Porn vs The Real Thing

I struggle with “needs” versus “wants”. For a variety of reasons I’ve been avoiding too many club visits. I’m entering month 3 of a 3 month course of a medication for Hepatitus C (genome 1a). The drug is Epclusa and a 30 day supply has a retail price of $29,304.20. That’s less than $90k for the 3 months. Fortunately my co-pay is $30. per month. However there are some side effects and I prefer dealing with them at home.
Frankly, most porn by itself, doesn’t row my boat too well, so I’ve found a wonderful mid-ground. When my ATF’s fiancé is at work we’ll get on the phone and we’ll pick a porn site and selections and both watch it at the same time with her narrating. This invariably gets her started on describing an “adventure” which is usually grounded in reality but is embellished by her fantasies. Today we were on the phone for about 45 minutes, she described in detail the time she took on two well hung men with one dick choking her while another took her from behind. True fact - she told me the guy fucking her from behind “splooged” all over her back. I asked her if it was the Most Reverend Hornibastard because I’d expect him to splooge, but she had no idea who I was talking about. Then the other guy let loose in her mouth and down her throat. She really gets into her story telling and makes porn “cum alive”. Following our time together I bought her a pair of shoes that she’s been wanting. $45.00
Just like above; not as good as the real thing, but better than watching some guy with a 10” Dick get his balls drained on screen.

Well, now that I know what’s really going on, the real thing is the way to go for me. The porn in my head is good enough.

When I watch porn, I feel like a kid in a wheel chair watching other kids playing soccer....

@Cristobal Agree that my need for porn gets pushed back several days after experiencing actually pussy, and that the need for actual pussy increases after viewing several days of porn.
@gawker I typically avoid watching the young, fit, handsome guys with 10-inch cocks in the porn I view since it's just a complete fantasy. I prefer seeing older guys banging hot, young babes, or even MILF types, because it's something I can relate to. I look at it and say "Shit, if that guy is getting lucky, so can I."

@iceyloco

That summed it up perfectly

Porn + Flesh light = real thing 😄.

I saw research that showed real thing increases oxytocin while porn does not, so I think you are really having a very different experience biochemically.

There's no substitute for feeling a woman get hot and sweaty in your arms, blush, submit to you, her smell, touch, feeling her...hearing her... Porn can't compare.

@iceyloco

You know it!!!

I prefer the real thing because it indulges and engulfs all the senses, where as Porn is mainly for the eyes.

@japrufrock

After some crazy days in TJ, I have no need for porn for two or three weeks.

Though I do have to fight off the desire to head back to TJ/COI so quickly.

Those are the days I try to work on my civvie game.

I think porn desensitizes people too much though. A lot of younger guys really believe that porn is like sex or a viable alternative and think they don't need sex coz of porn. Some men are so used to jerking off they can't get hard with a woman coz the sensation is so different...

^^ kinda makes me think that maybe a restriction better than "must be 18 or older" would be "only for handicapped or non-virgins"

Yeeeeeeeeeep

Yes agreed Cristobal something about about porn just makes the fantasy so fucking fantastic though. Nothing is gonna be real but often times it’s not what you think it will be when your watching porn for me at least

@iceyloco

I agree porn can desensitize.

I notice it with my nephews and their friends, the view about sex is shaped by porn.