Non-monogamy as an attitude - its not that complicated
Sunday, June 22, 2008 3:24 AM
I will debate all the theories in great detail but in practical terms, you can try this with almost no downside.
The "nice guy" vs "bad guy" debate is not fiction, there's a huge amount of truth to it, regardless of causation. Proving the causation is evolution or some other factor is not critical as long as you understand the basic equation. IMHO one must understand that sincere, honest, faithful, and non-controlling males (all things equal) will turn on females in the all important "chemistry' sense relatively less than deceptive, insincere, non-monogamous, and controlling males.
Ok having the major (non-controversial) traditional Alpha traits is a great starting point, maybe a critical starting point for some, but to add the tinge of nonmonogamy or the gentlemen horndog angle or whatever you call it - its really not that hard. Simple comments over time will be sufficient to induce the affect and women tend to remember such things, for example now and then (not too often) alluding what other women you're screwing or one's you're hoping to screw, and maybe toss in how important safety is etc, or asking a dancer about other names of dancers in the club, for example on stage at the time, or comments about it being very unnatural for males to be with just one woman, or how young males unless they are crazy should never be married before age 35 and explain why -all these small things, combined with an overall attitude and vibe over time all add up to inducing this requisite impression of a non-monogamous attitude.
The wonderful thing is once this happens you're often automatically tagged (to some extent at least) as not having too much respect for women in general, and (invariably) as being deceptive - because when qustions such as come up such as (in less common cases) "how much do you love me"? or more commonly "what do you think about me"? or "how often do you think about me"? - they will accuse you of lying even when you're telling the truth. So you've avoided being a total asshole, and instead can be the gentlemen horndog women love, yet are gaining some of the other (nominally bad) Alpha traits.
Point is its not really very complicated to work.
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