Dating A Dancer Part 2
rockstar666
Illinois
I posted a couple months back how I 'accidently' started dating a dancer and I thought I'd update my experience. She used to dance at HB in Elk Grove Village, IL and is now at one of the Stone Park Clubs. And no, I won't tell anyone who she is! I have yet to see her at work and am not sure if I want to; I'd rather spend my money on her when we have dates. I will say, I loved watching her dance before so maybe I will stop by and surprise her. She even said I could buy dances with other girls if I stopped by, as long as I bought some from her too. I like an open mind!
When you really get to know a dancer, and when you get beyond just sex, it's VERY interesting. She has the good attitude of the TUSCL ladies but also that lingering resentment so often expressed on SW. She likes her customers in general but complains too many are VERY confused between finding a g/f and just having fun in the club. I thank the TUSCL members for teaching me this years ago because when I was younger I made that same mistake. I know she liked how I understood it was her job when we met, and I think that's why she felt she had to ask ME out for our first date, which 'accidently' turned out to be a hotel room. We've had many non-sexual dates since too.
Her SS isn't bad at all; she's frequently 15 min. late but all things considered that's not bad. She has a huge aversion to me giving her any money at all; she really wants to make it clear I'm not paying for sex. In fact when she was between jobs I offered her money and she got kind of mad at me. ("I can always get money from people I don't care about") This is how I can be confident I'm not being played. Yes, I pay for the dates but I would be doing that anyway.
So, so far so good. She is by far the most fun date I've had in my entire life; when you make a living doing foreplay you tend to be good at it. We had that discussion too: many dancers are lazy in bed because foreplay is what they do all night (or day)...but she's very flirty with me and that makes her really fun to be with. We'll see how long it lasts. For now I'm just really enjoying the moment.
Has anyone here had an exclusive LTR with a dancer? If so I'd be curious on how it went!
When you really get to know a dancer, and when you get beyond just sex, it's VERY interesting. She has the good attitude of the TUSCL ladies but also that lingering resentment so often expressed on SW. She likes her customers in general but complains too many are VERY confused between finding a g/f and just having fun in the club. I thank the TUSCL members for teaching me this years ago because when I was younger I made that same mistake. I know she liked how I understood it was her job when we met, and I think that's why she felt she had to ask ME out for our first date, which 'accidently' turned out to be a hotel room. We've had many non-sexual dates since too.
Her SS isn't bad at all; she's frequently 15 min. late but all things considered that's not bad. She has a huge aversion to me giving her any money at all; she really wants to make it clear I'm not paying for sex. In fact when she was between jobs I offered her money and she got kind of mad at me. ("I can always get money from people I don't care about") This is how I can be confident I'm not being played. Yes, I pay for the dates but I would be doing that anyway.
So, so far so good. She is by far the most fun date I've had in my entire life; when you make a living doing foreplay you tend to be good at it. We had that discussion too: many dancers are lazy in bed because foreplay is what they do all night (or day)...but she's very flirty with me and that makes her really fun to be with. We'll see how long it lasts. For now I'm just really enjoying the moment.
Has anyone here had an exclusive LTR with a dancer? If so I'd be curious on how it went!
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Just watch out for, now that she's getting close to you. Dudes can get F'ed up in that spot. "OMG I need $XX,XXX because XYZ happened! Who else can I turn to!"
“Accidentally” started dating a stripper. Yeah I think all my encounters like that were by accident as well. I was just trying to get into her pants or “g-string” so to speak and I end up becoming some sort of “boyfriend.”
Muddy9: Yes I'm prepared to crash and burn...how can one date a dancer and not be?
Anyway, I'm rambling. I do agree with rockstar that the fact that he's not paying means he's moved beyond customer; and if he's having fun, that's awesome. Just keep in mind that just because you no longer have to dodge stripper hustle, doesn't mean she doesn't have alternative malicious plans to watch out for. But as long as you realize that, have fun. FWB w/ a stripper has always been amazing for me
But otherwise, the risk at this point seems to be the same as it would with any other civie
Relationships with strippers are varied just like with any girl. I've had relationships where it was just smoking weed, video games, movies and sex. Others where it was just about moving through fast money. My favorite relationships are where they pay for everything and you don't have to do shit.
My current relationship is the best one I've had on an emotional level and the connection we have, but I know for a fact she wouldn't be with me if I was a broke nigga. Sometimes she needs to be turned out and reminded of her place. It works but That bothers me. She tolerates my side bitches coz of $$$ But I think I like a new side bitch as more than a side bitch. She never asks for anything and is too giving sometimes.
Phatboy99 - definite troll account
Aww, go easy on Phatboy99
Or Daddillac's.
As to "We'll see how long it lasts," what's your current net worth?
And money comes and goes. Fast money moves especially quick.