1st time here?
Playademan
New York
So how do you guys answer this question. I just instinctively say no, I’ve been here before. And sometimes I kinda regret it thinking it would’ve been nice to get a little rundown of the club but don’t wanna look like a mark either. So I was wondering what y’all do. Sometimes I go yes, but it’s been a while so I can ask for prices and shit.
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NAAAASTY
Maybe if you’re at a more touristy club, lie? Idk
Idk, if you feel like you very easily “blend in” with the crowd go ahead and say what you want. Otherwise, I’d probably just tell the truth
But by knowing something about the club ahead of time, you have an easy way to judge the integrity of the dancer. Someone who lies about the prices/mechanics of the club is far more likely to overcount dances.
Like in most areas of life, honesty is the best policy.
On another note, I like Bambi too!
Yep.
Unless I’ve come to a club to see a particular dancer, whom I’ve texted in advance, I want to take my time to survey the club and the dancer selection.
If I’ve been to a club before, I’m honest if asked.
It’s kinda simple.
a troll on this site, but a gnome in real life ;)
NAAAASTY
Marks gonna mark, first time in the club or not.
I agree with winex that the question is nothing more than an attempt to start a conversation. Whether or not you've been to that particular club before says nothing about your previous clubbing experience, negotiating savvy or willingness to spend money. Personally, I think those simplistic questions (like, "where are you from?") are used as a crutch by girls who either don't speak English well or just aren't witty or confident enough to engage you on a more personal level.
For example, I recently had a girl begin by asking what I'm drinking and then move into a conversation about the difference between scotch and bourbon. I was intrigued and interested before she even told me her name. However, the most effective opening line ever used on me was a couple years ago. The girl whipped out her tits and asked, "Whaddaya think of these?"
If a girl is sizing me up to ROB me, I'm not compelled to act a certain way to avoid looking like a sucker. A ROB's a ROB, she gonna try no matter what. If me saying its my first time there sets her on that path faster, that's good for me. I waste less time figuring her out and can move on to a more suitable dancer.
It was a Friday night in the frigid part of the winter. There were three other guys in the club - and one was the bouncer.
The dancers hit me up one after the other.
Hi baby.
You been here before?
You sweet baby...
Wanna dance...
I got a beer and sat at the bar. I chatted a bit with the dancer I came to see. The girls stopped the hard sell when they saw I wasn’t a mark.
I guess I have no problem walking into a place with $300 in my pocket and walking out to try another place with $260 still in the pocket.
When I was still a little bitch (Subraman term, from his advice article - https://tuscl.net/article/49689/), I probably lied but that was a long while ago so don't really remember.
Like most of you, I just respond with truth. Seems though that when the honest answer is something like "Ya, and I like this place" or "Ya, and I've had a lot of fun here" it results in less SS and sometimes increased mileage
Why are you suspicious? The only club I regularly went to the girls should have known not to approach me because because I had previously already turned them down.
I don't like to be approached and will approach the one I want.
Well if you have something that works for you, then keep going with it. 🙂
Most times a customer is avoided for a reason. In your case, it seems to be because that’s what you want. For other individuals, it’s for being unpleasant for some reason. Others, they are just simply and unknown.
Being honest can be a very unusual practice depending on the question and who is asking.
It always gets a laugh.
NAAAASTY
Sometimes being the key word. The thread was about how customers deal with one question commonly asked by dancers, not a TUSCL referendum on telling the truth in strip clubs.
NAAAASTY