Reasons For Getting Ignored

I have made a post before that included this topic, but I would now like to get a discussion on the why.

When I started SCing on a regular basis in January 2024, I found myself at a regulars club.

I spent a total of four hours there and went through around $400.

And during that time, only two dancers came up to me to offer dances.

It was a little disappointing.

If I wanted to be ignored and get rejected, I could just go to a bar or club that isn't a strip club. I was under the impression that money makes it happen, show up and spend.

What was the way to rectify this?... to where I was receiving more attention?

Keep coming back, become a regular.

That's what I did, made the aquitence of a few dancers, had a good time, got some extras action once.

But there were still a few dancers I was interested in, really liked the looks of, yet nothing was happening.

Once again, disappointing.

Sitting at the bar with a dancer I had became a regular for, and there is a dancer onstage who was fully nude who usually didn't go fully nude.

She tells me "Tip her babe, she has her pussy out." I then said no, because I've tipped her before.

And the dancer in question on stage wouldn't offer any dances or even come over and introduce herself.

This is how I came up with the three time rule, which I wrote about before.

If I tip three times, and she won't even come over and at the very least engage in conversation, I shut that valve off and will not even attempt to speak to her.

I move on to finding another dancer that is receptive to me.

I used to get oneitus really bad, and participating in this hobby has served to more so break the oneitus.

Fast forward a year later, at the same club, and in the span of three hours, four dancers approached me and offered dances.

Two I had gotten dances from before, and two I had met that night.

I have found dancers that are receptive to me, and I ignore the ones who ignore me.

But I think about and reflect on that initial interaction, or lack there of.

I'm hyper-analytical, always looking at things from multiple angles, looking for answers from cues, clues, and evidence.

So, with that said...

What do you think are some of the reasons/contributing factors that would lead to a man being ignored at a strip club?