This topic has been discussed before but I bring it up again for the newbies and because I had another recent experience. Rule #1 when this happens. Never approach her. She might have real concerns. Let her make the move, if she chooses. I give you 3 true examples of what can happen and has happened to me in the last year or so.
A) I was having breakfast at the IHOP. As soon as I sat down, I saw one of my favorite dancers with her husband. He had his back to me. As soon as she spotted me, she smiled and waved. Evertime I looked in her direction, I got that big smile again. As they were leaving, she again waved to me. Later, when I got to the club. I tried to tell several dancers about our chance meeting. They had already heard it from her.
B) I was having breakfast at a Waffle House, just blocks from the club. A favorite dancer came in(I know that she is married. She placed an order to go and then spotted me. Big smile. Came right over and sat and talked with me until her order was ready. Later in the club we both talked to other dancer about our chance meeting.
C)Just last week, I again was having breakfast at the same Waffle House. I saw another favorite dancer with her husband. Now I have not known this one nearly as long as the two previous ones. We both spotted each other at the same time. I nodded and she nodded back. That was the end of it. She did not work at the club that day.
Better to be safe than sorry!


I just TOTALLY fantasize over this happening for me. Really what I want, is that one of my "favorite" girls notices me at some place like the IHOP, and she and I speak with one another and it turns out that "in real life" she and I get along JUST AS WELL as we do "in the club." And so we become friends, then boink like crazed rabbits without pay-for-play, of course.
I don't usually spend a lot of money on "favorite" girls in the club, so it is actually a possibility that they wouldn't view civilian interaction as a potential reduction in their income from me. Usually I spend a lot of time talking with the ones whom I like, and we "hit it off," but they get their money from fat old Warbucks types and then come back to me when they're "taking a break." I would like to believe that one of these favorite girls could continue to "take a break" out in the real civilian universe with me, too.
Well, that's my fantasy. Normal friendships: go figger ...