That’s not very lady-like
s275ironman
Detroit
During a recent visit to my favorite club, I was approached by a dancer I had not seen before. Her opening line raised a few red flags, and it became an easy decision to pass on taking her to VIP. It went something like this:
Her: Hi, would you like some dances?
Me: What’s your price?
Her: $20 a song. Let’s go. (She motions me to get up and follow her, but I stay seated)
Me: Wait. There’s a few things we need to discuss first.
Her: It would not be very lady-like for me to do that.
Me: I won’t go upstairs unless we sort out details.
Her: No. That’s not lady-like.
Me: I guess we can go to an area where there’s less people and discuss things.
Her: Yes, in the VIP.
Me: No, not in the VIP. (She walks away)
About 15 minutes after this, I was approached by a dancer I was familiar with, and knew would deliver for me what I wanted.
This was at a club where the majority of the girls do extras. I think that I avoided either a ROB or the very rare non-extras dancer.
I would also believe that this girl may have been new to this club (maybe even new to dancing). She quoted dances at $20/song when they are supposed to be $25/song. Either way, at this club, I have never taken a dancer to VIP and gotten just dances. If she is new to dancing and wants to make money just doing dances, she will have a hard time doing it at this club.
I do think her whole line of “It wouldn’t be very lady-like” was both funny and flawed. I could’ve made the argument that her taking her clothes off in front of a bunch of men she doesn’t know is also not very lady-like.
Her: Hi, would you like some dances?
Me: What’s your price?
Her: $20 a song. Let’s go. (She motions me to get up and follow her, but I stay seated)
Me: Wait. There’s a few things we need to discuss first.
Her: It would not be very lady-like for me to do that.
Me: I won’t go upstairs unless we sort out details.
Her: No. That’s not lady-like.
Me: I guess we can go to an area where there’s less people and discuss things.
Her: Yes, in the VIP.
Me: No, not in the VIP. (She walks away)
About 15 minutes after this, I was approached by a dancer I was familiar with, and knew would deliver for me what I wanted.
This was at a club where the majority of the girls do extras. I think that I avoided either a ROB or the very rare non-extras dancer.
I would also believe that this girl may have been new to this club (maybe even new to dancing). She quoted dances at $20/song when they are supposed to be $25/song. Either way, at this club, I have never taken a dancer to VIP and gotten just dances. If she is new to dancing and wants to make money just doing dances, she will have a hard time doing it at this club.
I do think her whole line of “It wouldn’t be very lady-like” was both funny and flawed. I could’ve made the argument that her taking her clothes off in front of a bunch of men she doesn’t know is also not very lady-like.
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I agree, telling a stranger that she was going to suck his dick, swallow his load, and let him stick several fingers in her hoo ha - wouldn’t be lady like. But it can be challenging to find lady like ladies in a strip club.
I agree that proceeding to a VIP arrangement without a meeting of the minds is just a recipe for things turning out bad.
Every busy night a couple of naive customers walk into several strip clubs in America. The stripper that the OP described just needs to find 4 of them.
But I’ve recently encountered a lot of stories of strippers in Detroit clubs who are trying to work clean (or are at least *very* selective about extras). It’s usually at the mid-tier clubs where some number of the customers are just guys blowing off steam with friends. The price premium for extras at those clubs is also not always worth it for the stripper (FS is roughly the same price as 20 minutes of lappers).
buying dances is a chump's game.
SJG
Carmen
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lx4ImMQW…