Trusting your OTC gal

Any time you are going bare, you are taking a risk. But OH it feels so much better than being covered. This is one reason why I like sugaring better than OTC with strippers. A lot of the sugar babes on Seeking are looking for that one guy so they can feel safe with. There are also strippers on there looking for extra income.

And of course sugar babies don't have S/O's. :)

As Warrior15 said, any bareback is a risk... but wearing a condom is like showering in a raincoat. I'm not married, no girlfriend, but still... herpes is forever and HIV, if not as deadly anymore, is still permanent and a will totally change your life. If you really trust her, great... but how much do you trust the guy who's partners with a stripper?

"You know she is married or has a live in boy friend but you are convinced that she is not seeing any other guys."

I can't get by that, shadow. While I do firmly believe that there are girls who are basically dancing escorts who will OTC with any customer, and girls who are more choosey and just stick to their regulars, I'd never assume she wasn't OTCing with any other customers. And if she'll go bareback with me, she'll go bareback with others. I think the risk analysis has to factor in that she's seeing a few of her customers, and those customers might be seeing other strippers or escorts, etc.

Whether we like it or not, we all bring an equal or greater risk of transmission to the dancer than they do to us. I would never have bareback intercourse with an OTC dancer. I’ve had tons of BBBJ, and worry about that sometimes, but really they have much greater risk than we do.

You really don't know what she's doing any more than she knows everything that you do. Then track the exponential exposure through all of their partners, lol.

If you're worried about it then you should just wrap up.

I think guys convince themselves of a lot of things that range from improbable to laughable to make themselves feel better about risky behavior. In all of its forms, having bareback sex with a woman you don't actually know is greatly increased risk. I don't care if it's a a sugar baby, a dancer, or a "civilian" girl you pick up at a bar. Depending on the situation, you can make an argument about the number of bullets you're loading in a particular game of Russian Roulette, but the reality is that you're putting a loaded gun to your head.

[And if we're being really honest, condoms do not eliminate all risk.]

I remember reading about guys getting bareback sex at "Cheaters" in Providence, RI, during its "heyday" and thinking of it as playing Russian Roulette with a hand grenade.

Most chicks are not cool with going rawdog so I respect it. And I don’t want anything anyway or have a kid so I just cover up every time. It is what it is.

Why domimneed to trust her On The Crapper? She is da one dat got to worry about if she trust a fart or not. Not my problem

Why do i need...

To threadjack a bit, does anybody use female condoms for P4P?

What about the pregnancy risk?

My last itc experience at oasis was with a married dancer. I really forgot a condom that day because I wasn’t expecting extras on a slow Sunday. Well we went back and she asked if I’m clean I said yes, I asked are you, she said yes and I’m married with tubes tied. I said ok and proceeded from there. I’m always scared to shit after I do go raw but I hate condom sex. Lol

Immediate listermint bath on ding dong after sex eliminates all germs.

a while back, a dancer told me that she had a boyfriend that made a lot of money in real estate.
he paid her rent every month, bought her nice expensive things. he lived in another state, and that she got upset one night when he chose to hang out with his friends at an urban strip club rather than hang out with her when he was in town.
she said she always used protection when she did OTC because she was not on birth control and was also scared of getting an STD.

her boyfriend has kids with two other women, and they constantly complain that they don't receive enough money from him.

so here's the illogic: she continues to have unprotected sex without birth control with this guy. she says "he's my boyfriend. he shouldn't need to use a condom. he pulls out so i won't get pregnant"

besides the consequences of potential pregnancy, she thinks this guy is a) not cheating on her or b)having safe sex with other women (probably dancers).

why would anyone even dare go bareback with someone like this?

For me It happened without either of us planning it out...we just got back to the private dance area and one thing led to another...and another thing led to her squirting all over the vip furniture. She moaned that she wanted some dick and just spread her lips apart.

This is maybe the 3rd or 4th time I’ve ever done it. I try to avoid, but like others said it just feels so much different with no cover and it’s taboo which makes it more exciting. But is that excitement worth the worst possible negative consequences that could happen?? I have to just block out how much I enjoy it because if I keep thinking about it I’m bound to repeat....

Most girls don't want condoms and I really don't mind. I hate condoms

It’s the old risk/reward

No doubt the risk is there – and no doubt so is the reward (a wet-pussy sliding on your bare-cock is the way nature intended it to be).

As w/ anything, there is a risk/reward analysis – if you’re 25 it’s a different analysis than if you’re 50 or 60+ - you can do things to mitigate the risks but of course not eliminate them completely.

I guess if one has a regular SB type thing going, both parties can agree to get tested; perhaps even periodically, and agree to share results, but that requires work/time and it’s not foolproof either but obviously helps.

On the crapper is shitty

get snipped or you're playing the baby daddy lottery.

Get a Lapdance to this

https://youtu.be/pfhsXlNf4XI

I’m good with using a condom with all OTC girls I enjoy.

I don’t ask them about their partners or sexual adventures - and I don’t care to know.

I’ve been fucking a girl OTC for about 2.5 years. When we were enjoying OTC early on - she asked me if I would consider taking her and a civilian girlfriend to a private sex party. Before that - I was thinking that she’s likely a low volume girl. But, knowing she enjoyed being fucked in front of others and being shared, showed me a very different side of her. It was not a turn off at all - but it was a good reminder of the things you might not know about some girls.

My x stripper sb in common law marriage w guy ten years younger who was her baby daddy (her second child). She is planning on having her tubes tied. In a world without herpes or HIV sure I would want her bareback. But no I would trust no one. If I don’t get off w her w sex she gives good covered hj and gets me off real good. I have always used conforms with her. I decided a long time ago I it’s not worth it roll dice on bb. As far as him he could be shagging all kinds of sluts bb especially if he ever suspected she housewife whore. Sometimes in shower I curse those gd sob who brought hiv on us or what a fuked up world. She tells me she gets an hiv test once a year for peace of mind. What does that tell you?

Any sb worth anything will give hj or bj to get guy off if he did not get off from sex. If not get rid of her and find one who will.

If you consider the stat 17.3 pct us sex workers infected with hiv and condoms 95 pct reliable you can compute risk in the hiv roulette risk game. Bottom line / cover yourself it’s not worth it play roulette. .05 times 17.3 = x risk per covered encounter. Y encounters times x = risk.

Another sb which I was doing was a 34 married hw off SA. Really nice personality good looking,nice tits - sexy. We used condoms - she rode me real good I would explode intensely w her. Condom broke couple times it would break from the rough riding (she just a tad chunky) and she would get full load of cum in her nothing as exciting as hw Pussy. Pop 140. I one time rotated both. She would follow your lead in the session the other gal seemed to work a routine (x sc extras girl) but not a prob. She married to some guy who was an Engr Mgr at a plant. I fuked her a lot….

Bottom line considering the money spent and potential hiv risk one needs be careful. Cover it and have a sane budget.