strip club behavior
Was in Vegas recently and went to Little Darlings on their locals nights which gives locals free admission. It was a chill night, nothing crazy. Lots of people do hookah and it’s a nude club with alcohol.
There was this dude though. Chubby, alone, loud though, and kinda pervy. He would go from stage to stage tipping a dollar or two and trying to get like his face in girls titties or cooch. If the dancer was extra handsy or gave a bit more contact or view he would rush to the stage or to the dancer and try it again, give a dollar or two and get all handsy. At one point he got close too me and I gave him a WTF is your problem look and he said sorry and went back to being an ass. Finally after maybe like 45 mins to an hour security told him to leave.
Question is, would you guys say something to staff? Dudes were looking at him like what’s his deal and I even started looking for staff like, “you guys going to do something about this?” Or do you just wait it out? The club wasn’t popping like the Rhino so there is probably only or two security guys but he was killing the mood. What would you do?
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As far as I'm concerned it's up to the staff to decide when a custy is acting out of line - as long as he's not messing with me personally it's not my place to tell him how to act - I just focus my attention on me and my visit
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You seem like a judgmental prick, chubby, alone, pervy...its a strip club settle down and let the man enjoy cool guy, not hurting anyone.
Who's the masta?! Me...
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Sometimes it can be quite entertaining
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Yeah, dude, if he's not fucking with you it's none of your business. You got a story out if it.
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I would disagree with some of the guys who have spoken up so far. I do think there are rare situations where you should step in. If a girl is drugged to the point of being unconscious and a guy has her in a spot security can't see that is a situation where I would go tell security.
My CF/SB was actually roofied at the club about a month ago.
As far as the situation with the OP where a guy was being handsy stage side. That definitely is a situation where going to security would not be appropriate. But if it involved a baby stripper that I knew somewhat I might talk to her afterwards and give her some tips on how to get out of that situation.
I think that on TUSCL strippers are generally over characterized here as all being heartless predators. And I have seen a lot of new girls who are literally too scared to defend themselves or don't know when to speak up or to what level they can fight back. Back to the situation with the OP I think it would have been totally appropriate for a girl to just snatch the dollar out of the guys hand the second he gets too handsy and that is what I would tell a baby stripper to do.
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Paul, I get what you're saying, but that just sounded like an excuse to tell a story. Those two things are obviously not the same. There's plenty of times I've quietly helped someone out at a club the same way I sometimes helped dumb freshmen chicks not get a train run on them at a college party, but even so I have no problem calling what I'd do a game time decision. Sometimes that girl or customer just learns a life lesson and the beat goes on. Me getting tangled up in strip club drama is literally the exact opposite of why I go to strip clubs.
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Eh. If he's not in my way or doing anything dangerous, then it's not my business. It doesn't sound like he was in "stealth" mode, so it's all on security.
That said, you now have a story about meeting Juice.
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The mature thing to do is to escort him out into the parking lot and bust a cap in his ass.
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===> "Question is, would you guys say something to staff?"
No. It's up to the dancers and security to determine how much stage contact is OK. The fact that his behavior rankled your delicate sensibilities is a YOU thing.
That's not to say that there isn't a time, but for me it has to me more egregious. I've stepped in twice over the years, but in both instances the fucking retards were snapping bras/straps, which startled and hurt the dancers, just to get their attention while they were sitting with me. /discussion.php
Oh, and as you'll note in the linked thread, I didn't run to security. IMHO if a grown man takes issue with another man's behavior, he should have the sack to take it up with him directly.
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I think I would just have a good laugh.
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Security and the dancers are going to handle something like this much better than a customer trying to intervene in the circumstances described by the OP.
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Like the others, I tend to sit back and watch guys like this with amusement, maybe accompanied by a small feeling of superiority :) If I happen to be with a stripper, making jokes about that guy can be a fun bonding moment. Different if he's being purposely malicious, but a guy who appears to have been sexually frustrated his whole life, basically letting loose and celebrating beautiful women? Kinda makes me smile to watch. At least until he inevitably steps over the line and gets tossed
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love those types of guys. Brings down the cost of time because he's so obnoxious, me being relaxed and tipping $2 looks infinitly better in comparison.
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It is my observed experience that being an asshole rarely gets you anywhere good. I also believe in Karma.
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Little Darlings doesn't serve alcohol.
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I wouldn’t be surprised if the individual being described by the OP was Liwet 😂😂
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-->"He would go from stage to stage tipping a dollar or two and trying to get like his face in girls titties or cooch."
^Sounds like TJ, not Vegas, is the place for him.
I wouldn't have intervened or alerted security, but would have moved seats if I'd been at rail next to him. OP's review of this club visit got approved today and states the dude got tossed by security after 45-60 min: /review.php
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"... I wouldn’t be surprised if the individual being described by the OP was Liwet ..."
LOL
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It was a great 45 minutes☺🍑🍆🤕
WCG
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I wouldn’t say anything to management or security. This is a strip club, and if the guy was out of line, the dancers would have called security over to stop him.
If a guy gets handsy with a dancer who is on stage, that’s just dumb. It’s easy to get bounced for that shit. I know some guys can’t handle staring bare pussy in the face - but those guys shouldn’t be in a nude club.
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Plenty of shit annoys me inside strip-clubs (and even outside strip clubs) - but I can't expect everyone to live/SC by my rules/desires
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Some people just don't know how to act. Sounds like somebody to make fun of to another stripper I got on my lap.
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sounds like me after a few too many drinks (10). HOWEVER I would have been tipping a lot more than a dollar or ten. I'd be grabbing ass and tipping at least $11 or greater. Do I get a pass for tipping like a baller?
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