How Young is Too Young?
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Here is my opinion, if you're nearing or over 40, gals under 21 shouldn't be attractive to you. Unless they're fully done up and wearing clothes (pantsuit, classy sundress, etc.) hat make them look like a woman. Otherwise, these late teen girls that look 1-2 years removed from just getting a DL, 40+ yr old men should not find these girls attractive. Now, if you're under 30, go for it. But I look at 19 YOs and I dont find them attractive at all. In summary, I generally have a 21+ rule as I like women, not little girls. And I personally find 25-28 the perfect age. Also I will never want to be accused of taking advantage of someone too young
Thoughts? How old is your lower limit?
Thoughts? How old is your lower limit?
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If you need to do a Google search or check two forms of ID to confirm that a woman is "legal", that's problematic.
My target age is probably late 20's. Even though a young girl is nice to look at, I don't necessarily want to speak to her. Don't have much in common with a 19 year old.
I don't think you would have been very enamored bi the late @VinceMichaels
But it depends. For a spouse or SO I think anything over +/- five years age difference is pushing it. My wife's 2 yrs younger and I wouldn't want to be married to someone a decade or two younger.
Situation is completely different for something paid and short-term like an SB and I wouldn't consider an SB 40+. And at the opposite extreme, late teens (18, 19) can be boring and self-centered. Lot's of evidence that the brain is still developing until age 25 and female's brain development occurs about 2 yrs sooner for women than men. I prefer SBs in the 21- to 23-year age rage, seniors or recent college grads. Pure physical animal attraction is there, and enough maturity so there's something to talk about.
Then you get chicks in their late 20s who look like they're in their 40s, early 20s like in their 30s.
I've mentioned many times on here that I don't generally target the dancers I think are the most physically attractive. They do have to meet a threshold in that department, but if tgey do I tend to treat them the same.
There are teenage girls that fuck on a more regular basis and with more guys than many adult women - besides the legal issue, as long as she's not being coerced and is down for it, then I don't see a huge problem - many women in the sex-biz (porn, etc) often started b/f 18 especially back in the day when things were less enforced and getting fake-IDs was easy.
If young-looking girls are not your thing, cool - but don't get on your fucking soapbox and start lecturing about your incredibly high morals.
This is a general statement based on previous posts throughout the years and not aimed at any one particular poster.
For me I've always been more turned-on by women that look like women vs girlish, not necessarily bc it feels creepy to find a younger girl sexy/desirable, but mainly bc I just like women that look a certain way and the innocent-looking GND type has never done much for me - in the SC I often turn down GND types even though they're attractive bc they just don't move the PL-needle for me.
Of course one could advise on the matter but if it has nothing to do with you then IMO it's none of your business.
Of course if she's underage then the law is the law - but I think it's kinda ridiculous to say if she's 18 then it's all good but if she's a couple of months younger then the guy is some kinda predator.
That's a nice theory, but IMO is practically delusiona and likely millions of years of evolutionl; some guys here may pretend women 18-21 aren't attractive, but they are fucking attractive. Agree with Rando, an anonymous poll will reveal the (incredibly obvious) truth.
That said, I am MUCH more like to pick a stripper or SB who is 21 and up because: 1. I want to drink with them, without having to hide it, worry about their fake ID, etc., 2. obviously enough, younger women are more likely to act immature (because they ARE less mature). I do not automatically rule out anyone who is 18+, but skew heavily to 21+, for most often for reason #1, but occasionally for reason #2.
er in my life!
Who died and made you judge of what other people should find attractive?
We are animals. Your DNA doesn’t give a fu k what your left or right wing agenda is. Sure, you can look away from the hot girl so you won’t get a boner, but that’s merely social programming, a mask, a deception. Use that “w” word all you want... Wrong.... as if Zeus will strike you down with a thunderbolt from Mt. Olympus.
Or you can stop making shit up.
However, there is a huge difference in finding a woman attractive, to wanting a buy a lap dance from her, to wanting to date her, to wanting to just fuck her, etc.
For me, age is not so much a factor but what I am looking for: a good lap dance, it doesnt matter as long as she I'm attracted to her but dating I prefer a mature women, and if I'm looking for a one night stand a consenting adult who I find attractive is just fine.
If that 17 year old gets your dick hard when you look at her, you need to learn how to control your urges.
If she sits down next to you and whispers that she wants you to make her feel like a woman, you are repulsive if you follow through and have sex with her.
Not an opinion, it's a fact.
Fucking sickos.
I see way more girls in their 20s and 30s that make me go "daaammmn she is hot!" Than little 18 year olds honestly
Who died and made you judge of what other people should find attractive?
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Nobody, but if someones dick gets hard looking at females that haven't fully developed, I think that person needs help. There is something in the brain that should just say no.
>I see way more girls in their 20s and 30s that make me go "daaammmn she is hot!" Than little 18 year olds honestly<
I’ve been saying that for years, don’t know what you consider really old bastards tho
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Well played.
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Anyways, like it or not, it’s pretty common. I would know. Even though I’m in my mid20s, I appear younger than that and attract a lot of customers who like the 18-20 year olds.
It's an anonymous forum. Why would anyone feel peer pressure?
Having been around Filipinas my entire life, I would say this anecdotal observation is in line with mine. They'll tell you it's because of men, though.
Ok maybe more like 90%
I'm sure you are plenty familiar with don't ask/don't tell. HOMO!
It's not about her physical maturity, it's the lack of mental/emotional development that gets preyed upon.
You fuckers are sickos.
SJG
LeBron : GOAT
(and it has already been established that LeBron is the GOAT as a given)
Plus when you look at history, look at the history of child labor, or how the whole notion of being a teenager began as more of a marketing gimmick in the US.
Like most things, its not black and white and perceptions change throughout history or with legal changes.
Flagooner, why don’t you go back to Heaven and sit on Zeus’s lap? I’m sure you’ll be far more comfortable there, where nobody fucks inappropriately or displays any animalistic behavior. Don’t worry, I won’t bother you with any prayers.
*drops mic on Sammy’s head
*hears hollow sound
Yas daddy.
Let me repay you the favor.
Good husband material when he comes out of the closet. As good as they are in bed, I can't date a closeted man.
Unless it's a club like Follies or Cheetah ATL that put fluorescent wristbands on those under 21 ..... how can you know?
Anyways, you can figure the age rules out according to your local laws...and the type of club and licensing.
When I was a young man, I found 18 year old women incredibly sexy. Now that i'm in my 60's, I realize what excellent taste I had as a young man!
I think a distinction needs be made between strip clubs and real life. I'm in my late 50's. If I'm ogling 18 year olds at the mall, I am a lecherous old man. If a semi-nude 18 year old stripper approaches me in a club, then she is an entertainer performing a vocation she has chosen and I am just another customer.
My personal sweet spot is a 25 - 35 years old. Having said that, if an 18 year old who looks like she just stepped off the pages of a Playboy centerfold ask for a dance, I would say yes. If a 24 year old that looks like a JV cheerleader asked, I would say no.
Anyway, i also remember this article that said that most men preferred women between 20-23...
https://jezebel.com/mens-favorite-ages-a…
And the discussion that the article was in:
https://www.tuscl.net/app/discussion.php…
In terms of age limit set by law, I have no problem with that age being higher than it possibly needs to be, because that's far preferable than the age limit being low to the degree that it makes predation of children legal on the books. But I don't think that age limit is too high... 18 years old is absolutely appropriate.
In fact, I would completely support strip clubs having a minimum required dancer age of 21. It's not like 23 year-old dancers have colostomy bags and dentures.
This is my least favorite topic on this site, because it's always at least a little reprehensible. That some members here clearly enjoy skimming along the hairy edge of statutory rape is, at best, creepy as fuck.
And, as usual, if anyone here wants to give me shit for being the guy who is completely against sex with minors, go for it. I'll own it every day, all day long.
^^^^^ Aint that wut l wears when hes abductin unsuspectin womens?