Clubs where dancers find their Real Life Partners from the club
Jimmybigtits
Western PA
I'm a spender on conversation because my approach is similar to Ricks OTC strategy so I rarely do ITC early while I'm betting candidates.
While doing so I found out that a shockingly high number of dancers I talked to are currently dating guys they met in the club or just ended one year relationships with guys they met in the club and often these guys are at least 15 years older than they are. WELL over half the dancers are. They describe it as a move to get away from all the loser boyfriends.
Now, I'm not looking to becoming a stripper hubby. But damn this is a high number. I have never heard of this. Is this common in your experience?
And for more detail, in each case they are living with the guy or very much enmeshed in his family life (I asked). So I don't think when they say "dating" they are referring to paid OTC.
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I haven't found it nearly as common as you. But I've seen it enough to believe that "date a guy (even a customer) who is 15 years older, as a strategy to change her life situation" may not be exactly common, but it's a thing. She's stuck in a rut without money, and a 40 year old guy has had a lot of time to build wealth, and may be more inclined to spend it on her, so he's her exit strategy.
sounds like a good ploy to keep the guest thinking she's cool with fucking dudes from the club, though.
Thanks as always Spice
Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. What club is this? Feel free to PM or ignore if you don’t feel comfortable putting that out there
Dating someone who us just a customer is rare. It's usually girls who are old or aren't making money so he's an exit strategy. With younger girls it's almost always to feed their habits.
Strip clubs are very hierarchical. Tricks are near the bottom.
Dating dancers isn't that hard. But this is a really bad way of going about it
But tbh it only took me 2 weeks to realize that I couldn't handle it and I had to walk away. From then on this made my dealings with strippers so much simpler. I say with no modesty whatsoever that back then I was fucking plenty of attractive civvie girls and there were plenty of strippers that were not out of my league. When I was finally taken off the market by Mrs. Dugan, understanding that strippers were a no fly zone for me romantically allowed me to use them as side fun without the fear of complications. Sadly I've since aged and there is no risk of any confusion anymore, LMAO.
But it still happens fairly often. Boy meets girl can happen in a strip club just like anywhere else. But keep in mind that the same dynamics in any other venue still apply in a strip club - if she is out of your league, then she is out of your league anywhere. A very quick way to go broke is to be a dumb male 5 who convinces himself that a stripper who is an 8 really likes him. 😉
I suspect that if you were to ask the stripper and her older “boyfriend” to define their relationship, you’d get very different answers. “Dating” 😙
How many of the older guys here used to use bars as hunting grounds for girlfriends? I know my friends and I did. I also know that with the introduction of alcohol into any new relationship, it won't last. We all met plenty of dates and girlfriends in bars and not one of us is married to one of them. Strip clubs are bars, with an added impediment.
That's my homie!
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Icee in dont see why you word it as “dating someone who is just a customer”. This is not like a grocery store customer and cashier, the strip club customer is directly providing rhe income to the girls. To the point some of them will cheat on their SO for that money.
Why would a guy with options want to date a stripper? Unless he wants to have her quit stripping? In that case, still, why? There’s a reason that so many strippers boyfriends are being supported by them or working retail type jobs. The guys who have other options seem to not want to date strippers. Look at Dugan and all the guys on here, they may pay a few hundred for OTC but most of them aren’t looking to date strippers.