Beer is masculine, wine is feminine.
shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
I'm not a drinker anymore but thinking back on my life I never much cared for wine. On rare occasions a glass with dinner. I have known very few women including strippers that liked to drink beer.
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Outside of the strip club, young women's drinking habits are totally different than what we remember from socializing with young women, or with women our own age. Young women these days are not just more likely to be into beer, I've met so many that love whiskey.
I don't think wine is feminine. A sophisticated taste in wine is staunchly masculine, and still soundly perceived that way by women, too. I tend to think of things like wine spritzers, and particularly sweet mixed drinks, certain types of sweet martini offshoots, etc., as feminine, perhaps. Otherwise, I love it when I take a stripper OTC and we do up a flight of bourbon instead of basic-bitch vodka drinks
But outside of clubs, I love a good wine. Especially a really good Pinot Noir. If you think that makes me feminine, then I don't give a Fuck. The girls I'm fucking don't seem to mind.
Beer makes me feel bloated. OK, that sounds feminine.
And makes your cramps worse? 🤣
Exactly. And being knowledgeable about wine is perceived as masculine by young women. The disconnect here is that most guys here don't do "fine dining" with their strippers. I wouldn't do that with some random OTC, but I tend to OTC with CFs and ATFs, and I do like to have a great dinner together. Wine at dinner, then go bar hopping and switch to shots or mixed drinks, is a common pattern for my OTCs.
I think beer tastes like piss and I love red wines. I'm just about the only guy on Earth who buys a glass of wine at a strip club. I remember a stripper at Shotgun's remarking that it's "unusual" to see guys drinking wine at a strip club--which is probably a euphemism for "I take it you're gay." But I don't have any problems with my masculinity like the rest of you insecure losers.
I've been drinking merlot since the famous line in the movie "Sideways" where Paul Giamatti screams " I am NOT drinking any fucking Merlot!"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uLtlwAGZ…
I think every one of my past SBs prefers white wines.
Between the two, I'll take wine 200%. Sweet whites are my favorite (ie. Moscato and white zin, and a few sangrias).
But I won't turn down hard liquor or less sweet cocktails either simply because it's more 'masculine'. I prefer how quick it'll make me feel good over how great it tastes. But if it's lacking it both departments (BEER), then there's no appeal to it.
I know plenty of women who drink beer and plenty of men who enjoy a good wine.
My favorite drink: whatever everyone else is drinking.
Yeah - beer does seem more manly than wine - may have to do with that traditionally it seemed men drank beer and women drank wine - even in TV commercials it seems beer commercials are often more geared to men, and wine commercials to women or both (although it's not universal) - there may also be a socioeconomic component where it seems blue-collar types are more into beer and white-collar types more into wine (again not universal).
It may have to do with that I grew up in a different time, but seeing a woman drink beer, especially from a bottle, I find kinda unnatural and unattractive/turn-off - no good-reason why I should see it that way, but seeing a woman drink beer, especially from a bottle, makes her look kinda slutty/low-class; again not that it should be viewed that way.
I've never gotten into wine. Don't like the taste and the few times I got drunk from it the hangover was awful. I don't get the appeal.
While its not some attempt to be uber manly, I drink my coffee black and my liquor straight. I just prefer it that way. I 'm just not a fancy person.
I have seen a few guys over time drinking wine in a strip club. Ok I guess but yes it does throw off a gay vibe.