Having a Regular spot vs Club Hopping
Muddy
USA
As inspiration for this thread I wrote this song *ahem*
🎵 Sometimes you wanna go
where everybody knows your schlong, (do do do)
And they’re always glad you came (for cash mo-ney)
You wanna be where you can see,
that big boobies are all great,
You wanna go
where everybody jerks you offfff
(do do do do do doooooooo) 🎵
Regular Club
Pros-You get to be somebody. You sort of become part of the strip club drama/stories. I miss that. Long game can be a thing here.
Cons- I always feel like there’s something better around the corner so I gotta try something new and want variety. Can get stale if it’s lineup is in a rut.
Jumping from one club to another
Pros- As above you get variety. Always something new to keep things interesting. Eventually your gonna find some girls that you are really into looks wise.
Cons- I’m just some guy nobodies ever seen before. And by the time I circle back around again everybody is different from the last time. It’s more difficult to gain trust quickly. And your always not fully in the loop how shit works there.
I know a lot of us are without our go to spot anymore, a lot guys homeless without follies especially. The regular club I used to go somebody posted a thread it might be in trouble. It’s a shame I had a ton of fun there, a great club to hang out at. Ultimately I love hitting new spots, meeting new girls but if I could have it my way I wish I still had a great great club to go back too while checking out new places once in a while. The last couple years though I’ve been really jumping around, some great moments but I would love some home cooking again it’s been too damn long. What are y’all clubbing habits tend to be?
🎵 Sometimes you wanna go
where everybody knows your schlong, (do do do)
And they’re always glad you came (for cash mo-ney)
You wanna be where you can see,
that big boobies are all great,
You wanna go
where everybody jerks you offfff
(do do do do do doooooooo) 🎵
Regular Club
Pros-You get to be somebody. You sort of become part of the strip club drama/stories. I miss that. Long game can be a thing here.
Cons- I always feel like there’s something better around the corner so I gotta try something new and want variety. Can get stale if it’s lineup is in a rut.
Jumping from one club to another
Pros- As above you get variety. Always something new to keep things interesting. Eventually your gonna find some girls that you are really into looks wise.
Cons- I’m just some guy nobodies ever seen before. And by the time I circle back around again everybody is different from the last time. It’s more difficult to gain trust quickly. And your always not fully in the loop how shit works there.
I know a lot of us are without our go to spot anymore, a lot guys homeless without follies especially. The regular club I used to go somebody posted a thread it might be in trouble. It’s a shame I had a ton of fun there, a great club to hang out at. Ultimately I love hitting new spots, meeting new girls but if I could have it my way I wish I still had a great great club to go back too while checking out new places once in a while. The last couple years though I’ve been really jumping around, some great moments but I would love some home cooking again it’s been too damn long. What are y’all clubbing habits tend to be?
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I am definitely a club hopper. I monger for the sheer variety of it. I just like looking for some "strange" .
I’ve mentioned it before - as it’s kinda exciting walking up to the door of the club - as I never know what is going on inside.
Pros-You get to be somebody. You sort of become part of the strip club drama/stories. I miss that. Long game can be a thing here.
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Obviously, all this is heavily dependent on how clubs are in your area. But to put a point on things, there are extra pros to being a regular: if you get to know staff you can get various little things (e.g., I haven't paid an entrance fee at my regular club in years). And big things -- in the strict no extras clubs I go to, the bouncers walk through the VIP nearly every song. When I do a VIP, they rarely walk through even once. The girls know I'm one of the regulars who get special treatment this way, and the ones who are open to YMMV, do things to me that they couldn't possibly do if the bouncer were on us and someone was watching the cameras. In my area, where the extras clubs basically suck, being able to get high mileage and even an occasional extra in the high end no extras clubs is HUGE.
"Cons- I always feel like there’s something better around the corner so I gotta try something new and want variety. Can get stale if it’s lineup is in a rut."
Again, maybe specific to my area: there's so much stripper turnover that I get all the variety I need at my regular club, for the most part. But sometimes, the lineup gets into a rut for weeks or even months; those are the times I look beyond my small handful of regular clubs
@Subraman, "the bouncers walk through the VIP nearly every song. When I do a VIP, they rarely walk through even once."
Been there, done that. A few months ago, I got caught with my dick in a dancer's mouth when the waitress walked in because she'd forgotten something. Her reaction? "Oh, I'm so sorry!" And an immediate exit. The dancer was very surprised that the waitress didn't pull us out, kick me out, and get the dancer fired.
I understand that many SC customers just don't want to deal with staff on any level whatsoever, or maybe are a little introverted and are uncomfortable with it, etc. But for those who are a bit more social, I think newbies and even some PLs drastically underestimate the special treatment that decent-spending regulars who the managers & bouncers don't hate get. I'm always trying to find ways to get whale treatment even though I'm not a whale, and just shooting the shit and doing a shot with the bouncers occasionally, tipping the waitresses really well, etc., can get you somewhat there.
And I feel like I do have a great club near me, it’s just not a great place to hang out at BYOB and more of a get in get out kind of club. (35 club) So I guess I mean a place to hang out at. I’m still looking for a great one.
I’m wondering how things will be different when I do go back to some of the clubs which I’m sure will eventually happen, this disease is not going to last forever and I’m betting that if I show up with dollars to spend my regular status will happily continue as if nothing happened
But clubbing in the same city for 20 years will get even *me* to become more comfortable with people I see every couple of weeks, or even more often. At least two of the bartenders have been in one club or another for the last 15 years, so wherever they happen to be, I tend to get above average service. Even tips on girls. :D
That said, even when I'm out of town, actually *talking* to (and tipping) the staff has served me well. Very well.
I usually have a semi-regular “home” club where at least the bartender, bouncer and a few girls know my name. I like knowing what to expect, money- and action-wise, especially if I just want to relax. But per OP, (1) I don’t want to be part of drama or stories, (2) I could care less about the bouncer ignoring the timer. I have a short attention span, if I’m getting 5 extra minutes on a 30 minute dance, that means she hasn’t gotten the job done, (3) I don’t ever want girls calling dibs on me when I walk in the door, and (4) if a lady doesn’t give me good mileage or contact the first time, I’m not going to spend and spend in the hopes she’ll give me more next time. If you deliver, I’ll come back.
Other clubs, research research research. If reviews are promising, I’ll investigate and write one myself (which I love doing), but if I don’t get a rewarding experience, why would I go back in the hopes that I will next time. On to the next one.
eg. I tell the DJ to give me the extra long songs and I will still tip the DJ as well..
I had just finished (pun intended), and the owner asked me I had fun/ got mine; while the DJ who was manning the cameras’ gave me the nod of approval! ;)
And of course, never a cover..
I do both regular and variety. I do like the perks of being a regular and have a club I go to about once a month even though I don't live in that state. I also like variety and hit places that I'm not familiar or haven't been to for a while to get that strange.
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Very true. My travels have taken me to a certain area of Forida three times in about three years. The first time I met a dancer at a certain club and had a nice but short interaction with her. No more than one hour total. Fourteen months later I’m in the area, I go to the club, and as soon as I walk in the door a girl comes up to me and asks me if I remember her. I didn’t at first because she had lost some weight and changed her hair, but she mentioned some very specific details from our first meeting that jogged my memory. Again, I spent maybe ah hour with her. Fast forward another year. I’m in the area again. I go to a different club several miles away. Who is the first girl to walk up to me as soon as I enter? Yep. This time I recognized her immediately and spent a few hours with her. When I left, she asked: “Do you want my number or do you just want to keep meeting like this once a year?” I told her maybe I’ll see her next year. I guess it really doesn’t take a lot to become a regular.
As for the argument of this thread, I love hopping around but always tend to end my nights at "home" clubs. While you can make a lot of things happen in a lot of places given that I'm known well in a few places around the country now I have zero issues about getting in, having my preferred girls ready/waiting and VIP warmed up. Makes it all super efficient as I can just text one of the girls ahead "hey, only have a bit, be there at 9", just waltz in, get what I'm after and leave. If I'm wanting to hang out, I definitely get more attention and end up chatting with a lot of the staff about topics non-regulars definitely wouldn't. Genuine, quality conversations.
So... if you're a wallflower, the experience is the same. If you're friendly, outgoing and not a creeper however you can end up getting treated like royalty by having a "home" club. Bonus is that during a period like Covid with things opening and closing all the time if you're a "trusted" entity even if your preferred person doesn't do OTC (my ATF doesn't, only inside and with regulars as that's the deal she has w/her husband) you can easily get a safe, low risk referral to someone that does. Bartenders can often hook you up like that as well. In one city I visit regularly I have a bartender I chat with occasionally and she always hooks me up with an extra's friendly girl (and vouches for me so there are no nerves) as that club is like a rotating door (high turnover tourist town).
Also, if you're going to have a "home" recommend getting an instagram not connected to your name and ask (not just find) your fav dancers/bartenders for their insta's. When they have a bad day, Venmo them a little tip or something. You don't have to simp or anything but the amount of free dances and extra action I've gotten off the tiny amount I've spent on well timed gifts has had an excellent ROI. That can also be the little bit that turns an ITC girl into an OTC for you as well.