How many OTCs have you done so far this year? With how many different girls?
Personally I've had OTCs with two different girls since I started going to SCs in May. If I count dinners, I've had about 5-6 OTCs this year so far. I am a little picky though.
20 or so I would guess All with the same ATF. Maybe a third were platonic - hanging out, dinner, coffee, no business. Hell she picked up the tab a few times. We still meet up ITC but it transitioned to about 80% OTC earlier this year.
I have a couple more on deck that have been bugging me about OTC. Just haven't had time and I prefer the ATF when I do. But see the others ITC enough to keep them on deck.
Let's see. Let me think for a minute. OK, noneš
I just remembered a couple of dinners with another girl, so probably 3 girls and about 8 OTCs. Two were sexual in nature, one was not.
I don't consider it an "OTC" if it's not sexual.
^^^ well, in that case ... ZERO for me.
OTC is not my goal but so far this year 7 different BG, DS on perhaps 20-25 "dates"
None. Haven't had much desire to go to strip clubs to meet anyone I could possibly do OTC with. It hasn't helped that my car is beginning to break down and I need a new one soon.
no otc this year.
itc... not including tj... super hi milage... maybe ten.
2 and then she got clingy and high maintenance so I bailed.
Just a couple OTC - 1 at her place and a car-date with another girl. ITC - 20 dancers, 3-5x with about 6-7 of them. No 3-somes, but thereās been a couple chances! Hoped to hit 30 this year, but I have so much fun with several of these that Iām reluctant to chase others and lose my āstandingā! Just BJās with another 5 or so. An expensive hobby at times, but very gratifying!
Over 8+ months? Honestly I've lost track.
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OK. If we are counting nonsexual meetups, then three dinner only dates. My bad.
I've had one. OK, twice if you count the number of occasions, but with the same girl. The setup started out with her giving me a shoulder/neck massage after a table dance, which felt good. She said her other job is that of a masseuse. I asked if she did outcalls - she asked for my number and messaged me the next day to fix a time for the visit to my hotel room. The visit started out as a regular massage except that we were both in our birthday suits. Things developed from there - she was ok to take it as far as I wanted to but I had my own limits! Then at a future visit to Fort Lauderdale, I texted her to see if she wanted to come over. She agreed to come the next day. Since I was staying at a beach resort this time I asked her to bring her bathing suit and enjoy the facilities with me. After the 'massage' session, we hung out poolside and at the beach bar for a nice relaxing fun time. I just paid for the massage time and her Uber rides back and forth, and of course picked up the bar bill, but the rest of the time was her own choice. I'm planning another visit soon, and be sure to reach out to her again! Only thing is, I'm a little worried about making it a regular occurrence that eats time away from the strip clubs!
None. For now Iām ok with getting it in the club.
Maybe when I get more comfortable Iāll try that option. Donāt really care to get that close to women at the moment.
I have done none. This equals my lifetime amount, as well as the number of times I have accepted a number from a dancer.
OTC with 4 different women, (about to be a fifth this weekend) only 10x, been to busy with work to do more.
10 to 15 OTC. More to come. Itās only October.
Sexual OTC... ZERO.
OTC (Inside a SC for dinner) in which I met her for the first time in person, ONE. All other OTC, ZERO.