Cultural Appropriation by Strippers

StripClubXpert
I recently patronized an exotic dancer at PL in NJ. Let’s call her Morocco. Morocco told me she was half French / half Persian. The exotic combination intrigued me. I thought I struck gold. After all how many half French / half Persian exotic dancers can there be in NJ? After talking to other dancers it sounds like Morocco is a far more pedestrian half black / half white mix.
After I realized what happened, I thought about the handful of times strippers have done this to me in the past. They pretend to be from a culture that is something other than what they are.

I am not sure if this bothers me. I think it is analogous to plastic surgery. If breast implants are done really well, who cares. If they look like they were bolted on, I would prefer that they were natural even if they were much much smaller. If an exotic dancer can fake another more exotic culture the same way Steven Spielberg faked dinosaurs in Jurassic Park then I’m okay with it. But if she says she is from another culture but does a poor job appropriating that culture, then I’d rather pass.

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ilbbaicnl
a year ago
Personally, I appreciate her lack of honesty about how she really feels about a guy who's 30+ years older than her touching her. It's like watching a movie, suspension of disbelief is necessary. That includes not asking another dancer about a dancer's shpeil. I take a pass on the shpeils, just skip right to seeing if we click in the couch room.

Back in the day, strippers were more likely to back each other up. It's a sign of the bad times, that they're more likely to undercut each other nowadays.
JamesSD
a year ago
I am all about strippers who can sell a good story. I'm not trying to date these girls in real life. Make it sexy, make it fabulous make it exotic.
Jascoi
a year ago
shit. I'm fucking 50 years older and one of the hottest girls I ever met was at bare elegance before covid. from Morocco. oh shit!.
Jascoi
a year ago
damn, missed the opportunity. I should have gone back to the car and retrieve some backup money... hit the ATM... problem was that I already had creampied the hottest girl from Eastern Europe ever. . .
Jascoi
a year ago
just now I'm asked to log in. I have to admit I haven't figured out this newest version of tuscl.
motorhead
a year ago
I’ve never understood this cultural appropriation issue. The wokesters preach DEI, but yet when one fully embraces the concept they get kicked to the curb and are accused of cultural appropriation
Brahma2k
a year ago
A requirement of being a stripper is to be able to hustle. A requirement for a PL going into a SC is to believe nothing a stripper tells you while at the same time, if the hustle works for you, playing along with it.
Hey, she’s not from the island of Mali (she’s really from Hoboken New Jersey) but if she looks and plays the hustle part convincingly? You’re in a SC, run with it.
rickthelion
a year ago
This rick is okay with cultural appropriation, but if a girl says she makes good roast wildebeest sandwiches she better be prepared to make me a wildebeest sandwich!

True story: stripper tells me she’ll make delicious wildebeest sammys after she gets some lion lovin’. I figured she had some roast wildebeest and like a deli meat slicer and we could have them sammys after the deed. So I did my usual spectacular lion job of satisfying her but she just made frickin’ bologna sammys and called ‘em wildebeest. Damn lion chaser.

I can’t get too mad because she was frickin’ hot and I banged her, but still…it made me wanna ROAR!!!!
londonguy
a year ago
Personally I don’t give a shit where she says she is from as long as she gives good service. Just as she doesn’t give a shit where I am from as long as I spend money on her. Does all this woke shit have to enter ever aspect of life?
FLAP3000
a year ago
I hate all the “woke” stuff. ^^^
SquareCastle
a year ago
You should’ve responded with “I’m half Kenyan and half Syrian”, that way you could’ve played the cultural appropriation game together.
twentyfive
a year ago
As long as she’s a she, not a he, culturally appropriating a she, IDGAF !
StripClubXpert
a year ago
@SquareCastle I never thought of that. From now on I'm half Kenyan and half Saudi prince.
Call.Me.Ishmael
a year ago
It's theater but with less clothes and more physical contact. If you treat it as such you'll be disappointed less often.
shadowcat
a year ago
I had one tell me that she was half Filipina and half black.
booty_lover92
a year ago
These women are portraying a fantasy for us, Who cares if they are what they say they are lol? Hell Rachel Dolezal proclaimed she was black I guarantee you if she was butt naked in my bed you better believe I would still bone her lol
drewcareypnw
a year ago
I guess there are a lot of potential kinks that a dancer has to try to set off in dudes. Some of them get off on thinking the dancer loves him, or is actually turned on, or is from one place or another etc. who can blame them for trying? But if she does the kink and isn’t convincing, then she’s not really delivering. Then again dancers will say anything to get you away from another dancer.
StripClubXpert
a year ago
@drecareypnw "if she does the kink and isn’t convincing, then she’s not really delivering."
I agree completely.
Hank Moody
a year ago
Not sure why you guys are going off on the woke. Again. There’s nothing about cultural appropriation from the strippers. No one says they were offended. The OP put it in the thread but it seems there isn’t anyone who was angry about this.

Anyway, I’ve had a ton of Cuban dancers say that they’re Colombian or some other version of Latina. The Cuban reputation precedes them and they know it too.
StripClubXpert
a year ago
@Hank Moody & @twenty five
Well said. As long it is not a he pretending to be a she I'm not offended by it at all. Just like I'm not offended by implants.
I just want the make believe to be reasonably convincing.
ilbbaicnl
a year ago
@Hank someone from the Caribbean coast of Colombia will sound more like a Cuban than someone from Bogotá. They might have actually been Colombian.
Hank Moody
a year ago
Sorry, I was a bit unclear. I was talking about Cuban girls who told me that they tell customers they are Colombian because they know a lot of guys don’t like Cubans. I don’t speak Spanish and can’t tell once Spanish accent from another.
RiskA
a year ago
The ultimate problem here is OP giving any credence to words coming out of strippers’ mouths (both the exotic and her competing coworkers dishing on her). You got to just let it go in one ear & out the other, if you get caught trying to figure out Stripper World your head will explode.
As to cultural appropriation, who gives a F? It’s not like there’s consequences to you if she’s lying, and it’s all pink on the inside. This weird hang up is so early 21st century elitism.
WiseToo
a year ago
I liked the good old days. Life was simpler. None of this cultural appropriation. Strippers were all in school working to pay for their education. That worked for me every time. They told the truth back then, didn't they?
PAWG_Patrol
a year ago
I guess that's a plus of mostly going for white girls. If she doesn't have an obvious accent (southern, European) then she's probably just a regular ol' American girl who isn't going to pretend to be from somewhere else.
funonthaside
a year ago
Who Cares? If you liked her appearance, you liked her appearance. Did you like her more simply because you thought she was an unusual mix of ethnicities?

IMO, your interest in her due to mix or ethnicity may have more to do with personality than physical appearance. If you liked her due to believing she was French/Persian, then she opened her mouth and appeared to be from a much different background, then it was her personality you liked moreso than her appearance.

Another example of why strip clubs should be viewed simply as places to seek physical releases than emotional gratification.

Perhaps she sensed your interest in her based on initial comments to her related to her ethnicity, and ran with it. As someone else stated, it's all about the hustle.

Oh, you like sweet giggly girls?...then "giggle giggle hehe". Oh, you like badass bitches who slap and choke you, "sit down PL, while I stomp on your pathetic loser ass".

Not that we need yet another reason to keep emotions out of clubbing, but this is another example of why it's best to not get too deep into connections/conversations with these entertainers. Keep the fantasy alive, guys.

Let them pretend to be who we think they are, so we leave clubs having had a great time.
StripClubXpert
a year ago
@PAWG patrol. White is not always right. I usually prefer plane Jane American girls but if you go to NYC clubs most of the white girls there are Russian or some Eastern Europe former Soviet-a-stan country.
Some of them are as hot as balls until they speak. Then they reveal a harsh almost masculine accent.

But in Jersey I guess that holds true. Even the Asian girl at PH (Mercedes) was raised in Jersey with the typical Jersey accent.

Southern drawls are a huge turn on for me for some reason.
StripClubXpert
a year ago
@funontheside “Perhaps she sensed your interest in her based on initial comments to her related to her ethnicity, and ran with it.”

We were already in the LD room when she mentioned her half French/ half Persian ancestry. But perhaps she did realize it peaked my interest when I asked her if she had ever been to Iran (no) or France (no). I think an unusual background does make someone sound more interesting which is why, thanks to x I am know saying I am half Kenyan / half Saudi prince.

I don’t care where she is from but it does make them seem more interesting when they are in a club in Jersey.

Funny thing is I would probably not think her background is interesting at all if I met her in NYC. When a lady in NYC tells me she is from Georgia, I assume it is the Georgia that Russia is occupying and not the Georgia known for its peaches.
StripClubXpert
a year ago
@funontheside “Perhaps she sensed your interest in her based on initial comments to her related to her ethnicity, and ran with it.”

We were already in the LD room when she mentioned her half French/ half Persian ancestry. But perhaps she did realize it peaked my interest when I asked her if she had ever been to Iran (no) or France (no). I think an unusual background does make someone sound more interesting which is why, thanks to SquareCastle I am know saying I am half Kenyan / half Saudi prince.

I don’t care where she is from but it does make them seem more interesting to me when they are in a club in Jersey.

Funny thing is I would probably not think her background is interesting at all if I met her in NYC. When a lady in NYC tells me she is from Georgia, I assume it is the Georgia that Russia is occupying and not the Georgia known for its peaches.
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