Dating a porn actress.

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I’ve been seeing a young woman who is 26 years old; exactly 50 years younger than I. She has slowly been sharing her background with me and I’ll just say she’s had 10 years of sexual victimization. She told me that about 4 years ago she was forced into making several low budget porn flicks. One of the male performers and she had a short friendship.
She contacted him last week and he has become very successful in that business. He agreed to make a video with her and she’s been with him all week, writing a script, setting up the studio, arranging for a lighting tech, sound tech, photographer, videographer, and make up artist. They’re planning to shoot the video on this weekend. Then she’s coming to live with me. Her deal seems good in that it will be on a major web site and draw shortened versions to all major sites. She will be paid residuals based on the number of viewers.
How would you feel following after this guy’s huge phallus? She says it’s all just acting - no feelings or emotions. I think that there’s got to be lust and desire at play keeping things moving. Any thoughts on this?

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Mate27
3 years ago
I think it’s all of the above, Gawker. Now I’m not trying to be an ass here, but that girl probably can’t get enough and figures why not make $$, too?

As a side note, after yiu view the shoot come back and report to us how many inputs were used. 1,2, or all 3.
Hustler313
3 years ago
I've been doing sex work for almost 7 years now and it really is all acting. I mean of course your going to feel everything but it's all an act. Your not really enjoying it. All you can think about is the money part and that doesn't come till the end lol so the better you fake it the better he feels and gets over with
shailynn
3 years ago
OMG - it’s like OB-Wan Kenobi, a Jedi Master just dropped in to say hi.

Gawker, no matter how cool you are (and we all know you ARE cool) it’s hard to compete with a successful and probably handsome male porn star. Hopefully shes not into that type of guy and is using this as an opportunity to earn her some money and shes not looking at it as anything more than that.

After all providing a roof over her head and your uncanny charm may be all she really wants for now.

BTW - PM sent on a different matter…
Call.Me.Ishmael
3 years ago
You're sort of drawn towards complex situations, aren't you?

I guess it might depend on the degree to which the relationship with the 26 year-old is based on feelings versus money. If it's mostly about P4P, then it might be easier. But perhaps still not easy.

And, not trying to be cruel, but I struggle a lot to believe that a live-in relationship between a 26 year-old and a 76 year-old can be thoroughly romantic. But perhaps I'm overly cynical.

Honestly, there's a range of things about this scenario that wouldn't be right for me. I wouldn't mind having sex with a woman in her 20s when I'm in my 70s, but having her move in with me while actively working in porn? Probably not for me.
shadowcat
3 years ago
Gawker - This just sound like Deja VU. Bring another sex worker into your home to live? I've got a t-shirt for you. "When is this old enough to know better supposed to kick in?"
Muddy
3 years ago
You know what by Gawker standards this is not that bad. Why not hop around a little bit more instead of being attached to certain womean and going down the rabbit hole with them? There so many girls out there who want that money.
Studme53
3 years ago
Wow. Thanks for the insight Hustler. I always expect some of these male pornstars who are getting an incredible blowjob from some gorgeous young lady to turn to the camera and say, “I love my job”. But I never saw it happen. It’s just a “job” for them.

I always suspected it’s not always a great time for the ladies. There’s a reason they go from getting their pussy or ass reamed by some huge dong to going back to giving a BJ - they probably need a break from the pain.
Gawker - your girl is probably more interested in intimacy during sex than thinking about size. Enjoy and treat each other right.
gammanu95
3 years ago
Gawker is back in the saddle! Talk about life goals. Keep us posted, please. I'm a compulsive reader, and there are a lot of headlines on Drudge Report which link to articles about pornography. The honest ones all discuss the rampant sexual abuse, fluff girls have given way to Viagra and intentional priapisms, using makeup pads to plug the flow during menstruation, long days, voices hoarse from faking screams, etc. It is a job, and it's a grind. One of the more disturbing stories, and I think a documentary on HBO once touched on the same thing, with the male porn actor saying he's not gay and it is only a gig. Bullshit, if you blow or fuck or get blown or fucked by another guy then you're gay. Period. Full stop. However, the mindset of the actors is that it is a job. I would think the same thing applies to your girl. If she's tight enough for you to enjoy, and if her body and fucking makes you nut, then I wouldn't worry about it.
Champphilly
3 years ago
As long as she stays with you for free then anything is fine.
Warrior15
3 years ago
Would I want to have a relationship with a porn actress ? No, I couldn't deal with that. Would I want to have one night with one ? Why the heck not ?
gawker
3 years ago
Muddy, whatever makes you think I have standards?
Shadowcat - you’re 100% correct. However this gal does not drink or use drugs. I’m of the belief that she wants an American husband so that she eventually can get a green card. (She’s Russian).
rickmacrodong
3 years ago
Gammanu, being gay is more about the attraction to guys thats why its called gay for pay for those pornstars. A gay guy would genuinely enjoy and be attracted to other men, a straight guy wouldn’t enjoy or have attraction to other men.

The girl likely is attracted to that guy, but there are cases where girls actually like older men. Those girls are likely more easily found amongst strippers and pornstars as well. I’m much younger than you and would let a pornstar live with me if she was paying with lapdances or sex. But if I was going to be exclusive to her, I would want more from her, like her paying her share of rent + other things.
Icee Loco (asshole)
3 years ago
It's acting. Just like hoes act with tricks. Porn actresses act with porn actors. It's a job
twentyfive
3 years ago
@Gawker how are you doing, I hope well, if you come back down here let me know.
TheeOSU
3 years ago
Oh God has cjkunt seen that gawker has posted yet?
If so he's probably spent from jacking to his dick pic collection.
If not he'll request dick pics then proceed jacking to his dick pic collection.


@Gawker, good to see you're still at it. You're your own guy so you probably won't take my advice but keep your head and don't get yourself in too deep.


jackslash
3 years ago
I want to be like Gawker when I grow up.
san_jose_guy
3 years ago
Glad to see you posting again Gawker.

SJG
Liwet
3 years ago
Are you two exclusive? If not, she can sleep with anybody she wants, even if it is for work.
Player11
3 years ago
Well gawker I would not let it bother me too much as long pop reasonable and getting happy ending every time. Hopefully she’s not stretched out after that monster dick.

I would just treat it like any other sb that had bf or husband. Perhaps that she’s a porn star could increase excitement. Just think you can watch her movies use it as turn on get horny thing…

In retrospect probably not much different than having a hotwife or hw whore for your mistress. If you have the cuck gene it may really excite u too.
rickmacrodong
3 years ago
Whats the cuck gene
wallanon
3 years ago
Hey gawker. Looks like the guys brought their wet blankets. Have fun. If a brother or cousin shows up on the scene after she moves in just watch your back. But if you've got the means and the engine still revs up then carpe diem.
ilbbaicnl
3 years ago
Gawker, in general, when you're going to let someone live with you, you should investigate how hard it would be to (legally) get them out of your house, if you wanted them to leave and they didn't want to go.

You have to accept that being with a much, much older person is probably not the best for her sexually. Be generous to her back. Don't be possessive of her, let her have sex for fun and/or profit with others (with any necessary precautions so you don't get AIDS). To have good intimate relationships, you have to set a goal of giving the same importance to the needs and wants of the other person as you do to your own. If you two are not shooting for a good intimate relationship, that will make it even harder for you two to live together.

Some women like a horse cock, other don't. You should hope she likes, if you care about her. When a woman is aroused, she can fuck a larger dick without it being uncomfortable.
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