I got played like a dumbass
Bigtittylover69
Los Angeles
I thought I was impervious to there mind games at this point... guess i was wrong now I've caught feeling and she's gone MIA. I mean what is "real" anyway, the way she made me feel was real, the fact that she had fun was real, who cares if it was an act can't we make that our new reality. God I really turned into a PL. Anyone else with experience on this and how to deal?
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TUSCL needs more crazy stories! They’re brilliant! ;)
@4got2wipe: I would, but if she happens to frequent this site i don't want her to know. I'm still hoping she will follow up with that date she promised me.
@rickdugan: Trust me not a troll, I wish this wasn't real
Belief is often the death of reason.
The belief that she is going to fulfill our need for affection, attention, romance, sex etc. is what make us “fall in love” and put up whit a lot of their bad behavior and SS and lowers our self-worth, until they leave as we knew they would.
And we ask ourselves “what did I do wrong, and what did I do to deserve being treated so poorly and abandoned.”
We believe that we can “die from a broken heart” our sense of reason has been killed by those insane beliefs.
If we “survive” we will find out that there are and will be more women in the future, what if the object of our affection dies in an accident and “leaves us”? are we going to kill ourselves?
The best thing I have learned after half a century in this world is that if we fall and we are still alive we are going to have to get up and keep going.
We have to learn from these experiences and know to be aware that we might be the type of person that that type of woman prey on, and work on ourselves, our self esteem, our physical, mental, social, environmental and economic well being to be ready when the right opportunity appears.
It is say that luck happens when preparation meets opportunity.
Get up dust yourself off and keep going, get yourself ready for the next experience, with more knowledge and better prepared.
Keep looking for an ATF DS until you find the one for you. Keep your expectations realistic and prepare yourself for the worst and hope for best.
Good luck,
“Merry Christmas and Happy New Year”
OR...
You can man the fuck up. Go to a shitty dive bar or hit the gym or both. Do things that make you feel a bit masculine again, if that is even possible.
Glad I could help. ;)
-->"Why do all the troll accounts use this same goofy "caught feelings" line. Who the fuck talks like that?"
That's a millennial thing (which gives some idea of who is behind it, when it's someone's alt persona). So is "the feels" and "feeling some type of way".
I need to learn how to meet girls IRL
@rickdugan: i can feel the scathing judgement coming from your comments, I frequent the gym regularly and I don't drink. but yeah, I am broke AF until the 1st
Didn't your doctor tell you about the yearly RIL vaccine.
Dancers move on all the time, it's the nature of the beast
As for her going MIA, its around the holidays so a lot of strippers take time off. She doesn't really owe you an explanation of why she isn't at work.
This sort of thing happens, and although there is always that 1 in million chance it becomes what a guy might pang for, the reality is that transacting money for any kind of affection or experience does not create a reality. Money is an attractant but it pays for an illusion. If the other person cares about not hurting you, and they know it's an illusion but see you getting lost in the illusion, they will override their interest in the money to avoid pulling you in deeper which would hurt you more.
You didn't get played. You got lost in a dynamic that wasn't really what you wanted it to be. Your wish fulfillment got caught up in believing an illusion was real. Whenever we enter into these arrangements, we must be guarded.
:)
Ladies please don’t jump all over me, I know it isn’t all strippers but it is a large number of them.
I know the feeling, that was probably one of the hottest girls in the world to you. It’s like damn I’m hitting that!?!? Hell yeah. And then POOF GONE! Shit sucks but there is way more out there.
*would love to hear.
I need to proof read more
Even the girls below 6. If they reject you so what? Its all about experience and then use what you learn on the girls in the every day life. SC is entertainment nothing more, however the experience you get from there you can apply it to outside and improve your game :). Also you wouldnt be afraid to talk to 9s-10s in SC cause its their job to talk to you and its your job to see if you can get extras at a low price! Lol