So I have been with my CF for years now. Looks wise for me she is a 10 and gives the best dances I have had. I have spent a lot on her over the years but her appreciation for that is next to nothing and honestly she is kind of a bitch to me. I always tell myself I am done but then eventually I come back to her especially after trying out new dancers. I can't seem to find a good one that works out or gets me over my CF. Help!
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Advice on dropping CF and getting new Fav
Jul 30, 2021, 5:43 PM
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What sort of help are you expecting? All you can do is try different dancers until you find someone you like better. If you're not finding someone you like better, then stick with your CF. It's not like we're going to tell you about a magic button in the club that releases the dancers you're going to like better than your CF.
As far as your CF is concerned, maybe adjust your expectations downward. I mean, she's hot and gives great dances. That's the bulk of what most guys look for in a stripper. So, maybe you just learn to live with her not saying "Thank you" loudly or often enough until you find a different dancer you like better.
Or, as 25 suggested, hit a different club.
This sounds like a letter to Dear Abby
Just see a new one like you would any professional
Why do you still give her money if she flagrantly disrespects you? Drop that hoe like a bad habit as your relationship with her is purely transactional.
Who comes up with these ridiculous narratives? LOL.
I have found it best to not go looking for a new favorite. Just go out to have fun and eventually a new favorite will appear.
I think Shadowcat's advise is the best. What happens when you go out looking for a favorite is that you want her to be exactly like the last one and end up not finding one. Each dancer brings her own set of good, and maybe bad, qualities. Just go out and have fun and maybe one will come along
I think you don’t understand the stripper customer relationship. Since you are the one paying, you are in control. If she is unappreciative, take your money elsewhere.
You must do a few things.
- Grow a set of balls.
- Drop the unappreciative dancer.
- Don’t go looking for a new CF.
- Enjoy the experience of having money in a strip club! Dancers will be happy to see you!
If you don’t want to follow my advice - I strongly recommend you still GROW SOME BALLS!
^ Good example of the phrase:
“You teach people how to treat you.”
Use positive reinforcement, reward appropriate behavior as soon as it happens and as consistently as possible.
And allow natural consequences (stay away fro her) to become negative reinforcers for poor behavior,
You don’t need to lecture her or argue.
Just be patient and stay open to the possibility of a new favorite.
With a name like dogchain you should be aware of the phrase - If you aren’t training them, they are training you. Think about the way they are training you - and fix the situation before you have to change your name from dogchain to pussywhipped.
If you can't find someone who gives lap dances as good as her while being more friendly you may have to just accept that other stripper doesn't exist. I've usually found my prettiest regulars have been less friendly. They have a lot of customers competing for them so they don't have to try as hard in the friendliness area.
Since you can't find one girl who will give you everything my solution is to have different girls in different clubs who are good at different things. If I feel like I want a girl who will be nice to me I have a girl like that in a different club from the club with the pretty girl regular who does good lap dances. Most guys have more than one club within driving distance but if you are in a one club town this might not be possible.
I had a similar problem back in the days I had girlfriends. No one female can give you everything you want. This was a problem when I had girlfriends because when you have a girlfriend you are limited to one. You can try to have more than one but you might get yourself in trouble if they all find out about each other. In this respect strip clubs are better because you can see more than one girl.
Advice: CF comes over. You say I am all set, thank you. She walks off in a huff. You find new cf. The end.
^ Couldn’t have said it better.
"have different girls in different clubs who are good at different things"
What docsavage said. But if they're sensitive try and keep them from comparing notes about you (thanks COVID).
Go to a different club for a change of pace, it’ll work itself out.