Would it really be worth it?

Depends on my ATF. If she remains trustworthy and faithful then sure. However, we all know that's not always the case.

I wouldn't marry my ATF even if she let me go to clubs, gave me daily blowjobs and brought girls home for 3-ways. The best part of messing around with strippers is that I don't have to take them home when I'm done. lmao.

@OP are you nuckin futz?

^ To be clear, my ATF was hot as hell and a lot of fun. But she was a stripper with the usual baggage and issues. There's the girl you party with when you are single and the one who you marry and rarely are they the same if you have any sense in your head. ;)

@OP are you nuckin futz?

Hell no

I know a guy that married his ATF. She’s dancing in Vegas and he’s drinking because he misses her. Things seemed to have worked out well.

NO!!!!!!

Things never work out with your ATF. My ATF just got pregnant and isn't dancing right now which sucks.

@OP are you nuckin futz?

atf. i hope she is special.

Out of all the strippers I've had a "relationship" with none had the combinations to make me ever do that. For example, the 9 was beautiful, fun to hang around with, but crazy. The 6 was fun to be around with, had her shit together, but she was a 6. You get the idea...

Now, there are several strippers I've met where I'm like, yeah she looks perfect, I could just fuck her for the rest of my life, but do I get to mold her personality?

I would never marry my atf. Missing the point of all of this. Marrying a dancer is like having your mechanic do open heart surgery: No matter how skilled; different job description.

sorry Tipping... I meant to pull out but ...oh well.

Out of my three ATF's, only the first would have gotten a second thought for a long term relationship. I'm not going to give a resounding "no" or a never on this question, but ATF number 4 or 5 would need to be very, very special. Like unicorn special.

I could deal with the OP's hypothetical restrictions (fidelity and no clubbing). It's all the other stuff (baggage) that'd cause it to not work long term most likely, so no. Would she marry me? - highly unlikely - Ha! - and for her reasons not to she'd probably list baggage too, and looks.

@shailynn: "...but do I get to mold her personality?"

^College pal of mine married a girl (non-stripper) who we all said was a poor fit despite being good looking. His response was just that - hey, it'll be alright I'll be able to mold her the way I want her. Didn't work the way he planned - they're still together but it's been a rough ride.

She’d never hold me to those conditions. :)

She likes to have sex with others and go to clubs as much as I do.

No. What Rick Dugan said.

The persona she portrays as a stripper isn't the same as the persona she is as a person. Stripper her and RL her are two different things.

Sometimes I feel like yeah if she her shit together, sometimes I feel like hell no this hobby is way too fun.