Trusting your OTC gal
shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
You know she is married or has a live in boy friend but you are convinced that she is not seeing any other guys. So you assume it is safe STD wise to go bare back with her. But what about her S/O? Can you trust that he is not cheating on her?
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I can't get by that, shadow. While I do firmly believe that there are girls who are basically dancing escorts who will OTC with any customer, and girls who are more choosey and just stick to their regulars, I'd never assume she wasn't OTCing with any other customers. And if she'll go bareback with me, she'll go bareback with others. I think the risk analysis has to factor in that she's seeing a few of her customers, and those customers might be seeing other strippers or escorts, etc.
If you're worried about it then you should just wrap up.
[And if we're being really honest, condoms do not eliminate all risk.]
I remember reading about guys getting bareback sex at "Cheaters" in Providence, RI, during its "heyday" and thinking of it as playing Russian Roulette with a hand grenade.
What about the pregnancy risk?
he paid her rent every month, bought her nice expensive things. he lived in another state, and that she got upset one night when he chose to hang out with his friends at an urban strip club rather than hang out with her when he was in town.
she said she always used protection when she did OTC because she was not on birth control and was also scared of getting an STD.
her boyfriend has kids with two other women, and they constantly complain that they don't receive enough money from him.
so here's the illogic: she continues to have unprotected sex without birth control with this guy. she says "he's my boyfriend. he shouldn't need to use a condom. he pulls out so i won't get pregnant"
besides the consequences of potential pregnancy, she thinks this guy is a) not cheating on her or b)having safe sex with other women (probably dancers).
why would anyone even dare go bareback with someone like this?
This is maybe the 3rd or 4th time I’ve ever done it. I try to avoid, but like others said it just feels so much different with no cover and it’s taboo which makes it more exciting. But is that excitement worth the worst possible negative consequences that could happen?? I have to just block out how much I enjoy it because if I keep thinking about it I’m bound to repeat....
No doubt the risk is there – and no doubt so is the reward (a wet-pussy sliding on your bare-cock is the way nature intended it to be).
As w/ anything, there is a risk/reward analysis – if you’re 25 it’s a different analysis than if you’re 50 or 60+ - you can do things to mitigate the risks but of course not eliminate them completely.
I guess if one has a regular SB type thing going, both parties can agree to get tested; perhaps even periodically, and agree to share results, but that requires work/time and it’s not foolproof either but obviously helps.
https://youtu.be/pfhsXlNf4XI
I don’t ask them about their partners or sexual adventures - and I don’t care to know.
I’ve been fucking a girl OTC for about 2.5 years. When we were enjoying OTC early on - she asked me if I would consider taking her and a civilian girlfriend to a private sex party. Before that - I was thinking that she’s likely a low volume girl. But, knowing she enjoyed being fucked in front of others and being shared, showed me a very different side of her. It was not a turn off at all - but it was a good reminder of the things you might not know about some girls.
Any sb worth anything will give hj or bj to get guy off if he did not get off from sex. If not get rid of her and find one who will.