Sometimes the best looking girl isn't the "right" girl
Jpac73
I had a situation last night with a dancer I had 1st met about 4months ago. This was only my 3rd encounter with her since we first met. She is a Good looking girl, about a 9 but I found out she has no professionalism with it comes to treating customers right.
I didn't see "Memphis" when I initially arrived. I got a few dances from a dancer named "Lady" who I had seen last time and wanted to check her out on this trip. A little while later Memphis comes out and goes on stage. I tipped her both times that she had to go on stage and later asked for a dance.
I got to find out a few things about Memphis while back in the private rooms. 1. No she doesn't take any pictures( I had a post last month about asking this girl to take a pic). She gave the response of "You trying to get me locked up, with that". 2. SHe is a "hustler". After the dance was over she brings up the fact that I owe her 25dollars(dances are 20) I said how do I owe you 25?? She replied: "I let you touch me, you touched me last time." I said "Well you should have said you wanted 25 before the dance started."
Futhermore, she went on to say that she had paid alot for her breast and don't just take them out to be taking them out. Before she walked off she said "Let me know if you find some better looking ones than these, next time it's 25bucks."
I think the reason she tried to charge me 5dollars more than usual is because I only got one dance from her. On the previous 2 occasion I had gotten 2. I guess she had to come up with a scheme to try and squeeze more money out of me.
I kind of felt she was the "hustling type" but found out for sure last night. She is the best looking girl at the club and figures she can do what she wants because none of the other girls are on her level.
I wasn't mad just dissapointed, especially because my old favorite "Essence" was there and she sat with me for a while. I think she was anticipating me asking for a dance, but I was a little weary of her because on the last trip her lapdance was very mediocore. Now I feel kind of bad for not getting a dance from her.
Well Memphis lost a potential regular customer. She is good looking but I am too old to let a young girl like that(around23 or 24) take me for a fool. Next time I spend time with the more average looking girl who treats me with respect.
I didn't see "Memphis" when I initially arrived. I got a few dances from a dancer named "Lady" who I had seen last time and wanted to check her out on this trip. A little while later Memphis comes out and goes on stage. I tipped her both times that she had to go on stage and later asked for a dance.
I got to find out a few things about Memphis while back in the private rooms. 1. No she doesn't take any pictures( I had a post last month about asking this girl to take a pic). She gave the response of "You trying to get me locked up, with that". 2. SHe is a "hustler". After the dance was over she brings up the fact that I owe her 25dollars(dances are 20) I said how do I owe you 25?? She replied: "I let you touch me, you touched me last time." I said "Well you should have said you wanted 25 before the dance started."
Futhermore, she went on to say that she had paid alot for her breast and don't just take them out to be taking them out. Before she walked off she said "Let me know if you find some better looking ones than these, next time it's 25bucks."
I think the reason she tried to charge me 5dollars more than usual is because I only got one dance from her. On the previous 2 occasion I had gotten 2. I guess she had to come up with a scheme to try and squeeze more money out of me.
I kind of felt she was the "hustling type" but found out for sure last night. She is the best looking girl at the club and figures she can do what she wants because none of the other girls are on her level.
I wasn't mad just dissapointed, especially because my old favorite "Essence" was there and she sat with me for a while. I think she was anticipating me asking for a dance, but I was a little weary of her because on the last trip her lapdance was very mediocore. Now I feel kind of bad for not getting a dance from her.
Well Memphis lost a potential regular customer. She is good looking but I am too old to let a young girl like that(around23 or 24) take me for a fool. Next time I spend time with the more average looking girl who treats me with respect.
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In regard to the title of your post, I would change it slightly. Then it would read "Usually the best looking girl isn't the "right" girl." In my experience the best looking girls are the most stuckup, the most conniving, and most demanding. The reason why should be obvious enough: THEY HAVE GOTTEN USED TO BEING TREATED LIKE PRINCESSES. But beauty is only skin deep.
Over at Angels there is a strong demand for leviathans. And, for me they aren't in the least libidinous, lubricious, or lascivious; just LARGE. However, they generally have much better personalities than the little dancers even though they're subject to ludicrous doses of positive fawning and pawing most probably received for their largess of lard.
I probably wouldn't do it, but if she said $25 to me when the price is supposed to be $20, I be tempted to say "Don't you mean $15"? When she balks, then you explain "Gee it isn't very nice or honest when the price is changed without prior notice is it"? I've had that happen and it just makes me feel disgusted and unwilling to buy dances from the ROB in the future. Now, if she tells me upfront there is NO problem.
1) When you say "3rd encounter", did the prior 2 encounters involve lapdances, or just stage tipping or quick hi?
2) Why did you only get 1 dance from her??
You sorta answered #2 with "she doesn't take pictures- sounds like you got bitchy vibes from her then, & wanted to cut your losses.
I wouldn't generalize too much- yeah, the best looker(s) can be stuck up (only do VIP's & not regular dances, low mileage, etc),but there's also been the times.........
Then again, every one of them is a scared little quiet girl hiding in the corner, inside. If you have the gift of getting at that vulnerable species, and making it feel safe and secure when she's WITH YOU, you probably don't have to pay strippers for their attentions ...
I only got 1 from her on this occasion because I had gotten some dances earlier from another girl and wasn't gonna go over what I had planned to spend. It really isn't about the 5 extra bucks but just the fact she was trying to use me & coming off with a cocky attitude.
Memphis is a girl that is liked by both white & black guys. So she has the best of both worlds.
Misterguy: That might be and idea that I decide to use next time I go there.
I knew, in my HS days, a girl named Vicky Principal. She was a year behind me. A beautiful girl and later woman, but she was also very nice and friendly, if one took the time and chance to find out. Problem often is, those really beautiful younger girls, well many are afraid to even approach them. The fear of rejection, I would imagine.
I can't help but think of the two sets of twins at my #2 club. The one set is by far the better looking set, but when you tip them at stage, they only see the money. The other set has lesser bodies (mostly some excessive skin, not fat by any means, but not perfectly fit, either), but they always have to say something to me when I tip them. I've taken both of them to private dances (not together, though), but not the other set of twins. A lot of dancers just don't know how to communicate effectively, which entails more than just speaking. This is also why I don't mind fatties sometimes, because they do have to communicate better.