The public library; she was in her late teens, working behind the desk; blonde blue eyes, long silky hair. She light up the entire place with her smile, and illuminate the world with her heart. She left for college and we lost touch. Five years later a friend and I walked in a Starbucks by the Beach in Southern Cali and she was in line ahead of us and saw me and looked and pointed at me and we both said at the same time the Library. One of the most beautiful girls I have meet in my life, nice, sweet, intelligent. Thank you for making me think about her and remember her.
Haha na she was working. And I was like hey you wanna go out after your shift? I’m proud of that, cause it took a lot of balls at the time. Shit still takes balls no doubt I was little younger and was crazy nervous.
Guys don't forget the walk-in freezer at your grocery store. It's def cooler than a college swimming pool and probs cooler than Alaska. .... and that's where the meat is.
frozen delicacies need to be thawed before licked and eaten. you needed to take her back to the front room before proceeding to the back room. protocol !
I think house parties are the best option for trying to pickup a girl. Its a matter of balance between anonymity and intimacy that allows the best environment. Nightclubs are too anonymous, so loud nobody can hear anybody, and the only way you can communicate with people is through dancing/body language which is very difficult. House parties allow a higher level of communication while still providing the anonymity and stimulation that loud music gives. Its not quite as loud as nightclubs are though so people can still talk to each other if they are right in-front of them. However, other people will not be able to.
Also the number of people in the environment can be a problem. Too many people and the girls who can pretty much fuck whoever they want get option paralysis and won't choose you, too few people and you have too few options.
I myself tried the library with the librarian, but it turned out she was married. Oops!
I did end up picking up a date with a lady from my local BWW back when I lived in Omaha. We went out twice, but that was it. I didn't go back to that BWW for 2 years after that.
Wedding reception. Yes, they made a movie about it. But there is some truth behind the Wedding Chasers story. Girls get a little horny around a wedding. And any single unattached girl is more than a little vulnerable when she goes to a wedding. I remember going to a cousins wedding in downtown Austin. All of the wedding party stayed in the same hotel that the reception was in. I ended up banging one of the bridesmaids that night.
The fruit and vegetable refrigerator in Costco, I had a sweatshirt wrapped around my neck and a nice looking young milf asked me to let her borrow it so she could pick out veggies she returned it to me with a phone number in my pocket, True story goes to show there is opportunity everyplace if you look.
The honky tonk country bars in the Phoenix area. You can literally sit at the bar, and you’d have to be gay to not get laid.
If Handle Bar J’s is still open in Scottsdale, Roosters in Mesa, and Norton’s befor it closed in Gilbert. I’ve been out of the game too long, but I literally sat at the bar and would watch the parade of women come through, make eyes, buy the lady a drink and it was on!
one day, a very pretty hispanic looking girl sat down beside me in class. i wanted an excuse to see her again (it was a big class-room), so i asked for her e-mail so we could help each other out in case one of us missed class one day. she gave me her e-mail
so one day we planned to meet in the library to study together. i thought it was going to be just her. turns out she brought along two of her girlfriends. so here i am in this study room with 3 other females. after we got done studying, i asked the girl would she exit the study room (where her friends we're) so that i could ask her something in the library
and so i asked her out to lunch and she didn't give me a yes or no answer. i didn't end up seeing her again. later on thru e-mail she told me that she knew i didn't mean any harm, but it made her feel uncomfortable because she was only looking for a study partner. i guess it was awkward due to my timing.
"college library." ------------- Lost my virginity freshman yr to beautiful grad student working in the library. She invited me to her place out of the blue.
Top 5 surprise hookup experiences in no particular order.
1- I got seduced by a worker at a Vegas weed dispensary. She kept staring and put her hand in mine when she handed over the weed, blushed and gave me her number. We texted and hooked up after her shift.
2- An Uber driver...young girl, very bubbly and just great personality...we really hit it off and had a back seat make out and blowjob session.
3- A bag girl at Vons.
4- The welfare office, lots of hot girls there...mostly single moms but still. Also lots of off duty dancers finessing the system...
5- I used to live at a place where they had different assistants working in the manager's office all the time. I ended up fucking more than a few of them... It was always hot young Latinas.
@phat boi, forgive me but you are so full of shit, anyone that believes a word you say send them down my way, I got a bridge across the east river I’m trying to sell, I’ll let it go cheap.
We're all full of shit, that's why we have bowel movements
But I forgot, you only believe whatever legitimates your myopic worldview.... You argue for the sake of arguing and to uphold your fragile little ego. Grow the fuck up.
"1- I got seduced by a worker at a Vegas weed dispensary. She kept staring and put her hand in mine when she handed over the weed, blushed and gave me her number. We texted and hooked up after her shift."
Since when do girls walk up to random guys out in the daylight hours and seduce them?
This sounds like something only an anime girl would do.
Well its like, at house parties when they are drunk sometimes girls do come up and start grinding on you or making conversation with you, or just making out with you. But out in normal daylight hours when nobody has alcohol in their system?
Yeah, people are open to meeting anyone anywhere. Obviously your approach and their actions are appropriate for the situation and place, but still. You never know who you're meet, where, when... time or place doesn't matter.
Also, you have to have your words decided. She must know why you are at the shopping mall instead of at work. She should also know why you are there, what you do, where you live or are from, etc.
At night clubs, they are dressed more sexy, but it will not be anywhere's near as easy to move on them.
Depends on the size of the mall. But you see them one or two times and if they flirt, talk to them. Sometimes its a like game for them, passing and flirting... if they like you they'll sit down in your view or walk into the same store. Things like that.
Not always heels and dresses, but sexy clothes, makeup. You see a lot of heels and dresses in Vegas malls and more upscale LA malls
As I reflect back, most of my successes were either at wedding receptions, company parties or groups of coworkers out on a Friday Happy Hour.
All of these outings have in common the appearance or illusion of familiarity. I imagine the women assume if you've been invited to the wedding/party/outing that you are not a serial killer.
I have rarely, if ever, had success with a total stranger at a bar with very few exceptions (maybe a couple New Years Eves).
In an indoor mall, there is lots of covered space in the area between the stores. You can scope out, and then move in.
In an outdoor mall, people just walk on a narrow path way under the awning. They go to a couple of stores, and then back to the car. Don't want to close on the girl when she is on the black top, or getting to her car.
In my experience, Indoor malls are better. People spend more time in them. Tends to be more female too. Slower shopping, more clothes oriented.
Out here the malls have areas to sit down, different clubs, restaurants, so people make a day of it and the common areas get a lot of interaction. Its great in the spring when it warms up and in the summer.
I've pick up at malls, night clubs, coffee shops, fast food restaurants, bars, car shows, but the coolest place was the gas station.
Yes, the gas station.
There was a hottie trying to put gas in her car and I saw she was struggling, so I helped her and it lead to a good conversation, which lead to a lunch date, and then some adult dessert.
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She light up the entire place with her smile, and illuminate the world with her heart.
She left for college and we lost touch.
Five years later a friend and I walked in a Starbucks by the Beach in Southern Cali and she was in line ahead of us and saw me and looked and pointed at me and we both said at the same time the Library.
One of the most beautiful girls I have meet in my life, nice, sweet, intelligent.
Thank you for making me think about her and remember her.
I tend to believe (and hope) when he wrote late teens, he meant 18.
Burger King bathroom?
Like the "Humpty Dance" by Digital Underground.
JK...
Warming up the igloo, Alaska would be cool.
I agree, ballsy move and you should be proud.
We both were 19 just out of High School, she left first to College...
flagooner - "Alaska"
Guys don't forget the walk-in freezer at your grocery store. It's def cooler than a college swimming pool and probs cooler than Alaska.
.... and that's where the meat is.
I tried (but failed) to pick up a cute Walmart employee who was restocking the frozen food section.
After a nice 5 minute semi-flirty conversation, she turned me down cold to a lunch invitation.
frozen delicacies need to be thawed before licked and eaten.
you needed to take her back to the front room before proceeding to the back room. protocol !
Early teens 13-14, mid teens 15-17, late teens 18-19.
Logic rules that in the case of a remainder number in a series of categories, the middle category should be the biggest.
I think house parties are the best option for trying to pickup a girl. Its a matter of balance between anonymity and intimacy that allows the best environment. Nightclubs are too anonymous, so loud nobody can hear anybody, and the only way you can communicate with people is through dancing/body language which is very difficult. House parties allow a higher level of communication while still providing the anonymity and stimulation that loud music gives. Its not quite as loud as nightclubs are though so people can still talk to each other if they are right in-front of them. However, other people will not be able to.
I did end up picking up a date with a lady from my local BWW back when I lived in Omaha. We went out twice, but that was it. I didn't go back to that BWW for 2 years after that.
A wedding reception is awesome (and inspiring).
In the past, I would just bring a date but I like the idea of trying to pick up a civvie and I have a wedding to attend in June/July, might be fun.
If Handle Bar J’s is still open in Scottsdale, Roosters in Mesa, and Norton’s befor it closed in Gilbert. I’ve been out of the game too long, but I literally sat at the bar and would watch the parade of women come through, make eyes, buy the lady a drink and it was on!
church. and my front porch.
one day, a very pretty hispanic looking girl sat down beside me in class. i wanted an excuse to see her again (it was a big class-room), so i asked for her e-mail so we could help each other out in case one of us missed class one day. she gave me her e-mail
so one day we planned to meet in the library to study together. i thought it was going to be just her. turns out she brought along two of her girlfriends. so here i am in this study room with 3 other females. after we got done studying, i asked the girl would she exit the study room (where her friends we're) so that i could ask her something in the library
and so i asked her out to lunch and she didn't give me a yes or no answer. i didn't end up seeing her again. later on thru e-mail she told me that she knew i didn't mean any harm, but it made her feel uncomfortable because she was only looking for a study partner. i guess it was awkward due to my timing.
At the Kentucky Derby when I was older.
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Lost my virginity freshman yr to beautiful grad student working in the library. She invited me to her place out of the blue.
At church?
I've picked up at church too, I wasnt listen to the preacher I was scouting the talent.
1- I got seduced by a worker at a Vegas weed dispensary. She kept staring and put her hand in mine when she handed over the weed, blushed and gave me her number. We texted and hooked up after her shift.
2- An Uber driver...young girl, very bubbly and just great personality...we really hit it off and had a back seat make out and blowjob session.
3- A bag girl at Vons.
4- The welfare office, lots of hot girls there...mostly single moms but still. Also lots of off duty dancers finessing the system...
5- I used to live at a place where they had different assistants working in the manager's office all the time. I ended up fucking more than a few of them... It was always hot young Latinas.
Lol, I believe he was at the unemployment/welfare office... Lol
But I forgot, you only believe whatever legitimates your myopic worldview.... You argue for the sake of arguing and to uphold your fragile little ego. Grow the fuck up.
Since when do girls walk up to random guys out in the daylight hours and seduce them?
This sounds like something only an anime girl would do.
But there they are not dressed sexy. For dressed sexy it is usually civvie night clubs. But not so easy there.
SJG
They are sensitive, so I limit it to one pass by, then come around to see her from the other side, then close.
can't follow her until she stops someplace good.
Guys who hit on them are fine, but not guys who hover around.
SJG
At night clubs, they are dressed more sexy, but it will not be anywhere's near as easy to move on them.
SJG
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Not always heels and dresses, but sexy clothes, makeup. You see a lot of heels and dresses in Vegas malls and more upscale LA malls
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All of these outings have in common the appearance or illusion of familiarity. I imagine the women assume if you've been invited to the wedding/party/outing that you are not a serial killer.
I have rarely, if ever, had success with a total stranger at a bar with very few exceptions (maybe a couple New Years Eves).
I will do the happy hour thing but I don't try to pick up a work mate, too much potential for disaster.
Never wedding receptions, which I do not go to, and never coworkers or their parties, which I do not go to.
SJG
One of only a handful of reasons I am glad I am not in my 20's anymore.
In an outdoor mall, people just walk on a narrow path way under the awning. They go to a couple of stores, and then back to the car. Don't want to close on the girl when she is on the black top, or getting to her car.
In my experience, Indoor malls are better. People spend more time in them. Tends to be more female too. Slower shopping, more clothes oriented.
YMMV
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Yes, the gas station.
There was a hottie trying to put gas in her car and I saw she was struggling, so I helped her and it lead to a good conversation, which lead to a lunch date, and then some adult dessert.
Lol... Nice, very nice.
Both inches?
True monger, even at a funeral
SJG
No I was not using your cock. I brought my own.
She asked who the gift was for, I told her my niece (it's not).
After talking for about 5 minutes, I offered to take her to lunch, she accepted, and had a nice conversation.
Afterwards we exchanged numbers, this could get interesting.
SJG