Common courtesy where to finish?

that's kind of a given

Last time I finished I did it inside and without a condom and she enjoyed it.

Do you attach your suspenders to your belt?

Seriously, with a condom on I don't understand how there's a courtesy aspect involved. Seems like wherever you want is the obvious answer.

Guess I just like to play it on the safer side.

Yes, without previous discussion it should be in the hat but sometimes you get lucky and she takes off the hat and takes it like a champ, that service always gets an extra tip.

I'm kind of confused about this question also. If someone is wearing a condom, why does it matter where they finish?

^ Exactly what I was thinking. A condom is bad enough, but imagine wearing one and still having to pull out to cum. Jerking off sounds like more fun than that.

sorry I ment
Cum in pussy with condom

Vs
Pulling out and taking off condom to cum on ass/boobs/face/etc

If you're going to pull out, why use a condom in the first place? Just make sure you're already out when you push yourself over the edge and don't put it back in after you've already come.

Girls get off on feeling when a guy cums, even inside of a condom.

It effects them. Let her have that. You aren't there to make a porno movie with a "money shot".

SJG