@SJG, you know what else people get conned into? Jobs that aren't an optimal fit, buying the wrong car/house, buying a piece of furniture they couldn't afford, buying Mary Kay or Amway products, marrying the wrong person, not marrying the right person, giving $100 to that televangelist, trying that first hit of heroin. Why aren't we bailing them out of their crap decisions too? College is not magical or privileged in that regard. It's yet another decision entered into with full aforethought. There aren't enough rich people to backstop every bad decision.
I'll give you one thing, we've pumped the real estate market incredibly hard. It's been bipartisan, with boomers in particular not wanting to lose value on their investments, and voting against any affordable housing, for low ass interest rates, etc. Truth is there are two sides to every transaction and it'll take a housing crash for a lot of people to be able to get in.
As far as 4 years of science, you don't know me, son. I'll be a bigger man than you and not make some threat about a privacy wall; you'll never learn anything about me I don't want you to, so threats about things that'll never happen are silly. I loved science, still do, just didn't want to spend my professional life in a white coat (in a hospital or a lab). Money, beyond "can I support myself with reasonable comfort," didn't play a role. But anyone who doesn't ask "can I support myself with this degree" is a fucking moron. You act like you're entitled to a comfortable life just for existing--this is utter nonsense that, if everyone believed, would collapse society within days. Don't know why you're telling me how science works anyways.
Frat Boys don't major in hard sciences. They major in soft stuff and spend weekends in the Hamptons. I barely saw them, since we lived parallel existences. They weren't horrible people, just ignorant of people who didn't have hired help to clean their houses.
Strivers? I was a minor-league one. Didn't see the point in going much further, I wanted to live my life rather than rule the world. Most of my "Striver" classmates are successful doctors or scientists. Great for them, they wanted that life and worked towards it. I don't begrudge people that worked hard and achieved. Only losers begrudge people the fruits of their labors.
You sound very bitter towards them, like someone who wanted to be one and fucked up along the way. So now you denigrate them and want to bring everyone down to your level. Remember when I said, "when taking life advice, consider the source." I wouldn't swap lives you for all the pussy in every extras club in the world.