Categories:
- PL's sex life with SO is unfulfilling, but the relationship is worth preserving for other reasons.
- PL's sex life with SO is fulfilling, but he figures he can get some variety without getting caught, so why not.
- PL's SO knows he's seeing sex workers and accepts it.
- PL has no SO.
My wild guess is: #1 is 40% of PLs, #2 is 20%, #3 is 10%, and #4 is 30%.
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#5 is 4% #6 is 1% on here
The 1%, the rich and powerful with no rules have the following categories:
^^^ at correction, I forgot about CJKent. 6% here fall under #5.
I think 4 is higher considering divorced guys and even widowers.
Amount of guys on here that would still be virgins at 50 years old if it weren’t for strip clubs and hookers? 65%
Well in ancient times men had both wives and concubines. Many kings had mistresses (many married) that bore them children.
To call a man who has a stripper mistress or SA sugar baby a loser reflects the backwardness of our society. Even the Romans were more advanced as they had an organized system for classifying different types of prostitutes / sex workers (concubines).
My philosophy - I would get rid of a toxic wife but keep a good SB. If a man is young and just out of school - get a good SB first then take your time shopping for a wife. The relationship crap and soaps on TV sell but the reality is the 50 pct divorce rate.
The intensity of sexual pleasure with a stripper or SB mistress (even a married one) is out of this world. I think many women instinctively want children by different men / evolution of survival of the fittest on planet earth. Many hot wives have the gene that reflects this.
1 for me.
i’m a 4 but would prefer 3...
I'm a 3, but lap dance focused, more than extras focused.
I'm a 3.1a
PL's sex life with SO is fulfilling, but, PL's SO knows he's seeing fondling and carressing while dancing-workers (no sex) and accepts it.
Heaving. There's no reason you can't have a girlfriend... make yourself the prize
Most of the guys who go to strip clubs really need either a Marriage Counselor or a Divorce Lawyer. Then there are some like Rick Dugan who really look down on the women.
Icey, making yourself the prize means becoming cosmetic, becoming like a woman.
SJG
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If we're talking PLs who do extras I would assume most are in category 1 or 4. Categories 2 and 3 just seem like they would be pretty rare, especially 3. For PL's who just do dances then OP's distribution might be more reasonable.
Horrid unworkable death trap of a marriage. Life is too short to ever risk that again.
Strip clubs are where you find highly sexualized women who are living beyond the pale. With some of them there is great potential.
SJG
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You missed “has a SO who likes to join in when said sex worker is engaged”
What about the asexual that just like to torture others with their $$$$?
I was hoping some dancers might have estimates for the breakdown, but maybe most PLs would rather not mention SOs or lack thereof.
I’m solidly in group 2 and would’ve thought there were a lot of people like that. 🤷
i know a lot of guys that were under #2. that significantly changed due to something called divorce. a couple of them even had their wives cheat on them.
#3 is dangerous, especially if the guy is married. it's natural for the SO to reach a boiling point and say i'm getting real tired of the philandering shit and i'm going to take away as much as i can from that asshole.
#4 for me all the way. i value personal freedom to the max. if #1 is real important then may i suggest adopting a pet and stockpile on boxes of chocolates.
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