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My take on icey

AtAboy

Still learning to proofread

So here my assessment of icey.
I spoke hastily before, but I’ve since had my morning coffee and took a moment to think about the conflicting persona, both the icey concerned with calling out misogynists and the icey telling others how to get bitches. And that Icey is a woman. I was incorrect saying controlling mother, as that would be the issue if icey were a man.

My impression is that icey is a younger woman home with young kids, with a boyfriend or husband that frequents strip clubs. He doesn’t treat her well nor is he discrete about his clubbing. Icey has a history of men that have treated her poorly. She’s outspoken in real life, but lacks the social support or income or courage to leave her current situation. And so he ignores her and leaves he with the kids while he galavants around.

With much time on her hands as she’s home with kids, she joined and been swayed by other groups regarding women’s rights and how men are keeping them down. She is her true self in these groups.

Her bitch slapping, hoe banging comments and advice isn’t real. I read that one post with all that advice on getting a stripper as almost satirical. It’s meant to be mocking us, the men here, that we would need such advice because that is how shitty we are towards women.

Icey sees us as pigs.

She sees men as the enemy and here she feels she’s infiltrated enemy lines.

I found it interesting that she assumed me calling her a woman was an insult, meaning she assumes as a man I’d look down on a woman. Then calls me a misogynist, assuming again I look down on woman and don’t even see them as equals, THEN attempts to insult my masculinity.
This is a classic pattern of a very wounded woman, that has been or is currently being controlled by a man. She is in the victim role. It’s HIS fault and must pay. Men are to blame for her current situation.
I can’t say there’s daddy issues. But generally women that end up in controlling relationships didn’t have adequate male role models.

Icey, it’s been fun, and I wish you luck. I hope your man starts treating you right. Sorry he’s been stepping out on you. Don’t get down on yourself. Women can still look totally hot after kids no matter what he tells you.