Where the hell is the money ?
DallasBeauty94
It seems I started dancing TOO DAMN LATE. I started September 2019 & the most I’ve made in a week is 2500$. And that’s with a few extras. Where the hell are all the good
Clubs ? Don’t gotta comment and post stuff if you don’t want everybody to know where you work, you can message me, BUT WOMAN TO WOMAN, I feel this lifestyle is going down hill. I’ve heard stories of $1000 nights just in clubs..I’ve yet to see one without extra. WHERE ARE THEY!? I know there is still money in the clubs, but where?
Clubs ? Don’t gotta comment and post stuff if you don’t want everybody to know where you work, you can message me, BUT WOMAN TO WOMAN, I feel this lifestyle is going down hill. I’ve heard stories of $1000 nights just in clubs..I’ve yet to see one without extra. WHERE ARE THEY!? I know there is still money in the clubs, but where?
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When I lived in Miami I had $1,000 nights even more . This was once or twice a week too.
Things definitely have change
Not saying there aren't dancers that can bank high, but it doesn't seem to be the norm that "hey I'll just start dancing and make $1K min every night if not more" - this is analogous to pro-athletes when one hears a quarterback making $25-million per year but in reality the median NFL salary is actually $850k per year but one just hears about the big salaries, so it's not as "hey I'm in the NFL I'm gonna make $25-million per year".
1) for the most-part, although there are exceptions, the good $$$ clubs are often the upscale clubs and in many areas they don't seem to hire a lot of AAs and the few they hire often need to have a certain-look i.e. more Caucasian-features or slim-girls that are not thick - this is not universal but does seem to happen quite a bit and in some areas/cities more than others - i.e. AA girls seem to often times have a harder-time in the biz particularly w.r.t. the big-$$$ upscale clubs
2) IME, in a mixed-club, a lot of the custies seem to often go for the skinny-blond with the fake-tits - IME it seems white-custies don't go for black-girls w/ the same regularity as they go for the whitegirls (as far as I can tell)
Thus these "may" be some reasons that an AA dancer may not make as much as some white-bitches do LOL - again it's not set-in-stone but it does seem to be a factor.
1) GPS side effects. Some girls are attempting to charge high fees for a brief ITC encounter. This drives customers away in the long run. Always remember that 3 x $200 is much more than 1 x $400. And this imbalance is made worse when the $400 sucker decides that it wasn't worth the money and spends his money elsewhere.
2) The rise of internet porn
3) Casual hookup culture, often made even easier through lots of apps and smart phone programs.
Most of your money is coming from a dying Generation. Where sex is cheaper than dances long term.
One nice thing about stripperweb, is that year after year there is always a thread to inform you that the industry has declined. Here’s some links offered, and I purposely kept it to 2003-2005: a time period where supposedly we could have been wiping our butts with $100 bills.
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showth…
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How many shifts per week do you work? Do you know which shifts for your club is better than others? Don't just assume it's the late weekend night.
*For example, at the club I've worked at most recently--it was freaking trash. Full of local townies who want you to sit with them for fucking ever in a $20/dance club with no vip. (And often even less money with the half hour dance specials) When a club saturates to over 50% regs it fucking sucks. Well okay, if it's daytime I have an easier time with regs but night time and regs are the fucking worst.
How many hours are you working per shift? There's pros and cons between short and long shifts--depending on the club set up and your work style.
What is the total cost to work per shift? In other words, what is the expected house + tip out? That is already going to be a sinkhole that should be factored in ahead of time. If there's VIPs, how much money is going to be taken out?
Things that theoretical math won't take into account: stage tipping culture and number of customers who happily tip on top of dances at the end. I've noticed this kind of stuff more often outside of Texas. It's tough for me to put a finger on that kind of stuff and account for it, however. And whether it's useful to consider that kind of stuff.
Next area of opportunity is to pretend you're happy and having a great time. Even if your life is shit in 17 different ways, you're an actress and the role is to be happy and having a great time. Then take an interest in people. Get the guy talking about himself; work, hobbies, travel, sports, whatever. We all like talking about ourselves.
Touch the guys you're talking to. It can be on the shoulder or the knee (or crotch, depending on the club and its rules). But touching even on a shoulder gets people more interested.
If you're not doing extras and a guy asks, offer to set him up with a girl who will take care of him. I've tipped for that, and maybe the extras girl tipped the non-extras girl too. I hope so.
If this advice helps you make money, send me a message offering a free dance next time I'm in your town.
Also, send this message to 20 friends by Friday, or your entire family will turn vegan
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Do you think that girls who are regularly having $1k nights maybe have more experience under their belt??
Something to consider.
Not in my area of northeast FL, at least not on Thursday through Sunday nights. The clubs have been hopping here. Same with dayshift at a couple of them.