Seeking.com Today
Warrior15
Anywhere there are Titties.
I just ended a 7 month relationship with a SB. (She found a boyfriend her age.). So I'm back in the market. I haven't really paid attention to the site in quite some time. My Premium membership had even expired a couple of months ago so I renewed it. But I am noticing some changes in the website from a several months ago.
1- There seems to be a lot more girls looking for a Platonic relationship. They are mentioning they are looking for good "conversations". HUH ??? I"m not paying for a conversation.
2- I've seen several photos of girls with their fashionable mask on. Is that supposed to be sexy ?
3- I'm getting bombarded with being Favorited by girls from other countries. After I renewed, in the first 24 hours I think I got contacted by about 80 women from Argentina, Romania, Russia, Thailand, Mexico, UK, etc, etc. I think a lot of these are scams though.
4- There seems to be a lot more Profiles out there but the increase seems to be in the Fatties. Are there guys out there that actually want these fat girls ?
Seeking is a little bit of work. But since the strip clubs are shut down, it's kinda my only option. I'm getting pretty bored with Porn.
1- There seems to be a lot more girls looking for a Platonic relationship. They are mentioning they are looking for good "conversations". HUH ??? I"m not paying for a conversation.
2- I've seen several photos of girls with their fashionable mask on. Is that supposed to be sexy ?
3- I'm getting bombarded with being Favorited by girls from other countries. After I renewed, in the first 24 hours I think I got contacted by about 80 women from Argentina, Romania, Russia, Thailand, Mexico, UK, etc, etc. I think a lot of these are scams though.
4- There seems to be a lot more Profiles out there but the increase seems to be in the Fatties. Are there guys out there that actually want these fat girls ?
Seeking is a little bit of work. But since the strip clubs are shut down, it's kinda my only option. I'm getting pretty bored with Porn.
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Many of them are platonic, many of them are looking for online only. Tons of girls favoriting from other countries. Doesn't matter to me whether they're scams or not, if they're in Venezuela, doesn't do me any good. I ignore all of them.
Yes, lots of platonic babies. With so many people out of work due to the pandemic, they've come to SA for handouts.
You'll get a lot wanting to sell you pics/vids as well w/o meeting.
I've also noticed girls who have a USA location, but says they are online in Hong Kong or somewhere else. Big red flag.
This is why I like and miss strip clubs. Doesn't take but 30 minutes or less to find the girl you want to spend time with. This SA stuff sounds like weeks, even months of work.
As far as the girls from Central America, they may or may not be scammers from what I understand there are hardly any sugar daddies down there so they have to look elsewhere.
But are they lying? Just because one of you (I've never checked out SA - too many reminders of that one Match.com date I went on) wouldn't do it doesn't mean another guy won't. Stuck home alone (or wishing they were alone) for weeks and weeks? Who knows what these dudes are up to at their keyboards.
@Warrior15
I feel your pain; I hope his is not a goodbye but a “see you some time soon” to your SB.
Be thankful and thank her for coming into your life and giving you joy, thank her for making love to you and receiving your love in return.
Be thankful and thank her for the good memories you will cherish forever.
My ATF Stripper and I developed a Sugar Baby type of relationship we had OTC almost every week for more than two years.
I would pick her up on Sunday afternoon, we would get an hotel room and make love, massage each other, have room service, sometimes we would go to dinner to nice a nice place. She would refer to me as her fiancé to other people, her sister told me.
I have thousands of pictures of her modeling cute sexy outfits I got for her. Around Halloween she was slave princesses Lea from Star Wars, Dallas Cowboy Cheerleader, Playboy Bunny. Around Christmas a sexy miss Santa, naughty school girl.
She was a baby stripper, 22 years old when we meet, very sweet and nice, the sex got better and better because she was more comfortable and felt safe relaxed and was able to let herself go and enjoy it, I enjoyed it too, she experienced multiple orgasms often and was very shy and sweet about it.
Sometimes she would spend the night and would fall a sleep with her head on mi chest like the little angel she was.
She was worth every penny and every second I spent with her.
Thank you for making me remember that relationship.
scrub. - it's not that bad. A little work but there are some real gems out there. I'm having dinner with one of them tonight. That only took me two days to get one. Let's hope she really looks like her photos though.
Yes they are lying. Even experienced SBs say platonic is rare, and if anyone would know, it's them. Not completely non-existent, but rare enough as to not worth putting much effort into finding
So: yes, it's a lie to get views
Totally understand why many PL types have no patience for SA. Everything desertscrub listed is absolutely true. TFP is absolutely right that it will take most people weeks or even months to find an SB (if that's what they're looking for, vs a quick fuck). At $90/month, many PLs don't see the value.
I also understand why many tuscl PLs enjoy using SA as basically a backpage replacement. There are many escorts, and pseudo-escorts, on SA, so if you're just looking for a no-strings-attached lay, that isn't so hard to find.
And I understand why some tuscl PLs feel weeks of looking, at $90/month, is easily worth it. I don't mind putting in a few weeks worth of "work" (I don't agree that it's really "work"... we exchange a few emails that take me ten seconds to write; if she ghosts somewhere along the way, I'm out 30s of my life) to wind my way through a lot of attractive young women, to find that one who I'll stick with for months or a year. As an ATFer rather than a variety guy at the SC, this kind of model suits me perfectly
Not knocking people who want to use tech to help them get hook ups. Go have fun with that. But what you just described sounds like dating. For that much effort I'd just go actually pick up chicks and date them. But because actual dating is a huge pain in the ass, when I get bored I go to clubs.
College girls who are also strippers, good. Young college girls who are not also strippers, for me not so much.
1. Lots of strippers on SA. Some of whom you might not have ever met if not for SA, given how many clubs and shifts there are
2. Lots of college girls are also partygirls. Okay, maybe not to the extent of your typical stripper, but I've run into fun college girls.
Platonic? I think there's a good number of girls that use that for plausible deniability if they are ever called out by a friend or family member . ( I came across my first wife's cousin once)
I dont have any public photos.
Exactly... all the fatties pick curvy. There are some legit curvy girls who also pick curvy, so there are some gems there. But there's a zillion girls under slim/athletic/average, so no reason for me to have to go through way more profiles, just on the off chance there's a hot girl under curvy. But that's just for my particular area, no need for me to get 10x more noise just to get a little more signal.
That said, I think there's some pressure the other way. Yes, there's been a flood of girls, but as Warrior mentioned, many of the new girls have been online-only or platonic-only, none of those girls contribute to lower allowances because they're not genuine competition. I also wonder if there's a practical floor. It's not easy for most young women to become sex workers, even if SA is good at dressing things up as a relationship so that it's easier to repress it as an SB. Yes, you have all those young women out of work, and perhaps they'd flood into SA if PPMs were $500, but if PPMs drop to $200? Hell, many might choose to drive for Uber over that. I've seen similar effects at SCs in local markets -- you absolutely have the most hot girls in the club when prices are highest, and when prices drop due to recessions, you get worse lineups, even though many young women struggle for work. There's a base price below which sex work isn't an enticing option for many women.
I guess I am a big believer in supply and demand. But I reckognize that actually living through an economy is different than the theory. I suspect that, in reality, you can benefit, as an SD, from the increased in supply of SBs but it could come with more BS.
With that said. I Am an abundance mentality guy and I don't like benefitting from others' sufering. I actually like the notion of a SB/SD relationship though since it is so perfect for older more experienced men to support younger women in exchange for treats :3