How long until your first LDK?

I LDKed a minute or so into my very first lap dance ever.

How long until you graduated to paying for extras?

It was almost 10 years before I found the LDK with a dancer intent on making me finish.

Still waiting....

I too had an LDK with my first lap dance. and extras? 20 years after that.

I LDKed in my first or second LD. I was so embarrassed. As I remember I sheepishly grinned, apologized, paid her, and got the hell outta there.

That's being a PL.

I have never LDKed. Thank God for BBBJCIM.

Never. Dances are fun but enough for me to finish

Years actually. I never understood the thrill of going when the result was leaving with blue balls. This was when I believed extras didn't exist. I never thought to ask.

I went every three to six months or so for years. Basically just to see a fresh pair of breasts in the flesh, maybe some groping.

That is, until I met a grinder. This girl didn't do any position changes, she just got on my lap, positioned me correctly, and the grinded with a purpose. After two songs I stopped her and said "if you keep that up I'm gonna jizz in my pants." She replied "go ahead, just warn me so I don't get wet."

She became a favorite immediately. I increased my clubbing frequency. While knowing her I discovered this place and realized the ways of the LDK lifestyle.

Never. I prefer titty fucks.

Same as most of the others, I LDKed pretty quick in the first song for the first few visits. After that the novelty of getting to touch boobs wore off and I couldn't LDK for a while. I had to work to get it back and learn to control it.

Buying dances is a chump's game. Ejaculation services is just using your hard earned money to increase your own sexual frustration.

If you like the dancer, treat her like you would any other woman. Usually that would mean, getting to know her, front room makeout session, on site FS, then take her home with you and continue seeing her regularly.

In clubs where nothing much more than LDKing is possible, DATYing your girl works out well. And she sees that you have saved your load for her, making her all the more ready.

SJG

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First time .....it wasnt by accident. The girl gave me a great HOP HJ. What did catch me by surprise was my first FS. Happened at good ole Cabaret go go in jersey. A mid forties dominican girl shoved my hands down her panties bar side. We went to the back and I expected a LDK. Before I knew it she slapped a jimmy on me and jumped on RCG. That dance has my gateway drug into hobbying.

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It was many years, probably more than 5 and possibly around 7 years of fairly regular strip club visits before I had a LDK. Granted the first couple of years where mostly table dances in Minnesota with little contact. It still toook a country or years of real lapdance grinds at the Minneapolis deja vu before I had one. Didn’t even know it was a possibility until I got my first dance from the girl with a nice round but that really new how to rub it on me. I think her name was Summer. I was really embarrassed that first time and I think no I probably LDKed with her every dance she gave. That started a period of a few years where I alarmist always had an LDK, to the point I pretty much stopped get lap dances for a year or more because of it. Now I’m in a period where I really don’t have them anymore even with my ATF.

Probably five years. I knew about extras, but was never really interested. It was kind-of cool to find a happy medium. Felt weird walking to the car with a wet spot, I'll say that much.

Just started last year with this Colombian dancer and only with her, while I've gotten kisses from other dancers now and then, but this one is wild with her tongue and enjoys it as much as I do. Too bad she's on vacation and won't be back until November.

I've never LDK'd :D

Do I get a trophy

5 years. Probably because I only went like once a year from my first trip to a strip club in 2008, until splashdown at Treasures in 2013.

22 years and about 32 visits. It was earlier this year (for me). It look a mental state of being "frisky" plus going commando with thin dress slacks. Twice in one visit, and the first dancer I didn't even touch/grope! Then I came (pun intended) to my senses and realized WTF am I following rules for?!?

Oddly enough I didn't have any accidents cumming in my pants clubbing in the beginning as a teen. you'd think I would as the others have. But no.

I will admit to getting close on several occasions. Once when she was doing an over the pants titty fuck. I actually warned her, cause I'm a gentleman like that. She rewarded me with a lovely HJTC.

Buying dances is as chump's game. Paying money for ejaculation services is only paying to exacerbate your own sexual frustration.

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SJG

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3 year's

Forty years and counting.

When I first started visiting SCs they were air dances and there were no VIP rooms, at least not at the club I started at (Bourbon St Circus in Phoenix). Dances started to get closer, and I remember the first time a dancer grazed my cheek with her nipple. There was a hot busty blonde on dayshift there named Robin that I went back to see many times. During a dance she had her back pressed into my crotch, while my hands were creeping around to fondle some juicy side boob. It didn’t take long in that position, SPLOOOOSH! The rest is LDK history and many, many walks of shame!

Lap Dancing had meant lap sitting, and that is actually a much more flexible situation. Far better if you are courting a girl whom you want to be waking up in the mornings with.

SJG

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