dancers but none were involving me. Usually it is some drunk that starts it. I can remember a time when I was sitting with 6 dancers on a slow day. They were just discussing family life. No fighting.Costumes for Halloween, how old before they talked,walked etc. I pointed out the first time they slept all night. I felt like a member of the group and they treated me that way. Yeah, it is all about the money.