Signs of Addiction
Muddy
USA
I’ve been noticing it growing lately, getting even more pronounced. But I think I might be addicted to strip clubs. Everything I watch on TV is shit to me now. Every movie is fucking terrible and corny as fuck. Watching sports, why am i watching other dudes have fun? Even music doesn’t do it for me like it used too.
The only thing I think about and the only that matters is going to the strip club. The only thing I get excited about.
The problem I can’t go 24/7 I would trust me if I could but I need more money. This has been my mind of late
Pussy,Money, Money, Pussy,Pussy, Money, Money, Pussy, Pussy, Money, Pussy etc. that’s it.
I need more money and more pussy in my life. And I need it fucking now. And tommorow. And the rest of forever. When I’m work or sleeping all it is to me is waiting to go to the fucking strip club. When friends and and CoWorkers speak to me all the saying to me “not pussy” and “not money” unless they specifically telling me instructions to attain one of those two things.
It’s starting to affect the rest of my life, As in draining the joy out of every other aspect outside the strip club. Maybe it’s the penalty for having too much fun, where it just fucks up fun forever.
Has anybody else dealt with this in anyway? And how did you handle it?
The only thing I think about and the only that matters is going to the strip club. The only thing I get excited about.
The problem I can’t go 24/7 I would trust me if I could but I need more money. This has been my mind of late
Pussy,Money, Money, Pussy,Pussy, Money, Money, Pussy, Pussy, Money, Pussy etc. that’s it.
I need more money and more pussy in my life. And I need it fucking now. And tommorow. And the rest of forever. When I’m work or sleeping all it is to me is waiting to go to the fucking strip club. When friends and and CoWorkers speak to me all the saying to me “not pussy” and “not money” unless they specifically telling me instructions to attain one of those two things.
It’s starting to affect the rest of my life, As in draining the joy out of every other aspect outside the strip club. Maybe it’s the penalty for having too much fun, where it just fucks up fun forever.
Has anybody else dealt with this in anyway? And how did you handle it?
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If nothing else it will enable you to have even more money. 😃
I’m just gonna have to get a higher paying job here. And live box 📦 so I can pocket that rent, or rather shove it into a local g string
And I’m not even sure it’s a bad thing. I’m doing EXACTLY what I want to do. But the problem what I’m doing is sooooo fucking goooooood that just fucks everything else up.
I do very seriously want to know is you all have dealt with anything similar?
No. I've never had this happen to me. And I hope it never does.
Last year I saw the potential for SC addiction, was going too much spending money I didn’t have. Took a 6 month break to get my head together.
The root is the addicted brain has lowered levels of dopamine (which very much generalizing it, is caused from chronic stress) and these additions give us a “hit” of dopamine. It doesn’t have to be cocaine you’re doing to get these feel good chemicals.
There’s also a school of thought which I believe is that addictions are at their core, the brains way of substituting for social connections. Humans were designed/ evolved (not having this argument now, pick what makes you happy) to be very social animals and to live in social groups. Our society today is not set up to support this core need. There is so much research to show the detrimental effects of isolation and even decreased social networks among people, and animals.
Anyway long story short, if you want to stop your addiction, you might want to consider taking a break and spending more time with friends or family. Being around people and connecting with them.
Or if you don’t, just keep going to SC. I mean pussy is awesome. And probably won’t kill you like some addiction would.
It’s up to you.
Take up a hobby. Take a trip somewhere nice where there are no strip clubs. Take a break...
I assume you are a young-ish guy, and single - how the f' not are you not gonna like SCs - if you are not getting nookie on the regular from hot chicks, which most dudes are not lucky enough to get, then it's only sensical that you feel the way you do - you're a young-guy w/ a strong-sex-drive and SCs satisfy that desire - plenty of guys are going-around dissatisfied w/ the amount/quality of sex they get - going to SCs and enjoying yourself and satisfying that need is better than being hard-up and dragging as many guys are.
You are young and you are horny - you have to satisfy your need somehow and SCs are better than not satisfying it all - if you get a GF you enjoy fucking then that perhaps will take away a lot of your need to hit SCs but that usually entails being in a relationship and there's pros and cons to that including finding the right-person.
Nothing lasts forever and at some point you'll likely transition out of SCing as much as you currently do - i.e. at some point likely it won't be as exhilarating as it currently is.
But the remedy to this addiction is just to start recreating what you learn in the strip club, in our outside life. Start seeing your favorite girls outside.
For me I will be doing photo sessions with them, as that gets them to dress and paint up for me.
But beyond that, the organization I am working to build will solve all related conflicts.
SJG
I’ve heard travel dancer advice before to work in military towns on the 1st and 15th before. So you can’t be the only one lol.
And damn I thought this would feel more like an AA meeting than being the only drunk guy at the party. Shit. And to be clear Papi it’s not necessarily girls (although that is the heart and soul of it but the strip club in general is like one big Vegas game. The whole thing is addicting as fuck to me. Money, charm, timing, all the variables added in. The whole thing is a fucking blast.
And I just can’t get enough. Take it Depeche Mode!
I’ve found it helpful to force myself to connect with other people and friends outside of work, and to go back to old enjoyable hobbies. I used to be an avid golfer before discovering strip clubs 7 years ago. I’ve gone back to that form of entertainment to ease the strain on the wallet.
Clubbing too much, or over-indulgence in anything, can compromise your long term, and short term, financial well-being, if you aren’t careful.
Heed the warning signs! Life balance is a key to happiness.
So I have to get money other ways.
SJG
"I agree with Icey. Time to transition into being a pimp, that way your life is pussy and money all mixed together all the time."
I agree too!
SJG