The OTC girl says no deep tongue kissing. Why she avoid that? Without the deep kissing OTC is not a fun. Is it worth to go for OTC without deep kissing?
I recently had a discussion with the girl that I am seeing regularly OTC about DFK and how many dancers considerate it too intimate...even more intimate than fucking. She said that when she did VIPs in the club, she did not kiss but kissing me was different.
If kissing is that important to you, find a different girl.
Getting blown and fucked is not enough? I've never really needed the faux intimacy of kissing to enjoy OTC with a hot girl, though many (but not all) girls I've seen did it as a matter of course. We each want what we want I suppose.
Speculating on why she's avoiding it is pointless. It's enough to know that she doesn't want it. If you're not enjoying OTC with her then just move on.
Kissing is a personal thing and different girls have different standards and toleration and levels of affection. Some girls are very comfortable with it. Some tolerate it, and some avoid it.
Daily Grind, it is not Iskra kind one. That was way expensive and many more dramas, so did not try. This is different dancer in her twenties and very new to dancing, just started few months ago. It was very hard to crack, kept visiting her in club almost couple of days in a week for last one month to get Yes. She says she never kissed anyone. May be a lie?
Why are you asking us either question? She's the one who knows why, although I wouldn't suggest pressing her too much on why. It's likely a personal decision for her, pushing it isn't going to make it better for either of you. You're the one who knows if its worth it. As you can already see from the responses, at least some guys have zero interest in kissing.
Agreed. This is a stupid question. Like asking this forum “why doesn’t my OTC want to blow me after I fucked her in the ass?” There are some things girls find to be disgusting. Personally I don’t want to DFK anyone who just had some other dudes dick in her mouth.
Thought experiment: you eat your favorite food frequently while sitting next to a cat's litter box. Would you still like your favorite food as much, even when you weren't next to the litter box?
In the vast majority of cases, routine FS sex workers are writing off pussyfucking as something highly enjoyable. Because we PLs play the role of the cat's litter box. Hopefully they can still get full enjoyment from other, more direct clitoral stimulation, and other stuff like kissing. But they have to only do that stuff with the person(s) they are actually horny for. And, lets be real, pussyfucking is an FS sex worker's big moneymaker.
Are you crazy idiot? Kissing other than your wife or girl friend is stupidity. If a dancer kisses you means she might be kissing 100 other men as well, especially cheap filthy extras guys, who may have STDs, STIs etc. clear your brain and stay safe.
1. Select the girl that you want to be walking up in the mornings with regularly.
2. Follow The System (tm) and only select girls from F2F first meeting.
3. Follow the SJG doctrine of Front Room Feel Up and Make Out Session before you even consider taking her into the back room. Never buy dances, that is a chump's game.
4. Stay on her, get her OTC ASAP, and continue to bed her regularly.
So you look 'em over and find the one you really want. And do this f2f, never escort ads or friends introducing. You exert yourself and select her. It disarms her.
No dances or anything until you have gotten her into an extensive Front Room Feel Up and Make Out Session. You demonstrate generosity and verbally come on to her. But have the Front Room Feel Up and Make Out Session very far along. Don't invite her to the back room until it is time for your own pants to come down.
Then do her in the back room and try to take her home with you right then. At a minimum exchange contact info and get her to agree to your next date. Then stay on her. Women run on a lunar cycle, so when the going is good, keep at her.
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If kissing is that important to you, find a different girl.
Speculating on why she's avoiding it is pointless. It's enough to know that she doesn't want it. If you're not enjoying OTC with her then just move on.
is the the iskra (*pig*-latin for kris) woman?
In the vast majority of cases, routine FS sex workers are writing off pussyfucking as something highly enjoyable. Because we PLs play the role of the cat's litter box. Hopefully they can still get full enjoyment from other, more direct clitoral stimulation, and other stuff like kissing. But they have to only do that stuff with the person(s) they are actually horny for. And, lets be real, pussyfucking is an FS sex worker's big moneymaker.
'no'
drop it. don't ask again.
enjoy her itc, or move on.
1. Select the girl that you want to be walking up in the mornings with regularly.
2. Follow The System (tm) and only select girls from F2F first meeting.
3. Follow the SJG doctrine of Front Room Feel Up and Make Out Session before you even consider taking her into the back room. Never buy dances, that is a chump's game.
4. Stay on her, get her OTC ASAP, and continue to bed her regularly.
So you look 'em over and find the one you really want. And do this f2f, never escort ads or friends introducing. You exert yourself and select her. It disarms her.
No dances or anything until you have gotten her into an extensive Front Room Feel Up and Make Out Session. You demonstrate generosity and verbally come on to her. But have the Front Room Feel Up and Make Out Session very far along. Don't invite her to the back room until it is time for your own pants to come down.
Then do her in the back room and try to take her home with you right then. At a minimum exchange contact info and get her to agree to your next date. Then stay on her. Women run on a lunar cycle, so when the going is good, keep at her.
SJG