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That’s not very lady-like

During a recent visit to my favorite club, I was approached by a dancer I had not seen before. Her opening line raised a few red flags, and it became an easy decision to pass on taking her to VIP. It went something like this:

Her: Hi, would you like some dances?

Me: What’s your price?

Her: $20 a song. Let’s go. (She motions me to get up and follow her, but I stay seated)

Me: Wait. There’s a few things we need to discuss first.

Her: It would not be very lady-like for me to do that.

Me: I won’t go upstairs unless we sort out details.

Her: No. That’s not lady-like.

Me: I guess we can go to an area where there’s less people and discuss things.

Her: Yes, in the VIP.

Me: No, not in the VIP. (She walks away)

About 15 minutes after this, I was approached by a dancer I was familiar with, and knew would deliver for me what I wanted.

This was at a club where the majority of the girls do extras. I think that I avoided either a ROB or the very rare non-extras dancer.

I would also believe that this girl may have been new to this club (maybe even new to dancing). She quoted dances at $20/song when they are supposed to be $25/song. Either way, at this club, I have never taken a dancer to VIP and gotten just dances. If she is new to dancing and wants to make money just doing dances, she will have a hard time doing it at this club.

I do think her whole line of “It wouldn’t be very lady-like” was both funny and flawed. I could’ve made the argument that her taking her clothes off in front of a bunch of men she doesn’t know is also not very lady-like.