Kinda OT - the case for bolt ons
I know many of you don't like fake boobs, so this question isn't meant for any of you. It's meant for the guys that dont mind or prefer fake cans.
Have any of you ever tried to convinconvince a wife or girlfriend to upgrade their chest? I feel like it would be an easy conversation with a stripper, but I just dont know how to approach it with a civi without it turning out badly.
I got this ex-civy that wants me to take her back, sex is amazing, she's great, smart, she does make more $ than me, which might be a negative at some point, but I don't feel that way right now. Everything about her is great except for that damn surf board she has for a chest. I feel like with the right doctor, which she could easily afford, that runway could turn into a playground paradise.
Have any of you ever suggested it? How did that go? Any regrets afterwards?
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last commentShe'll agree as soon as you get that penile implant that you desperately need
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Haha, I think I'm average, but she hasn't been with a lot of guys..that she'saddmitted to anyways. She always tells me how much she loves it, though she is trying to win me back right now....is civi shit (CS) a thing?
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^^^^^^^ RandomMember +10
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civi shit is definitely a thing
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If you offer to pay for it she will probably be much more obliged. Otherwise, if it were me and you said I needed to change something about myself, I would block you on everything and never talk to you again.
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PSD+++++++++++
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Psd you should change your attitude.
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Honestly you are kind of in a no win solution. Asking her to do that shows you only care about her outside. It is her decision to alter her body and you asking her to do it is actually pretty selfish. Like RandomMember pointed out, how would you feel if she asked you to modify your body because you evidently do not meet her expectations. If down the road she suggests that, then she is opening the door for your input, but until she asks, you really need to keep your trap shut in this regard.
If her having to modify her body to satisfy you, I think you all have more issues to resolve than just her flat chest.
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As if she isn't already self-conscious about it.
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I should change my attitude about someone telling me that they will only be in a relationship with me if I get plastic surgery??
No, I think I’m ok on that one, thank you though.
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PSD, I will have a relationship Iwith you involving plastic, VISA, AMEX, MC.
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Your a man therefore I would think she does expect you have some shallow likes and dislikes. But she also may have strong feelings about her body that could be explosive. Saying that there are ways to subtly bring up the topic and see how she reacts. Commenting on an actresses nice boobs and asking her if she thinks so too. Talking about someone you mutually know who got a boob job. See how she reacts...
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Ditto RandomMember +10!
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^^
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Lol steeldog
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BTW, I am totally willing to get a hair transplant if someone else pays for it and donates the hair. The only place I grow hair I certainly don't want put under the knife nor on my head.
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@steel - I bet it really would suck trying to move the hair from your palms to your head. Would really put you out of action for a while as you heal. : )
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Hell yeah. I am a furry vastard. Lol
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Go the subliminal route and view porn/Smit together with women that have bolt-ons. Maybe she'll be like ... Hmmm those don't look too bad.
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Many non-strippers get boob jobs. I know one who recently had her boobs enhanced and she loves it. Finally she’s not flat chested.
It would help if you can make the suggestion diplomatically. And if you offer to pay for the operation.
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That's a tough one. I'd never suggest it, even if I totally wanted it. I will say, I admire civie women who get it done.
I always wonder though, a lot of women say they didn't get a boob job to get more attention from men. They say they got it for themselves, to feel more like a woman. I guess I'll never know because I'm a man. But I don't understand that. There are plenty of flatchested women in the world and they are confident and definitely have no doubts about their womanhood. Are these girls who get the boob job for real about just wanting to feel better about themselves? Why do some women feel like they need it, while other flat chested girls are totally happy with their non existent boobs?
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Lots of guys here have admitted that they'll adamantly turn down a girl who has implants. But a guy like me who loves implants will still get dances from girls with normal breasts. This means that implants will cost a stripper income and I can't ask a girl to do that solely for the sake of my pleasure.
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I got fake boobs before I danced. It was for me, I always wanted it because I have a big butt. Worked very hard to save for it and don’t regret it.
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They look great PinkSugarDoll
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also kinda OT: "cans" is my favorite term for boobs. i find it hilarious.
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^^
Ty Bruno.
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The case FOR bolt-ons ...
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I plan on asking my wife to get bolt ons right after I ask her to put on 100 pounds.
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op....the real question you should be asking is, "why em i in a relationship with someone thats trying to win me back?" youre in a similar position like when a dog eats it own vomit.
you should order her to get bolt ons. why are you still trying to find middle ground here? show some compassion for yourself.
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I like tits - regardless of whether they are surgically enhanced or natural.
In my view - women already face too many body image issues - so I’d never add to it by suggesting a dancer enhance her titties.
I enjoy chatting with dancers about their surgery - and how they did their implants. It can be educational -
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You said the sex is great, everythings great but her flat chest. Unless you broke up with her for some irredeemably toxic factor, i would taker her back but wait for just the right moment to bring up implants. Like when you're watching a show or movie where everyone knows the actress has fake tits, bring it up in idle conversation and see if you can steer it that way. Otherwise, you should just tell her to move on.
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I wouldn't bring it up unless she complains about her boobs in front of you / mentions the size. That would be a great opportunity for you to say, "well have you thought about implants? I would support you if it made you happy" or whatever. Otherwise, I wouldn't bring it up. She might love her flat chest (since she makes enough money for implants but hasn't gotten them), or she may feel insecure about them and if you brought it up it would hurt her feelings in that case.
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that's some logic
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my comment was aimed at what DC said
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She has brought up her lack of size in the past, but I always pussed out with the, no they are fine, and anything more than a handful is a waste kind of comments. I'll just wait for the next time she mentions it and maybe I'll tell her if she's ever thought about that I'd support her decision and maybe mention that I'd even be willing to pay for them.
She's trying really hard to get me to agree to make everything official again, so maybe she'd jump at this as a way to make me happy. I'm not trying to abuse that, but I will say it's nice that she suddenly remembers how much she loves to suck dick when she's trying to get me back. I know that will end as quick as it began, but it's nice while it lasts.
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