dancer soliciting for OTC.
Have anyone been solicited for OTC activities during a dance or to go to the champagne lounge for more mileage? This happened to me the other day and what a turn off it was. The dancer did a hard sell on trying to get me to pay for her services. It ruined my time there and I left. Have you encountered this and how did you handle it?
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ITC
Inside The Club - As opposed to OTC (Outside The Club).
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OTC
Outside The Club - Meeting with a dancer for anything from an after work snack at Denny's to a dinner date to an escort session. Not usually approved of by the club or by many dancers.
If the dancer is someone I find desirable, and the sell is done is a sexy,seductive way, I like it.
If the dancer is someone I find loud, brassy and obnoxious, and the sell is done with all the finesse of a hotdog dealer at Wrigley Field, I don't like it.
To one of the posters, the dancer's name is Olivia....but you'll have to figure out which club. hahaha
Some girls are a pain in the ass but they are all just trying to make a living. For every guy like you that is bothered by it there are plenty of drunken stupid customers who she will make some money off of. Live and let live/buyer beware.
It would be nice if you could help keep her from ruining other guys' experiences, however I wouldn't waste an ounce of energy on anger or revenge. Instead, try to learn from the experience to better spot that type of bitch so you can avoid them before you agree to a dance. Buyer beware.
In my opinion, that is an EXCELLENT point, and truly ought to be the centerpiece of all competent strip-club management.
(Then again, how would Bluto the idiot bouncer get his free blowjobs, if he let that brilliant idea operate ...)
There have been dozens of threads on this board over the years about dancers lying to get you to spend money on them. For the dancer it's a sales environment and everyone has a different approach. There is a fair amount of BS on the customer's side in many cases as well. It's all part of the environment once you walk into a club. Maybe I'm jaded but to me it's just not that big of a deal.
I agree that most clubs do allow dancer/customer relations to be self-policing as much as possible. As Book Guy notes, it's the crappy clubs that don't get it. Policies like counting dances in order to take their cut, or limiting the time dancers can sit with a customer are always a sign of bad management. The best clubs see their role as providing a venue for hot women to do their thing, then turning 'em loose. At any rate, knowing that a better-run club is disinclined to ingtervene in a dispute is good to bear in mind.
I agree that you can't be sure whether you'll like a girl's dances until you buy one. However, one can learn to spot the outright rip-off bitches and avoid them. It's not just a matter of personal preference. They're a different breed. I often see dancers who bear all the signs, but it's probably been 10 years since I've been suckered by one. That's why my main advice to theknifex (the original poster) is to try to learn from the experience.
RIP Gold Club. I barely knew ya.
I thought one dancer at one club was joking when she told me she wanted me to take her out to dinner. Little did I realize at the moment she wasn't. Everything else she was doing makes sense to me now. Told me she didn't have a boyfriend for 3 years (thinking yeah right). I made a few casual comments that made her think I may like her. The waitress asked me if I would like to pay for her drink as well as mine so I said ok. When the dancer saw that, she insisted on paying me for her drink saying she never asked me to pay for it. When was the last time a dancer insisted on paying you for her own drink after you already paid the waitress? Then she sat and chatted with me for a while and kept coming back. Then she asked me again saying she would like to go out to eat with me. Meanwhile I spotted another dancer (not working) from another club who I had been thinking about going out with (I have her name and number). She waved at me even though she was with some guy. I never asked her out so far. Meanwhile I'm left thinking, do I want to go out with the dancers or do I want to find some other girls to go out with? I guess a light bulb goes off when you realize a dancer is not joking and they don't seem to be after money. Either that or I need to stop leading dancers on when I'm drinking. It confuses me when I get approached by a female customer who is sitting with a guy. I'm thinking WTF? but then I found out she was a dancer at another club and for some reason wants me to get a dance (not from her though). said a girl was fingering her pussy and she wants me to get a dance from her. I'm thinking I didn't see that. Where was I? Obviously this was not in the club. I wouldn't mind meeting those girls OTC even though I did feel like they may know each other and tried to do a double team on me to get me to get a dance. Both hot girls. I'm wondering what was in that strawberry fragrance? I might be willing to put that on myself if it's that strong of an aphrodisiac.