I've gotten to know some gorgeous 20s hotties from work. They all have BF but im just a safe friend as the BF sees me.
While these guys play xbox and ignore their ladies i spend time messaging them and making them laugh...even listen to their problems
Started taking some out on lunch dates that turn into victory secret shopping and shit lol... Kinda nice... They take picks and send it to me... I flirt like crazy with them
I feel like im living a fantasy LOL
Hope i dont slip and fuck one lol...harmless older mane LOL
You mean have to sit there for hours and listen to their gossip, views on life, what they think of various celebrities, relationship drama, etc., and then, after all of that, not even be able to fuck them? Sounds like Dante's Inferno to me.
JB it isn't that at all. I'm just not one to shop with a female especially if she is trying on clothes. It's not a winning combination and to me at least i value my time way too much.
I'm pretty good at buying gifts even but the difference is I put some thought into it before I head out the door. As far as lunch--yes if I have time.
Juice... You posted this here knowing that you would get opinions. And, frankly, if you're stunned by these opinions then you must be new here... and you're not.
I'm not going to tell you you're having fun wrong, but I'm also not obligated to agree that what is fun for you is necessarily fun for me.
Don't buy shit for women unless you have a vested interest in each other, as in a relationship, emotional bond, etc and maybe a professional relationship where you do it to boost morale.
But doing it just to get her attention will never work. She likes what you do for her, not you. And never spend money on a woman in a relationship, let her man buy shit for her.
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Yup, and the big dude sitting there with the shotgun is her BF. Good luck, juice!
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Hard pass.
WOW
I'm pretty good at buying gifts even but the difference is I put some thought into it before I head out the door. As far as lunch--yes if I have time.
I'm not going to tell you you're having fun wrong, but I'm also not obligated to agree that what is fun for you is necessarily fun for me.
But doing it just to get her attention will never work. She likes what you do for her, not you. And never spend money on a woman in a relationship, let her man buy shit for her.
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Ditto. To each his own -- but shopping with a woman is my idea waterboarding.