Unexpected Reactions (Part 1)
AmeliaSmith
Texas
Sunday, August 26, 2018 9:04 AM
So , I have been chatting with a guy over email since about July. We've had great conversation and sent pictures/videos so I felt comfortable meeting him when he came to Dallas yesterday. Yes , I was two hours late lol but I I kept in touch and let him know what was happening. We meet at the hotel bar , sit and talk while he finished his drink and then we proceeded to him room upstairs. He gave me these cute gifts and we talked about dinner options, had a couple drinks and went on to dinner. We originally wanted Pappadeax's but 45 minutes wait ? No thank you. We then walked across the street to a diner style restaurant and had a nice dinner with some more conversation. Towards the end , I suggested a bbbj once we got to the hotel. We had been flirting and touching and kissing all evening, i thought this would be something he wanted. I guess I read all of his signs and our conversations wrong because he looked surprised once I said this. He then started talking about how hot that would be. Once I added that it would be $100, he froze. I am a escort turned stripper that currently strips. I arrived at 5pm and didn't leave until around 9:30PM (more on that later). I am not having free sex at the moment so was i wrong for expecting payment or was he wrong in expecting civilian sex ?
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But srsly, how did you meet?? If you met him off TER/craigslist it's one thing, off match.com then it's another
This guy must have been very dense.
You kept him waiting for two hours? I know this is a common theme but I don't understand it.
You know where you are. You know where you need to be and when. You know how long it should take to get there. To me it is a simple plan. I need to be there by 5 PM. It will take me one hour so I need to be on the road by 4. It will take me 30 minutes to get ready so I must be done with everything else and getting ready by 330.
It seems to me that many women plan this way , I need to be there by 5. That really means 6. So I can start getting ready at 6:15.
Let me know if you ever make it up to NJ. I will have a reservation so we don't get turned away .
But maybe I shouldn't be so hard on the guy. He may have wanted to remain faithful to his goat.
I thought the going rate for a BBBJ from a TUSCL member stripper was 50 cents.
In all fairness us men are much simpler - women will usually doll themselves up for a date and have a harder time picking an outfit to look good in - us dudes usually just shower and go (and sometimes shave)
And I don't blame Amanda for not bringing up payment from the get-go bc that can ruin the mood for some PLs, but in the future probably best to iron that out upfront since it's business and not meant as a romantic date.
He took out his dick and was endowed in double-digits and Amanda said "well damn that's a dick worth sucking for free, forgot the 100"
Good of you my man to call out these attention whores who spam the board by making threads about meeting up with TUSCLers. Maybe if we do it enough, these beta cucks will stop falling for their shit.
That being said, I too am getting a rock hard “rise” as well and she would be a welcome addition to my lineup as well.
All she needs is $5000 to get started.
I understand it takes them longer to get ready but the process still works. Work backwards from when you need to be there with the correct times. A grown women must know what she needs to do and how long it takes.
However, I’m also kinda agree with those who’ve opined that you could have been clearer sooner. Mind you, I’m not sure what that might have entailed. Maybe something like “You know who I am, so just be aware that if you’re expecting something besides a date and cuddles, that’s a separate negotiation.” I’m sure you could probably come up with something a little less...transactional though. :-/
Of course, if he *was* looking for a no sex kind of thing, that might have put him off.
Making a snap judgement based on one side of the story is like jumping to the conclusion that a cop wasn't justified in shooting a suspect based on an MSNBC report.