Sometimes the best looking girl isn't the "right" girl

"Memphis" displays fairly typical stripper/whore mentality. One question: does she have to pay the HOUSE a fee to take you back for a private? I can sortof see her point about demanding $25 for a $20 dance if she is used to getting $40 (true, for two dances - but the extra-dance-time is probably a lot less than the hustle-time to find another PL to give her money) from you.

In regard to the title of your post, I would change it slightly. Then it would read "Usually the best looking girl isn't the "right" girl." In my experience the best looking girls are the most stuckup, the most conniving, and most demanding. The reason why should be obvious enough: THEY HAVE GOTTEN USED TO BEING TREATED LIKE PRINCESSES. But beauty is only skin deep.

Over at Angels there is a strong demand for leviathans. And, for me they aren't in the least libidinous, lubricious, or lascivious; just LARGE. However, they generally have much better personalities than the little dancers even though they're subject to ludicrous doses of positive fawning and pawing most probably received for their largess of lard.

I probably wouldn't do it, but if she said $25 to me when the price is supposed to be $20, I be tempted to say "Don't you mean $15"? When she balks, then you explain "Gee it isn't very nice or honest when the price is changed without prior notice is it"? I've had that happen and it just makes me feel disgusted and unwilling to buy dances from the ROB in the future. Now, if she tells me upfront there is NO problem.

A couple of unanswered ???'s

1. When you say "3rd encounter", did the prior 2 encounters involve lapdances, or just stage tipping or quick hi?

2. Why did you only get 1 dance from her??

You sorta answered #2 with "she doesn't take pictures- sounds like you got bitchy vibes from her then, & wanted to cut your losses.

I wouldn't generalize too much- yeah, the best looker(s) can be stuck up (only do VIP's & not regular dances, low mileage, etc),but there's also been the times.........

Often the really good looking girls have the worst attitudes. I always look for late bloomers, girls who grew up average looking and then finally became attractive as they got older. They often have much better personalities. My ATF is one of those.

I like tom-boys and late-bloomers and other "nonconventional" girls too. It seems, that the glam-glam look, and the girls who are comfortable and familiar with pulling it off, are girls who view their desirability towards males as nothing more than a manipulative ploy, and they laugh all the way to the bank. Whereas girls with a different approach -- perhaps less cagey about which outfits hide which worst assets in the most concealing manner, for instance -- are often girls with a willingness to "connect" in a much more feels-for-real manner than the glam-glam "perfect" physical specimens.

Then again, every one of them is a scared little quiet girl hiding in the corner, inside. If you have the gift of getting at that vulnerable species, and making it feel safe and secure when she's WITH YOU, you probably don't have to pay strippers for their attentions ...

You should get a dance from another girl at that same club, pay her $25/song, and have her tell "Memphis" to fuck off...what a ROB...

Minnow: The other 2 encounters involved lapdances. I 1st met her at another club 4months ago and then didn't see her again until last month at the current club. The 1st time I met her we didn't have time to talk. It was late and crowded, I asked her for a dance, got a couple and left the club.

I only got 1 from her on this occasion because I had gotten some dances earlier from another girl and wasn't gonna go over what I had planned to spend. It really isn't about the 5 extra bucks but just the fact she was trying to use me & coming off with a cocky attitude.

Memphis is a girl that is liked by both white & black guys. So she has the best of both worlds.

Misterguy: That might be and idea that I decide to use next time I go there.

this whole thread makes me appreciate my recent experience at the Vegas Rhino even more. I had dances from what I considered to be the 2 best looking girls there, both 9+. NO pressure to go to the VIP. NO asking to tip the bouncer. NO asking for a tip for themselves. Pure sweeties. Pretty good dances to boot.

In my experience, the best looking girl is never the "right" girl. Although, my "best looking" and others "best looking" are likely going to be completely different. As FONDL says, those that didn't grow up as the HS Cheerleader, Prom Queen, etc., but aged well, the best.

I knew, in my HS days, a girl named Vicky Principal. She was a year behind me. A beautiful girl and later woman, but she was also very nice and friendly, if one took the time and chance to find out. Problem often is, those really beautiful younger girls, well many are afraid to even approach them. The fear of rejection, I would imagine.

It is one thing to look good, but quite another to communicate effectively. I think about all the favorites I have had over time, and only one would probably rate a 9, but I always seemed to communicate well with them.

I can't help but think of the two sets of twins at my #2 club. The one set is by far the better looking set, but when you tip them at stage, they only see the money. The other set has lesser bodies (mostly some excessive skin, not fat by any means, but not perfectly fit, either), but they always have to say something to me when I tip them. I've taken both of them to private dances (not together, though), but not the other set of twins. A lot of dancers just don't know how to communicate effectively, which entails more than just speaking. This is also why I don't mind fatties sometimes, because they do have to communicate better.

I agree with clubber. in my experience, the best looking girl in the club is usually a primadonna who is used to getting her way because everyone is afraid she will walk. Teach these girls a lesson by spending your money with the girls who know how to treat a customer.