Interview with BHarlem

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Muddy
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Hey all I wanted to pick BHarlems brain today and thought it was time for another interview. I was able to meet her in person. Cool girl. Definitely cares a lot about making you leave happy. You really don’t see a whole lot of that around. She now has been working at NYC Gentleman’s club so make sure to catch her around sometime. Anyway here we go.

1. What first got you into stripping?

2. When/where did you first start dancing and have you noticed any changes in the business since then?


3. You’ve worked in some rough neighborhoods. Club W is in the South Bronx, any run ins with crazies?

4. Do you have a specific type of customer/demographic you like to target?

5. You have said you’ve done extras, any times where you’ve regretted it? Any times you actually enjoyed it?

6. You’ve talked about a customer putting you in the mood for extras. In a strip club environment, what would that entail for you? Any tips for the masses?

7. Do you see yourself still dancing in 5 years? And what is a city or state you would like to try dancing in?

8. Because I am like a 7th school girl when it comes to strip club drama, do you have any cat fight stories between you and other strippers or other dancers just going at it?

Anyway that’s what got for now. Thanks.

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Lovelyeast
5 years ago
1. I wanted to get out of my parents house ASAP and never liked asking for handouts
2. I was 19yrs old and Yes in NYC a lot of changes. There used to be a lot of stripclubs, they used to pay house dancers, no such thing as make it rain, dancers stayed on the humble, the clubs were fun not money machines
3. 1st let’s clarify I worked in all types of clubs from flash dancers to club W. Every club is rough, it’s just a different demon. But no I’m too smooth to get into anything. I keep my energy clean. That’s been my lifesaver. Now I’ve seen a lot of fights between dancers who fuck the same customer. Very entertaining
4. No but I do stay away from young guys
5. Not really. I had more regrets working with an escort agency when my safety became an issue
6. Spend money on me, buy me honey jack and, let me be the aggressor ( act shy it turns me on)
7. I’m working on my online boutique as we speak. I don’t see myself dancing in 2021. But I’d like to go back down to Miami ( I used to dance there) and try Rhode Island for the first time.

8. I’ll give you two u nosey son of a 🤬😂
1- one time I was at a clients house( he had chased me for yrs) finally decided to sleep with him. We are in his bedroom n I’m riding him cowgirl and his girlfriend busted in. Not only was she pregnant (thank god cause she would of whooped my ass) she was a dancer I was cool with. I had no idea. I hauled ass out of there.
2- I was messing with this crazy ass customer. Who gave me tickets to a Janet Jackson concert come to find out it was another dancers ticket she had bought for them to go together. I gave the ticket back to her. And apologize. Y’all customers be for everybody 😂

........ oh and did I tell u about that time I did a teens party w/ their lil girlfriends there
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SirLapdancealot
5 years ago
BHarlem thanks for the straight talk. I respect you for making it out there on your own starting out at a young age.
And LMAO by your TUSCL persona I'm not surprised you like to be the aggressor. 😂
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DenimChicken
5 years ago
> ........ oh and did I tell u about that time I did a teens party w/ their lil girlfriends there

oh god this sounds hilarious. Please proceed with this.
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Muddy
5 years ago
Alright B I got follow up question for you. Just saw this story today right from our back yard. https://nypost.com/2020/02/15/trash-bags…

Anything thoughts/experiences on the whole ”startender” thing?
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SirLapdancealot
5 years ago
Muddy is like the TUSCL Bob Costas.
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twentyfive
5 years ago
Hey Muddy who do you think you are Shailynn?😂
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Muddy
5 years ago
Haha you know I ask because I truly am just curious as hell SLD. And 25 I do miss that 10 question thing he used to do. My thing is I could wait for somebody to do it again or I can say fuck it I’ll just go ahead and do it.
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twentyfive
5 years ago
You did it fine buddy just bustin your chops 👍👍
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Muddy
5 years ago
Lmao no I know
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SirLapdancealot
5 years ago
The Muddy King Live Show. 😂😂😂
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Nidan111
5 years ago
Hey, Muddy, you forgot the most important question.

Question 69. What would it take for Nidan111 to receive to premium extras from you wherein you would BOTH enjoy the hell out of it?
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SirLapdancealot
5 years ago
^ a question from one of Muddy's listeners calling in. 😁
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FishHawk
5 years ago
Good work, Muddy.
Thanks, BHarlem.
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nicespice
5 years ago
Those stories 🤣🤣
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Nidan111
5 years ago
I need some vodka to go with my wine right now.
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Call.Me.Ishmael
5 years ago
Great post and interview.
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BocaOnt2019
5 years ago
Thanks you very much for doing this @Muddy and especially @bharlem for being willing to share
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max_starr
5 years ago
Nice stories, I love to hear them, thanks!
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Huntsman
5 years ago
Good job Muddy. And props to Bharlem for being a good sport.
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rogertex
5 years ago
Great interview
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DrStab
5 years ago
Thanks for the Q&A session Muddy and BHarlem.
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PrimetimeSchein
5 years ago
Awesome Q&A
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chimera422
5 years ago
Teens party with girlfriends topic would be fascinating
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