The user Blevay's thread where he was seeking contact info for a dancer in AZ just vanished from TUSCL as I was typing a reply. Blevay's profile also appears to be gone (at least to me... perhaps I'm blocked). It was pretty abrupt.
I'm suddenly really happy that no one gave him that dancer's contact information...
Yeah I don't see it either - maybe his little AIDS joke got him banned; or maybe he got pissed and asked Founder to delete his profile; who knows.
Seems the Arizona heat has an effect on many in that area 😛
It may have been something I said since he disappeared right after I told him he deserved to have AIDS based on his actions and told him to contact his public health department to get a warning to her instead of making her talk to him again.
Nope got banned but just like @call.me.ishmael Mom's herpes she got getting gangbanged at the homeless shelter i jusy wont go away.
I agree with @Papi the Arizona heat is responsible for a lot of the fried brain cells around here
Lakesbill ... if you're typing like that and smelling burnt toast, go to the hospital. You're having a stroke.
Also, "Blevay" ... maybe be less creepy and you'll last longer here.
He copied and pasted his "article" from another website.
Yeah I'm just glad I don't have to look at that stupid "article" he posted. I'd love to know which members approved that garbage.
Very sensitive "men" in here
OOOoooOOOoooOOOooo ... guy I don't know on the internet put quotation marks around "men." Well, I certainly feel put in my place.
You're the nitwit who showed up, did the wrong thing, and then started doing "AIDS" cosplay when he got called out for doing the wrong thing. I tried to be civil when explaining why posts like that are discouraged, but apparently your ego was too bruised by complete strangers to recognize that.
Guys im sorry you all are right my ego was bruised and I went a negative route I feel like a jack ass.. sorry to have been a problem.
Thank you for the apology. I appreciate it. You're far from the first person here to react badly to criticism, and often the criticism here is far less than gentle. It's natural to react defensively when people are needling you. Water under the bridge.
Good luck finding a new CF. Cheers.
===> "Guys im sorry you all are right my ego was bruised and I went a negative route I feel like a jack ass.. sorry to have been a problem."
To be fair, I suppose that everyone could have been a little nicer in pointing out the stalkerish vibe of your request.
Look, I get it. I doubt that any seasoned club hound on this board has not experienced the urge to find a dancer who vanished after he became smitten with her, at least in his early years, before he had a better understanding of how these girls think AND maybe before he became more jaded. Some here no doubt even acted on that urge to one degree or another.
But eventually you learn that when these girls disappear, it's usually because they don't want to be found. In many cases they are trying to get out of the business, but sometimes they are just looking for a fresh start in a new club. You'll also learn that they all disappear sooner or later, so getting too attached to one is pointless - nevermind unhealthy for you.
It's sometimes hard for guys, especially less experienced ones, to fully process how these girls can act so well by feigning genuine affection while keeping their true feelings cordoned off. But eventually, through more experience interacting with dancers, you'll get a clearer picture of the realities of these interactions, at which point you'll be much less inclined to seek out a girl who disappears.
So it's time to let her go and move on to the next fun gal. And next time you find one that you really like, you'd be well served not to read more into the nature of the "relationship" than actually exists because you can be sure that she isn't.
The link Studme53 posted is a main reason these posts looking for a particular stripper should never be answered with actual information. Maybe Blevay is a relative of the guy in Philly?
whodey ... You're correct. That story is exactly why I would never give out contact information to anyone regarding a dancer. And, in the Front Room at the very least, I wouldn't get into whether or not a dancer even works at a particular club or what shifts.
I think that Blevay/Lakesbill made a mistake, both in not getting his CF's burner number when he had a chance, and in trying to fix that error by looking for intel via a the Front Room. But, you know, he apologized up above, so I'm willing to put the knives away.
Because how often does an actual apology happen around here?
There's plenty of creepy shit on here. Dark blue something was the worst
Two of the creepiest were in my area. Dark blue was one but the other guy who used to brag about fingering girls with grease under his fingernails was fucking disgusting. You’ve got your own tuscl weirdo in Vegas though that city has more than a few.
And then there was SCPandit, who was in the DC area. Anyone who doesn't remember can look that horrible shit up on their own.
And, though it's impossible to distinguish troll from true, you have to wonder about anyone who decides to troll in that particular fashion.
I have never understood why anyone would bother to respond seriously to guys like this anyway, it’s just about as stupid as it gets
I almost forget Liwet....asking how easy it is to get away with rape in Tijuana. And the guys bragging about filming strippers without consent. The ldk guys
Reminiscing about creepy/scary guys on TUSCL feels like a game that we all lose. I mean, on a site like this, you shouldn't expect an excess of Eagle Scouts.
But, you know, there's definitely a bell curve.
Most guys going to strip clubs are lonely and horny . The creepy factor comes from the socially retarded and mentally stunted who see it as their only outlet for female companionship
Yeah he was a CREEPER! maybe he got banned? If thats possible