Why are men so bitter girls can make money for being female?

maybe some men are jealous because a girl doesn't need a skill if she's pretty.

Well, some male hairless apes imagine that lots of women want to see their disgusting spineless wangs and are jealous that sexy females can make money on the OnlyFans showing their pussy and butthole. Why else would so many males send unsolicited dick pics? QED and ROAR!!!

Your average single man struggles to get love and sex from average women. So they develop resentment towards women and sex and dating.

The resentment towards sex workers is just an extension of that. "The only hot girls who will chat with me are sex workers!"

Average woman on OF makes $180/mo, and that average is being pulled up significantly by the top 1% of earners.

And you should hear me now and believe me later Sancho ape. You will make much less that that if you try showing off your butthole on OnlyFans. I’m use basing that on the fact that you’ve got a dude name and nobody but gay males wanna see dudehole. ROAR!!

The men who get angry are attention whore males. In grade school, they get to find their way to do that in their small environment with a captive audience. In the real world, they have to actually be what others consider either entertaining or useful for attention. So what they experienced growing up gets taken away, and they don’t know how to do deal. Just my guess.

I can guarantee you even gay dudes don't want to see my hole

A man who gets upset at a female’s ability to attract attention or money is a man who is losing at life.

I have nothing but love for all of you goddesses, my guiding principles are, god made women beautiful so I would love them, and he made them stupid so they would love me.

^ Problem is over time they're getting smarter. We need a new angle.

It all evens out in the long run. Women get more attention when they are young and men get more when they are older. There are more women who are married than men up to the age of 45. Then it reverses and more men are married. Part of male desirability is due to income and income increases as they get older. I noticed when I entered my fifties women my age became increasingly friendly towards me. At the same time, I had increasingly less interest in them.

I’m a big reason those girls are making that money, a lot of it is money. So there’s bo bigger supporter of their cause I’m a top doner. In fact many on this board are cheerleaders, I always wonder aloud womhy don’t more girls make this BIG money while they can, it’s such a great deal (if said stripper is hot atleast)

Being hot is a skill. A rare one at that. And if we’re being honest the most coveted skill in the world. Men have fought wars over it. For me personally it’s why I get up to go to work every day, if it wasn’t for these hot women you would see me living in box like a crackhead in the south Bronx. There would really be no need for money at that point.

People project their insecurities onto others, as witnessed from this discussion.

Idk I've been noticing that all types of men seem to be upset with women getting money off of being women yet these same men jack off to porn. It doesn't even make sense.

@blahblahblah23 if you haven’t figured out that most of what men do doesn’t make sense you haven’t been paying attention. We’re simple creatures, really. Trying to ascribe logic and reason where there is none is fruitless.

Why do get angry at SW? Probably because they’re angry at themselves and they’re taking it out on someone else instead of dealing with it in some more constructive way.

I greatly appreciate women who have the guts and wherewithal to sell tits/nice ass/pussy, because I like those things and I have plenty of money to rent them with. I have hired many many contractors in my day, and by far my favorite ones have been selling pussy. They often have the best customer service as well. It's a win-win.

Dudes who can't get on board with this are prudes or dumbasses or both.

Maybe some men and women are angry because they realize subconsciously that:

“It is the sufferings of the many which pay for the luxuries of the few...”

People who are jealous of, or resent the successes of others are merely admitting there is a hole in their lives and they want what another has, without actually doing anything to obtain the same thing. Happy people aren't jealous. Unhappy people are jealous.

Jealousy and resentment are the opposites of gratitude and acceptance. Social media, reality TV, and other pop culture phenomena are building unreal expectations which do not match reality. Instead of recognizing the delta between fantasy and reality for what it is, they become angry that they feel they are missing out.

They believe the fantasy of sexy women that they see on "Real Housewives..." and Instagram, and think all pretty women are living that and denying them ( the men) access.

You cannot bestow gratitude and acceptance into others' paradigms, so you should just know that haters are gonna hate and focus on what you want in your life .

^ troll posting always! most unhappy bitter person on here, never has a positive thing to add to any conversation

I think that JamesSD hit it mostly on the head. They are resentful because they haven't had much luck with women and feel like they're being forced to pay for the attention.

Just to add to that, from what I've seen and heard it's even worse with those dudes who can't really afford to be doing that. The fact that some guys are paying girls who are already making more money than they do just adds fuel to the fire.

This is what happens when we stop raising boys to think and behave like men. They grow up as whiny victim mentality types who rely upon self-pity to justify treating others badly.

^"This is what happens when we stop raising boys to think and behave like men. "

"When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things. ASV When I was a child, I spake as a child, I felt as a child, I thought as a child: now that I am become a man, I have put away childish things." 1 Corinthians 13:11

Jealousy and resentment are very childish emotions, indeed.

In my circle of friends and acquaintences, no one is jealous of women making money off their body and looks. It's actually the opposite. We wonder why most women who could bank that way choose not to! I can't count how many times I said to someone they would make so much if they ditch the 9-5 and give it a shot.

Now, I can see some men not liking the price point a woman is selling at (i.e. a higher amount than they value). That can make some men bitter. But a man with even a small amount of "game" should be able to find what they want at the price they desire to pay.

Women who bank on selling off their looks have a very narrow window of opportunity so they need to make it while they can.

In a sense, bla makes a rather profound observation.

Men use their bodies for work… building, lifting, fighting, killing, etc. and are respected or even honored. Women use their bodies for work… Selling tits, ass, pussy, etc and are looked down upon. One way of viewing this is that men seek to control women, and narrowing the range of ways women can use their own bodies for work is one method of control.

As this forum is generally made up of men who adore hot chicks, and give them thousands a year, you might be asking the wrong crowd.

Guys getting jealous about women who make money off their looks and sexuality is irrational and pointless. There are probably lots of reasons why this happens, a number of which have been mentioned in this thread and most of which are because of reasons the women didn’t cause and have no control over, yet get the brunt of ugliness of the from guys whose mindset is that way.

I agree with Drew I think a big part of this negativity is that these guys don't get control over us. Like whatever. Ok if u got a wife or girlfriend pay everything and then some fine take her out of the biz if u want. If ur just dating a chick or know some chicks or know of chicks making money off this and mad like f off.

I also think a lot of men are seriously delusional these days thinking women should fuck/cook/clean and still pay half. Bitch what? Can get platonic roommate n pay half not have to do housework for everyone.

One of my brother's high school buds was a stoner to the extent that his yearbook quote was: "The bowl is never spent". He remains proud of smoking weed 24/7. I know a lot of people who hate him beyond belief because he actually came up with the idea to create a bar in Boston based on having over 100 beers on tap. Craft beers didn't exist 40 -50 years ago, so this idea was novel. Anyone recall the Sunset Tap? I was amazed at how many people hated him and thought the busboy/barback at the Sea and Surf had no right becoming rich. Same thing. Jealousy is ugly and that is all it is. I look at dancers and think thank you for the hard on. Bless you wonderful lady. The hard on that at age 18 could be annoying and just seemed like another one in an endless supply chain of hard ons, has become a cherished old friend at age 65 and I appreciate you giving us a chance to revisit the good old days.

I am jealous!. I tried being a gigolo but there are just too many guys giving it away.

“Do Not Envy The Rich For Their III Gotten Gains”

~ Proverbs 3:31

“I don't understand why these men who have these mental problems….”

Because, as everyone knows, no strippers have mental problems.

===> "I also think a lot of men are seriously delusional these days thinking women should fuck/cook/clean and still pay half."

I would have to agree with that. Shit, once kids are in the mix, it's a stretch to expect many wives to regularly fuck/cook/clean even when they AREN'T paying the bills. Once the kiddos come, they own your ass.

Many of the stay at home Moms in my social circles are lousy cooks AND have housecleaners coming in 2-4 times a month, lol. Also, once menopause symptoms start, the bedroom gets sterile in a hurry for a lot of guys. Lucky for me I've been able to manage to cover all of the family expenses, extra help included, AND keep some fresh ass on the side. 😆

Good to see your post, BlahBlah. I'm happy to pay well for good service. It does piss me off if I get suckered or cheated, but it's not about jealously over the money, it's the same thing I feel if my plumber overcharges.

Why? Primarily because they cannot, and think it's awful that someone can make more than them while ostensibly doing less.

I'm getting these impressions from thread:

1. m94 is telling bbb23 to take a look in the mirror.

2. Stripper with a set of knives attracts angry young men ( or mid life crisis men who never outgrew the "AYM" phase.

3. rickdugan just might be tuscl's "Renaissance Man."

Men have for centuries ben the largest financial provider for women but in the last few decades for whatever reasons some women have decided to earn for themselves.

And it's driving some men crazy. What's ironic is that they accuse women of using their bodies when men use their bodies too! They often have more strength and it's way easier from them straight of even high school to get a decent - not great - blue collar job doing some physical labor like construction, electrician, mechanic, plumber, etc.

Why?

Because of his (her) perception of self-worth and his (her) fear of not being perceived as successful enough for not making more money than those women.

I personally don't hate it, I just don't like when they're too much about it, like they abuse the power and think they control you or tell you to F off and seem like they own you because of their ability to sell all that. Like I'm fine with it I don't have no problem, we get mad when theirs robs of course or cheaters who cut time short, don't deliver etc. Just generally how they make it seem like with all the selling, or stripping, extras, pictures whatever they always make it seem so much this and that just give me this and you'll have whatever they make it seem so simple but then don't really give much

Like it's fine your in this industry but do it properly, cause if you cheat people your just gonna keep losing customers and be broke in the long run. If you actually keep your promise and do what you say you will you'll have returning customers and make more money that way. Cause once the girl cheats she loses a potential customer for good he knows to not come back again.

If your selling and doing all this you can't tell everyone to F off and act like you own them and better than them, you gotta have sense and be courteous and all that

To be fair I truly don't give a shit how much anyone else on the planet earns or has, except for maybe my wife and even with her I only know because I do our taxes.

===> "like they abuse the power and think they control you or tell you to F off and seem like they own you because of their ability to sell all that."

What a pussy comment. Whiny victim mentality is never a good look on a grown man.

The only power that a girl who runs around in the club in her underwear for money has is whatever power you hand over to her. If you don't want to reward bad behavior, just keep your money in your pocket.

You might want to consider some self improvement options to make yourself more attractive to the opposite sex. That way you could find something to stick your dick in so that you don't go to the clubs feeling so desperate for female attention.

You might also want to consider skipping the clubs altogether if you get emotional over the money. This is supposed to be casual entertainment funded with fun money.

Oh, and when you hit the gym, make sure you add some free weights to the mix. It sound like you could use some more muscle and testosterone production. Just a thought.

I will never understand how a grown man can be so intimidated, by pretty little girls in their underwear.

^How genuinely stupid!

^ silly little boy

It is a waste of time and energy to interact with twentyfive. He is a narcissist; lacking any self-awareness, shame, or regret.

Do not be mislead by twentyfive's jealousy and resentment. He is a demented child, frightened and confused by the world. He tempts us to treat him with scorn and contempt, but really deserves only pity and neglect.

Not sure where this topic came from - I’ve never, ever felt an ounce of bitterness for a female earning.

I don’t understand the simp culture where a guy would spend on Only Fans. I’ve spent well into 6 figures for real interaction in clubs so it’s not me being cheap but with this phenomena, I blame the simp guy not the female.

However, I do think a girl like Olivia Dunne is being a complete hypocrite. She worked hard to create “her brand” and build a net worth in the millions at age 20 without even having to get naked. But now she cries foul because she’s become “too” famous and won’t go to class

There’s plenty of misogyny on this board and in the reviews. Guys calling dancers bitches and hoes, being spiteful because dancers are too aggressive or not aggressive enough. There’s a lot of it. Some of it is the nature of the game, but I’ve gotten the feeling reading stuff here that some guys in real life really believe they are superior and women are lesser.

As for Livvy Dunne or any famous person, I don’t think it’s hypocritical. Yea, there’s a certain amount of cost to fame. There’s also a line across which it gets scary. Internet fans get obsessed and sometimes dangerous. Nobody should have to live with that. If someone sees a famous person in public and asks for a pic or autograph they don’t have to say yes, but I agree complaining about what comes with the territory is a bit much. But plenty of times fans won’t let famous people live their lives. That could be a bitch.

A lot of this is generational. Most strippers have recently entered adulthood compared to their customers. I have To remind my children all the time that I do not cater to them, so it’s a learning curve for strippers to realize that customers don’t need to cater to them, and the customers know it. That gap will always be there, and the emotionally mature male customer will under this and proceed with tact, allowing the stripper to act as she wishes yet enforcing strict boundaries on what said customer will allow, again tactfully. Tye emotionally immature male will gripe and complaint about the differences that are only natural Considering the age differences.

^^oops👀. Rong thread discussion.

“But plenty of times fans won’t let famous people live their lives. That could be a bitch.”

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I agree with that to some extent - but these are college kids at LSU. There could be a handful of crazies, but I don’t think most college kids “are in awe” of their fellow classmates. I know it’s different times, but I was in school when my team won the NCAA basketball tournament. I had classes with some players. A couple lived on my dorm floor. Everyone just went about their daily lives. Nobody bothered these guys or gave a shit that a couple were going to be first round draft picks in a few months. They were just another kid in your class. Livvy is cute but not all that. I think she could be just trying for more attention

Rickdugan thanks man maybe I'll pump my testosterone and increase my masculinity by releasing on all the girls that rejected you and accepted me. Hahaha it can be a coincidence that the hot girls rejecting you end up with me through time.

We'll have a nice time maybe I'll post it on PH so you can walk off to it in 7 years from now

Your welcome asshole

*wank

You can look however you want, fuck what the girls thinks whether you look desperate or awesome or non needy. Were the prize. You should stop the clubs all together, they don't want you

I don’t think it’s like this at all. At the end of the day, this is still a man’s world. No REAL men I know have any problems with a woman making money. But just don’t come with the entitled, elitist attitude because you are a woman that happens to make money using OF or any of these platforms. If it weren’t for the simps and incels who support these platforms, then there would be no money to be made.

The men I know generally wouldn’t give the time of day to women who capitalize on their body/sex/image etc and would much rather have a woman with a more traditional business/career. But no hate on how a woman goes out and gets her bread. But it’s moreso the narcissistic attitude that accompanies this (in some cases, obviously not all) that can be annoying.

===> "Rickdugan thanks man maybe I'll pump my testosterone and increase my masculinity by releasing on all the girls that rejected you and accepted me."

Keep dreaming incel boy. 😉

Or of course you could be a girl pretending to be an angry incel. One can never be sure on this board. But you sound like you either are a pussy or have a pussy. If it's the former, man the fuck up already. If it's the latter...ugh.

Loooool. Let's just keep it cool man. I know you guys talk shit and all. But I don't wanna start arguments and all this. I'm just a normal guy talking about strip clubs and what not regular stuff we experience or the scene. Yeah it may be different for all of us as our experiences vary. I'm on this site to mainly talk and share experiences and stories and help each other that's about all.

I'll be real with myself yes I'm not the most masculine alpha Ryan fucking Reynolds that has sex with every girl 24/7 I'm not that I won't brag or make up shit. I'm also not too bad like a loser wimp nerd. I'm just normal in the middle, we all get good and bad times. We get cheated on by strippers or sometimes we get the best service it happens to the best of us man. Sometimes we may feel weak or like shit after experiencing it but it's all good it happens. It's ok to be on a down or lower level sometimes. Everyone goes through these stages to build up and get to the higher level

I would consider myself pretty decent I learned a lot about the game and women reading all these self help books or no more Mr nice guy all those alpha masculine encouraging books. So I know a lot about the subject I'd say I'm pretty good with women I know how to demonstrate those qualities and spark attraction or come off as the bad boy asshole alpha. But I'm still not the best, I'm not so good. Of course I'm not perfect, still got a lot to learn to crack the code and become like Dane Cook from the movie My Best Friends Girl and like Ryan Reynolds from the movie Waiting, still got ways to go to become on that level attracting and seducing sluts

well damn. dane cook and ryan reynolds are are just a couple of examples that the boys these days have as influences as to how to be a man that gets the ladies. well all right then.

young fellas should take the advice of being themselves. but if they're going to try and emulate any guy from hollywood they may want to go furher back in time and watch robert downey jr in the pick up artist or a couple of those ironman movies. has a way with words, and is very self-assured without being an arrogant asshole.

Hahahahaha ur funny man yeah I just love their style Reynolds and Dane Cook when they were younger in their comedy movies like 2005 2008 now they're a bit older like 40s to 50s kinda worn down. That time they were like late 20s early 30s. Yeah man it's confusing what women want and how to portray it. But I just go to strip clubs anyway so no need to pick up or attract your already paying for it that's why your there. This is mainly applicable for non strippers you pick up regularly which I don't do as much now it's just too much drama regular pick up. That was fun in younger days I don't approach much outside of the strip club girls as much, too much shit to go through

Exactly @rickdugan and rattdog. I got attacked on a different discussion for simply stating that confidence, confidence, and self-assuredness (hopefully that’s a word) will get you a long way with women - regardless of whether they are dancers/entertainers or women at the coffee shop, art gallery, department store, etc.

Respect women, treat them well without being simpy - and you’re good.

edit Confidence, conversation.

"Men can make decent money no college no experience if they want to do construction or oil field work right outta high school- which women are just not as good in general cuz of the muscle differences between males and females"

Hunny, i'm not picking a side but this statement is incorrect. Nobody these days is just jumping out of HS and walking straight into a blue collar job as mentioned making $80K/yr. Those days have been dead since the 90s maybe even before that. And that is still FAR more labourous than doing onlyfans/camming. You can sit on your bed and shake your booty or post feet pics. If the man doesn't lift that brick or move that rig, he's outta there.

"Idk I've been noticing that all types of men seem to be upset with women getting money off of being women yet these same men jack off to porn. It doesn't even make sense."

Also still not taking sides, but the men who jack off to porn and the men who jack off to OF are in two different fields. on average, the porn jacker, is watching the free stuff and laughing at the morons who not only pay for it, but fall in love with women who will more than likely not ever love them back. The men who jack it to OF usually get really butthurt when they find out there's a man behind the scenes typing to them telling them sweet nothings instead of the girl on screen and get bitter they been bamboozled. speaking generally of course.