The Hedonic Treadmill of Strippers
Muddy
USA
I recently learned this phrase and it got me thinking about how it applies to the game for me. I think honestly I’m experiences some desensitization. First off...
A. I am not going back to the 5’s and 6’s and whatever other creatures were willing to let me fuck them early on before I got into strip clubs. I’m not not thankful to them, but no way in hell I’m going back. Period end of story.
B. I’m just not doing the back flips and celebrating like I won the Daytona 500 anymore when I sleep with these ultra hot strippers, I’m already thinking about the next one the minute I’m done cumming (in addition to finding where I left my socks) Don’t get me wrong it’s still a blast but it’s not like the first few times where you got with girls who are probably out of your league, this occurs enough that now I play in the league and I ain’t the underdog no more.
Contrary to what I just said in A, is it important to maybe fuck a fat chick every now and then just to have some downers with all these uppers? It’s leveling off for me a little, in particular when it comes to repeating. Unless I’m banging a new super hot, fine ass woman every week I’m not satisfied anymore. Any y’all seeing similar things?
A. I am not going back to the 5’s and 6’s and whatever other creatures were willing to let me fuck them early on before I got into strip clubs. I’m not not thankful to them, but no way in hell I’m going back. Period end of story.
B. I’m just not doing the back flips and celebrating like I won the Daytona 500 anymore when I sleep with these ultra hot strippers, I’m already thinking about the next one the minute I’m done cumming (in addition to finding where I left my socks) Don’t get me wrong it’s still a blast but it’s not like the first few times where you got with girls who are probably out of your league, this occurs enough that now I play in the league and I ain’t the underdog no more.
Contrary to what I just said in A, is it important to maybe fuck a fat chick every now and then just to have some downers with all these uppers? It’s leveling off for me a little, in particular when it comes to repeating. Unless I’m banging a new super hot, fine ass woman every week I’m not satisfied anymore. Any y’all seeing similar things?
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I might get some extra enjoyment if I can get the attention of an in-demand dancer. Also, if I've heard that a dancer doesn't do "X", then it's fun to ask for X (depending on what that is...) and have her say 'yes'. And then there's the ever-present thrill of just trying someone new. And, though I don't necessarily feel that "fucking a fat chick" is a valid means to stave off the Hedonic Treadmill, it is fun to occasionally go after a dancer that isn't normally your "type". Actually, some of my best clubbing experiences have been with dancers that I'd normally not approach.
Right now, though, I think that a lot of regular customers are hitting the Hedonic Treadmill with renewed vigor, as we're exiting the whole COVID-19 thing. We all got an enforced "pause" from dancers and clubs.
And there’s always the option of taking a break but fuck that. We don’t live long enough to be taking breaks
Being a single-PL with no-one to answer-to w.r.t. my free-time, and not having to support a family/wife, I kinda SCed my ass-off to where it started feeling like I’d seen it all and done a lot and experiences started to feel like repeats vs “something new and exciting”.
As I’ve often posted, I strongly like variety b/c I like to experience something/someone new vs repeating with dancers I’d been-with even if I enjoyed my time w/ them – after so much SCing it started getting harder to feel that new/different experience/feeling.
I've gotten picky with my stripper pussy. Having a 9 give me a bbbj for the cost of VIP skewed my perspective. If I'm paying she better offer way more than the casual 3 hole 6s I can have easily for free.
Truth is bragging about paying to cum in your pants is probably a couple notches higher on the rich scale.
Strippers and SA girls, as fun as they may be, are not substitutes for real relationships. There is something entirely different in fucking an attractive girl who is there just for you and one who is there for the $400 she's about to be paid when it's over. So no, I'm not desensitized to fucking civvie girls more in my league. To be fair though my wife is still pretty damned attractive, even at our age, but of course she's long past being a hot 25 year old 9+.
If I hadn't had my fun with hot civvie ass when I was younger, I'm not sure how satisfying I'd find clubs to be now. Back when I was dating I rarely went to clubs as I was having too much fun fucking civilian girls. Fucking dancers is actually a consolation prize to me. I have a compulsive need for a variety of pussy, but I need it to come without complications. Back when I was newly married but still young enough to score hot tail, I kept a girl on the side and it got messy at the end, so I'll never do that again. So instead I fuck around with strippers.
First world problems I suppose. 😉
@TheeOSU Truth is you thinking that paying a stripper for getting off has some sort of scale on what is rich is a bit rich too.
Even if it were widely and publicly acceptable, I'd never "brag" about going to a strip club. I mean, ultimately we're hitting the Easy Button for sexy fun time with a stack of cash. Don't get me wrong... it's pretty great and I don't mind using that Easy Button. But it's not exactly something that warrants a TED Talk or even a LinkedIn update. At the same time, I don't mind sharing experiences, comparing notes, or even giving advice if I think it's useful. But that's not bragging.
But we don't have to pay as much. It's all good 👍.
But careful now, you might come across to some around these parts as humble bragging about paying a stripper for getting blue balls. (I don't see it like that myself.)