PAYING HER TIL SHE LIKES YOU???

44 comments

• strippercutie404

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  6 years ago

  I can't really say, I'm not looking to date anybody at this time, once college starts I'm gonna be travelling back and forth from my state to Miami so much that dating anybody would be really hard.
• JamesSD

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  6 years ago

  This may work as a way to turn a stripper into a sugar baby. But it's an awful plan otherwise.
• flagooner

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  6 years ago

  It's a foolproof plan, my favorite tells me that she likes me when I pay her.
• Mate27

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  6 years ago

  Everyone has their price. Hell I’d give you a reach around if you paid me enough!
• Mate27

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  6 years ago

  That offer is only for Icy, cause we know he’s cold. Brrrr....
• Muddy

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  6 years ago

  Is that really dating though? I’ve had some SBs wanting more where I don’t think they had those thoughts going into it. Yeah it’s possible I would think you would just not have to be dumb enough to be lead on. High Character/Stud in bed I think could go a long way. If I had infinite money sure I would date like this.
• Nidan111

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  6 years ago

  Why waste all that time and money. Just get an escort, pay to play for as long as you are interested, then move on.
• IceyLoco

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  6 years ago

  I think it leads to more of a sugar daddy type relationship if even that, but the odds of it lasting when the money is gone seems next to none. Its easy to be pleasant and like someone when they're paying your bills. And people can genuinely appreciate what someone does for them, but its not the same as appreciating them.
• IceyLoco

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  6 years ago

  I think time and money are better invested in a woman who is in your league and wants you for you, if you're looking for a relationship. If she happens to be a stripper great, but using money to pick strippers up at strip clubs isn't going to work in the long run. If a stripper genuinely likes you, she'll let you know. Like any girl would.
• Liwet

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  6 years ago

  @Nidan An escort won't take $100 at a time.
• nicespice

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  6 years ago

  I paid founder for a lifetime VIP membership, and I think he likes me.
• Subraman

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  6 years ago

  No one on this forum has ever said that you should pay strippers until they like you, so you can date them. In fact, there's little discussion of dating strippers at all, since most experienced PLs are experienced enough not to be interested in doing so. The only people who bring up strippers are the (mostly troll) personas who like to pretend they're pimps or players, and for the most part, simply regurgitate the standard (and incorrect) PUA lines about strip clubs -- e.g., "don't pay her for dances", "once you're a customer that's all you are", etc. That's when people respond "I was a regular before I FWB or dated her", essentially to highlight that the regurgitated PUA tactics (and the troll pimps here who do the regurgitating) are wrong. Beyond that, for the most part, no PLs here are saying "that's how you should date strippers"; we're saying, not interested in dating strippers.
• twentyfive

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  6 years ago

  ^ Don't get your panties in a bunch,Subra, we figured him out a long time ago, poor guy is a RIL, and he's lashing out at those guys that are banging the object of his desire, that's why we're all a bunch of tricks.
• Subraman

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  6 years ago

  My panties are not in a bunch, FYI. However, there is some sand in my vagina.
• twentyfive

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  6 years ago

  ^ ;)
• RandomMember

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  6 years ago

  According so science, girl knows in the first 30 seconds if she'll sleep with you: [view link] So paying is good way to show her that you're a gullible sap and that she can rinse you out of every last dime.
• flagooner

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  6 years ago

  Sphinter
• RandomMember

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  6 years ago

  ^ rectum
• RandomMember

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  6 years ago

  You can't even spell one-word insults correctly
• MackTruck

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  6 years ago

  ^^^ hahaha
• pistola

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  6 years ago

  This doesn’t work. There needs to be a genuine connection.
• pistola

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  6 years ago

  And here we go again with that certain someone kissing founders rear. Give it a rest. He likes us all.
• PhatBoyHell

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  6 years ago

  I've heard this brought up on more than one occasion.... Basically pay a stripper to see you, or keep giving her money in the club, in hopes that this buys you time so that she can eventually get feelings and like you. Some claim this is the best and easiest way to date strippers. Personally, I think its a great approach... Every stripper I dated or had sex with, was coz we had a pay right away.
• PhatBoyHell

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  6 years ago

  I've heard this brought up on more than one occasion.... Basically pay a stripper to see you, or keep giving her money in the club, in hopes that this buys you time so that she can eventually get feelings and like you. Some claim this is the best and easiest way to date strippers. Personally, I think its a great approach... Every stripper I dated or had sex with, was coz we had a pay right away.
• IceyLoco

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  6 years ago

  First off, no need to troll my thread. If you don't like it, don't post on it. If someone talks about something you don't like IRL do you get your friends to harass them for it? If not, don't do it here. Second off, the topic of dating strippers is very relevant to the forum, and several members have discussed having relationships start off with P4P and then evolving. So yes, this topic is very relevant and worthy of discussion.
• IceyLoco

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  6 years ago

  I think a lot of the anger and frustration certain forum members feel towards strippers, the amount of misogyny directed at them. The vitriol....seeing them as less than human at times. I think it stems from the fact that they're angry at themselves and realize they can't get these women any other way. In that respect, I think guys who think they can get a relationship from P4P have better attitudes towards women. But are setting themselves up for a lot of pain and an empty wallet.
• twentyfive

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  6 years ago

  First off, no need to troll my thread. If you don't like it, don't post on it. If someone talks about something you don't like IRL do you get your friends to harass them for it? If not, don't do it here. Seeing the pot call the kettle is always good for a laugh "Victim"
• IceyLoco

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  6 years ago

  True. But you have to remember a lot of those girls are very impulsive. And if there is that initial interest whatever it is, they'll act on it. The way you put it, yeah its possible that in time something will evolve but I think when she's in that business mindset they don't let it. Or extremely rarely do. Especially if you're paying for sex. It takes a lot to be able to sleep with someone like that and they block a lot out, distance themselves. I actually think a guy would stand a much better shot just seeing her at the club, buying a few dances, tipping her, chatting, than paying for sex.
• Skippy10

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  6 years ago

  Never. Gotta be a mutual connection. Nothing worse than paying for boring.
• san_jose_guy

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  6 years ago

  IceyLoco, I think you might be dealing with softer core clubs and girls, ones where girls don't try to get you into the back room for FS right away. I don't think you can pay a girl and get her to like you. Lots of strippers, amp girls, and coffee girls have wanted to come home with me. Presumably for free. But in harder core venues the girls just try to hustle money. So you either do it there way, or you would be best just to walk out the door. So my policy, the front room makeout session, is the way to alter it, though she is still getting money and likely will still get fucked in the back room. You can try to continue to see her outside. If there is money involved is between you and she. Most of the time if there is no money, the girl will want you to be on call locally for her most days of the year. If she is one of many women you are seeing that way, then I think she will want money. But I have never advocated this as best. That would by found in the organization I am building. SJG Egg Cream - Lou Reed [view link] The Velvet Underground -- Oh! Sweet Nuthin' [view link] X - The Have Nots [view link] [view link] X Some Other Time [view link] [view link] X - Los Angeles [view link] Daily Digit: Believe it or not, Chicago is not the murder capital of the U.S. [view link] "But when adjusting for its large population, Chicago has fewer deaths per capita than many other cities. St. Louis has had the nation’s highest murder rate for the past four years, followed by Baltimore, Detroit, New Orleans and Baton Rouge." Farm, Psychedelic Blues-Rock 1971 [view link] Steppenwolf - The Pusher [view link] Magic Carpet Ride [view link] Fairies Wear Boots - Black Sabbath [view link] Paranoid - Full Album [view link] Ozzie Osbourne singing [view link] TJ Street [view link] [view link] [view link] Naked Woman On The Altar - Church of Satan [view link] [view link] [view link] [view link] What these guys do is interesting, but what my organization will do will be vastly superior!
• IceyLoco

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  6 years ago

  SJG I agree with you. What kind of harder core venues do you mean? I know a few clubs that are basically brothels. Girls usually work there when they need quick drug money or are pretty desperate.
• san_jose_guy

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  6 years ago

  " I know a few clubs that are basically brothels." That's the kind of harder core venues I mean. Most of the long term regular posters on this forum are accustomed to such clubs, though I do not know about the quick drug money and desperation. If you go to such a place and go with the front room makeout session and play it right, you can be pumping loads into the girl and waking up with her in the morning. In softer core places it might not go that fast. For me, this will be part of future travels to expand a business. So I would like to maximally score on the first day I drive into town. For future visits, the action does not need to be that fast. Front room makeout session, plus treating her right, and FS-ITC, makes for a high power way of getting under a girl's skin, even if she is fully pro. But no, the relationship with her is not intended to ever be all about money alone. SJG
• twentyfive

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  6 years ago

  The reason the OP keeps calling us tricks is because he’s an angry cuckolded guy, that’s his revenge for all of the guys banging his imaginary stripper girlfriend, We know you're a liar your claim to hang out at this imaginary girlfriends club two or three nights a week, are just not credible, we know that the vast majority of strip clubs don’t allow SOs to come in, of course you are the outlier, the reincarnation of Iceberg Slim. My own theory is you work at a fast food restaurant, probably as a busboy. I'm just going by west coast time, and you post at times that would be consistent with restaurant break times, you never post during the lunch hour, and that's the tell.
• san_jose_guy

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  6 years ago

  DC, softer core clubs and softer core girls may make for better relationships. But a FS club and getting that first load into her, and with the preliminary makeout session, that will make things happen the fastest with the greatest reliability. For me the issue will be making it happen my first night in town. For the future, it could be girls who have been courted with multiple visits. SJG
• san_jose_guy

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  6 years ago

  No 25, Icey is not lying to us. He just does not go along with treating women like prostitutes and acting like it is all about money. I am in large measure in agreement with him. SJG
• san_jose_guy

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  6 years ago

  Most of the guys on this forum do treat the women like they are purchasable by money, and so you could look at them as tricks. What they get for their money is not really that much. SJG
• PhatBoyHell

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  6 years ago

  First off, no need to stop trolling my thread. If you like it, post troll comments on it. If someone talks about something you don't like IRL do you get your friends to harass them for it? If not, do it here. Second off, the topic of dating strippers is very relevant to the forum, and several members have discussed having relationships start off with P4P and then evolving. So yes, this topic is very relevant and worthy of discussion and trolling
• PhatBoyHell

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  6 years ago

  I want to fuck Bombshell so bad... soooo bad
• IceyLoco

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  6 years ago

  SJG, clubs like that are all about the hustle and the girls there are rarely sober...its definitely not an easy job. These clubs are usually a playground for pimps and drug dealers who probably make more than the girls by the end of the night. But yeah, there definitely are ways to get to these girls. Seducing hoes isn't that hard.Its probably easier than normal girls. DC, a lot of times its the same girls. Just depends on the night and club they work at. 25, I don't know what your problem is. You're free to put me on ignore. As far as what clubs are like and what they do or don't allow. It varies across the country. For example I'm always surprised at how cheap the prices mentioned on this forum are.
• Call.Me.Ishmael

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  6 years ago

  IceyLoco said "... and several members have discussed having relationships start off with P4P and then evolving." Bullshit. Post links, troll. Also, you're not a guy.
• Lil_Baller100

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  6 years ago

  i don't ever pay mah hoes, but i shower them with my rolls.
• IceyLoco

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  6 years ago

  DC. I'm saying that its the same girls working different clubs. The vibe of a club has a lot more to do with management than the girls.
• san_jose_guy

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  6 years ago

  DC and Icey, in my future travels I'll be looking to connect with people in each new place. Girls from strip clubs will be one category of such new people. I won't be pressuring anyone, nor will I have excessive expectations. But still, the quicker the girl and I can be in bed, the better. If things later work out with one I have moved a little slower with, so be it. No big deal. SJG 1177 BC: The Year Civilization Collapsed (Eric Cline, PhD) [view link] His book: [view link]
• Mate27

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  6 years ago

  What if you pay her to use a strap on and she pulls a reach around? Is that gay? I mean if she enjoyed doing that and got paid, I think it would be worth it!