I've LFK and DFK with a few, but I've never asked for it. When it has happened the dancer has always initiated it. It's not something I'm really looking for in a lap dance.
Also I've never asked a dancer if I can suck her titties. Some have specifically asked me to suck their tits and others have just stuck their nipples on my lips at which point I assume they're ok with me kissing or sucking them. So far, none have gotten upset at me for doing so.
I rarely DFK or LFK a dancer. I can think of only four I have ever done this with, and in each case it was the dancer who initiated it. One dancer used to DFK, while giving me a HJ and I fingered her. It was kind of a game to her to see who could get the other off first. She always won.
I have sucked a lot of dancers breasts over the years. Depending on the club, you may ask, but in most cases if a dancer sticks her nipples between my lips I start licking and sucking. Only had two ever say not to do that.
All the time on both accounts . Dancer initiates it. Never asked for it. Same goes for FS. Dancer initiates it. Never ask for it. If it happens, it happens.
WTF is this a real question? Yer posting in the VIP room and you ask this? I've frikkin straight up banged bitches not to mention CBJ and HJ. It all depends if u er in an extras club or not. Generally nude clubs are going to be much looser.
I would have to think everyone here has unless you're a total newbie. Some strippers seem to require it or else you are failing as a customer. I even had a bartender let me suck her tits. Not the best looking bartender, mind you, but she was at least an F cup.
Kissing - kissing is real for me, clubbing is an exercise in fantasy, so, no.
Sucking boobs (nipples) - No, but almost. My 1st lap dance, I got motor-boated, freaking loved it. If boobs spend time in my face, I'll caress, nuzzle, feel, squeeze (lightly), verbally admire, and hold them. I'll play with nipples. I'll kiss cleavage, underboob, side boob, and areola. Even plant a dry, short kiss on nipples. (This all presumes a dancer acting completely ok/encouraging such play.)
But I won't suck them. That's my line. Why?
Talk(s) with wife on this resulted in permission for clubbing (occasionally), and lap dances, but not sex. Sucking nipples is early stage sex in my world (or at least an attempt to go there), so I will not go there. I prefer having a definite line not to cross, but, in baseball terms, I love taking it to the warning track.
I've done it all in VIP. Kissing, DATY, DATO. One time, I arrived in Toronto and hit a club before my hotel. I was finger banging a girl in VIP and she squirted all over me for a good half hour. I had to go check into my hotel smelling like pussy in drenched pants. lol
I remember I was once as ignorant as the OP. I would have sworn that boob sucking and kissing with dancers never happens.
It just depends on the type of club you're in. In some clubs, boob sucking and DFK is par for the course. And in those clubs, it is the dancer who intiates or gives you the invite to do it. They'll start kissing you, or they will pretty much shove their boob in your mouth. So you don't have to ask. Me personally, if I don't get some kind of green light that it's ok then I don't attempt either.
In other clubs, attempting that stuff will get you scolded or thrown out. The dancer won't initiate it and you probably shouldn't even ask at that point.
it seems like a lot of people are getting very hyper on me, but I would just like to say that not all strip clubs are as liberal as they are in USA, I am in europe and over here most of the times the clubs wont even allow you to touch, forget about kissing, which is why I asked this question
I hope I wasn't one of the folks you were referring to when you said people are getting hyper on you. My word choice of "ignorant" wasn't supposed to be an insult. As I admitted I was also ignorant of all that can possibly happen in strip clubs.
Thanks for the clarification that you are from across the pond. Here in the US we have plenty of clubs that have the same strict policies regarding touching the dancer that you described. However, if you're in Europe, wouldn't an FKK be just a train ride away?
I suppose I spend more time counting the number of times I raw-dogged a 19 year old spinner in VIP (surprisingly more than you might think, BTW....) more than I have counting the times I got lips-to-nipple or lips-to-lips contact.
But if I have to make an estimate, I'd say about 50% of my dances achieve at least one of these delights.
Hell no, I'm just there for good wholesome fantasy. I prefer to stick with the less intimate activities like having her suck my dick and fuck me. Why would I try to take the fantasy to the next level like kissing, that's way to personal for a business transaction like this.
As a rule I didn't kiss strippers for years, and for years on TUSCL I posted that I didn't. My ATF cured me of that the first time I ever got a dance from her.
If I'm in a town that does pasties, I have to really want some boob action to start messing around with goo. Otherwise I just go with the flow.
I DFK'd countless strippers after they sucked my cock and I came in their mouth. Sucked on thousands of nipples over years. Ate out hundreds of pussies and even gave some attention to a few heiney holes. This is what strip clubbing is all about.
"If I'm in a town that does pasties, I have to really want some boob action to start messing around with goo. Otherwise I just go with the flow."
It's always fun to read my own words years later on a topic. Some of these younger dancers are layering on the paint like it's an art school project. If you don't want them messed with just don't show them lol. But since I'm stuck in club purgatory right now I've just learned to appreciate the taste of latex. Eventually the tongue gets to what it wants... but the better dancers just use stickers so they can pick and choose who gets the nips
With most of the dancers I've gotten dances from, they did not want my mouth anywhere on them. I've only had one fav who would kiss me on the mouth. Dancers who allow your mouth on their boobs generally seem to be much more comfortable with kissing/tonguing their nipples, not actual sucking. Her nips were made to be sucked by a small baby, not a grown man.
One fav stuck her tongue down my throat the first dance we ever did. But I didn't press her for kissing after that, so it was the one and only time.
Unfortunately, some dances will hold their mouth/nipple near your mouth just as a tease. I slowly lean in to the side of her mouth/nipple. If she doesn't back away, I give her some dry pecks. The ones who are OK with it will them put their mouth/nipple into your mouth.
The majority of escorts I saw were also thumbs down on my mouth on them. One didn't even want to be caressed, she said "you're suppose to touch me with your dick, not your hands".
I have mostly been a PL in the less rick-friendly parts of the US, so YMMV.
Does gently encircling the nipple with your teeth and sucking on it count? In all seriousness has been since January 1, 2024, since I did anything like that.
95% of all lap dances i lick and suck the tits. the key is usually to tease her a little so she wants it more. some girls love nipple play, some only tolerate it for their guys. bit what's more fun is to see whether she's into licking her own tits, if that's your thing.
i DFK every regular, though we usually use her hair as a privacy cover during a lap dance, and the action is a little bit less wet than it is when we are alone.
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Also I've never asked a dancer if I can suck her titties. Some have specifically asked me to suck their tits and others have just stuck their nipples on my lips at which point I assume they're ok with me kissing or sucking them. So far, none have gotten upset at me for doing so.
I have sucked a lot of dancers breasts over the years. Depending on the club, you may ask, but in most cases if a dancer sticks her nipples between my lips I start licking and sucking. Only had two ever say not to do that.
All the time!!!!!
In VIP, on the floor🤷🏻♀️
Kissing - kissing is real for me, clubbing is an exercise in fantasy, so, no.
Sucking boobs (nipples) - No, but almost. My 1st lap dance, I got motor-boated, freaking loved it.
If boobs spend time in my face, I'll caress, nuzzle, feel, squeeze (lightly), verbally admire, and hold them. I'll play with nipples. I'll kiss cleavage, underboob, side boob, and areola. Even plant a dry, short kiss on nipples. (This all presumes a dancer acting completely ok/encouraging such play.)
But I won't suck them. That's my line. Why?
Talk(s) with wife on this resulted in permission for clubbing (occasionally), and lap dances, but not sex. Sucking nipples is early stage sex in my world (or at least an attempt to go there), so I will not go there. I prefer having a definite line not to cross, but, in baseball terms, I love taking it to the warning track.
I should go get checked.
It just depends on the type of club you're in. In some clubs, boob sucking and DFK is par for the course. And in those clubs, it is the dancer who intiates or gives you the invite to do it. They'll start kissing you, or they will pretty much shove their boob in your mouth. So you don't have to ask. Me personally, if I don't get some kind of green light that it's ok then I don't attempt either.
In other clubs, attempting that stuff will get you scolded or thrown out. The dancer won't initiate it and you probably shouldn't even ask at that point.
Thanks for the clarification that you are from across the pond. Here in the US we have plenty of clubs that have the same strict policies regarding touching the dancer that you described. However, if you're in Europe, wouldn't an FKK be just a train ride away?
But if I have to make an estimate, I'd say about 50% of my dances achieve at least one of these delights.
If I'm in a town that does pasties, I have to really want some boob action to start messing around with goo. Otherwise I just go with the flow.
Most stripper's boobs are generally home sitting on the couch playing video games and getting high while she's out supporting him
@roshi - no, ive never made it past eskimo kisses :(
seems kinda strange to me that the same continent that has widespread and quasi-to-fully legal prostitution doesnt allow touching in strip clubs...
It's always fun to read my own words years later on a topic. Some of these younger dancers are layering on the paint like it's an art school project. If you don't want them messed with just don't show them lol. But since I'm stuck in club purgatory right now I've just learned to appreciate the taste of latex. Eventually the tongue gets to what it wants... but the better dancers just use stickers so they can pick and choose who gets the nips
One fav stuck her tongue down my throat the first dance we ever did. But I didn't press her for kissing after that, so it was the one and only time.
Unfortunately, some dances will hold their mouth/nipple near your mouth just as a tease. I slowly lean in to the side of her mouth/nipple. If she doesn't back away, I give her some dry pecks. The ones who are OK with it will them put their mouth/nipple into your mouth.
The majority of escorts I saw were also thumbs down on my mouth on them. One didn't even want to be caressed, she said "you're suppose to touch me with your dick, not your hands".
I have mostly been a PL in the less rick-friendly parts of the US, so YMMV.
LFK - at least several dozen
DFK - about a third to a half of the above
Eaten pussy - maybe 10
Eaten ass - once and never again
i DFK every regular, though we usually use her hair as a privacy cover during a lap dance, and the action is a little bit less wet than it is when we are alone.