LDK 101: How to Last 6 songs

NJBalla
New York
Class, everyone grab a chair. Lets discuss the todays topic in LDK 101. How to last 6 songs. While there is no better experience that having 2 LDKs in one session, finding a girl who will grind on your damp lap can be a challenge. Thats where one must be able to master the 5-6 song LDK. How does one make this happen? Rub out a few before heading to the club. It will take a bit longer to rise to attention, but it will do wonders for your endurance and you can allow the girl to give you a great LD as well. While its possible to last this long without rubbing one out prior it may require some more concentration taking away from the LD experience. Thoughts?

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Cashman1234
6 years ago
I’ve been thinking of Nicole1994 during LD’s - and my dick has turtle-d backwards. That thought will kill any chance of an LDK.
JuiceBox69
6 years ago
I'm just a natural five to six song LDKer

So much so I'm starting to consider just always buying thirty minutes time blocks when it's time to pop

For me I actually love doing three song sets with a variety of girls just to get a strong build up...even blue balls almost

Then either go back for thirty minutes of extras if club allows or a solid LDK

Fifteen used to be food for me but I guess maybe I'm getting more endurance since I'm getting into shape ?
NJBalla
6 years ago
@cashman1234 you might as well numb your penis before going to the club
Warrior15
6 years ago
Alcohol helps. I drink one drink, no affect. Two drinks, I have total control. 4 drinks, I'm probably not going to pop, but I'll still have fun. 5 drinks and I'm asleep.
san_jose_guy
6 years ago
In both men and women, sex starts with a shift from the sympathetic to the parasympathetic nervous system system. These two operate in a kind of equilibrium.

Then climax occurs when the sympathetic nervous system kicks kicks back in and decides not to let it go any further. So trying not to climax is what makes you climax.

The way to delay is just to go with it, just keep getting lost in the energy flows and in looking into your partner's yes, and just feeling her body all over.

Study tantra, this teaches you to be able to do that.

SJG

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TFP
6 years ago
I guess I'm on the Juice train, because he just mapped out my visits. Get a good amount of dances with different girls. Then pick one for VIP at either thirty minutes or an hour. I'm always able to last the duration of the VIP until popping. Truth be told, I don't even think I could pop in a 3 song set. Maybe I need to test that theory out sometime.
san_jose_guy
6 years ago
Paying for ejaculation services is just guys spending their money to exacerbate their own sexual frustration.

SJG
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6 years ago
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TFP
6 years ago
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SanchoRG
6 years ago
5-6 songs is pretty ideal. I once went for 20 songs with the same girl and my dick was sore for a week after.

Plus nothing worse than a girl who gasses out cause she’s deceptively out of shape
san_jose_guy
6 years ago
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PaulDrake
6 years ago
Although it depends on my emotional state I usually have pretty solid control over when I orgasm. I tend to enjoy the experience the best at around 2-3 songs with some teasing beforehand. That is with 4-5 minute songs. Some of you guys may have clubs with shorter songs. I personally find at 5-6 songs I start to get some chaffing.

I have run into two dancers who seemed to be almost be psychic and could somehow very accurately sense my level of arousal (I refer to them as boner psychics). One of them could totally edge me along which was pretty amazing.
san_jose_guy
6 years ago
"Control" means raising the sympathetic nervous system, and that causes climax.

The way one can go long is by learning how to let go and let that oceanic state of union and bliss last longer.

Control = Early Load Dump

SJG
san_jose_guy
6 years ago
Beautiful girls who would love to be bedded, but who have to settle for giving LDK's.

SJG
JohnSmith69
6 years ago
Weed not only makes you horny, it also allows you to better control and delay orgasms. It’s a much better system than pathetically jerking off.
JuiceBox69
6 years ago
To bust in two or three songs takes the right girl and some high level of dedication and concentration

Witch is rather have it come casually so yeah I need the multiple fluffing with a variety of ladies then settling in on one favorite for that evening to finish me off LMFAO
san_jose_guy
6 years ago
LDKing causes pre-mature ejaculation and denigrates your ability to engage in real sex.

SJG
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6 years ago
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flagooner
6 years ago
Is the next class "How to LDK in 2 songs"?

It seems like most guys on here that seek an LDK finish are in a rush to complete so they can save the $$$.
san_jose_guy
6 years ago
^^^^^^ TWB recharges the FemBots. Those new anti-matter power packs installed underneath their breasts really do let them to a long time.

SJG
NJBalla
6 years ago
@flagooner thats a good subject for the next class. Hmm my quick thought for a LDK in 2 songs requires two strategies.

1. Pick a seasoned professional to fluff you at the bar. Fluff as in give you a gentle LD at the bar so when you are ready to go back you are at attention in 10 seconds. These girls are hard to come by. From time to time a fav of mine will grind on me at the bar while talking to her friends and checking her phone. These onyl happen on light nights when girls arent in hustle mode.
2. Build a rapport with a girl so that she knows your favorite position and quirks. This strategy is probably going to be more for your benefit that hers. I don't know man girls who lust after a 2 song regular, but I guess money is money
san_jose_guy
6 years ago
Select and approach the girl you want to be waking up in the mornings with. Show generosity and get a front room makeout session going. Put a first load into her in the back room, then take her home with you and continue to see her regularly.

SJG
rickdugan
6 years ago
Or maybe stop cumming in your own pants? Who really does that anyway? ☺
SirLapdancealot
6 years ago
My song range for LDKing is 2 to 9 but I could probably go longer. LDKing to me is about whenever I want to. And 6 songs is longer than I want because of cost and also at some point I get numb from the same stimulation. I am an LDK only PL so my strategy is as many LDKs as frequently as possible for as little as possible. So my ideal LDK is 2 songs.

But to me LDKing in 6 songs isn't about desensitizing myself as a way of preventing myself from cumming as it is just learning to cum when I want. During songs #1 to 4 I would just enjoy my boner(s) for as long as possible and then at song #5 would start intentionally trying to LDK by the end of it and then instead of making myself LDK at the end I would prolong it one more song. I don't have any method other than will power and control from experience. When I want to I simply focus real hard on how good my boner feels and then eventually it just happens. LDKing is like jerking off to me, I simply control when I want to cum. If I want to go longer I simply back off in thinking about the things that make me cum and I stimulate my dick a little less intensely. If I want to LDK quickly I think of the most sexy thoughts I can and I stimulate myself exactly how I like it to make myself cum.
lopaw
6 years ago
I couldn't last 6 songs if my life depended on it. Seems lately that more & more of these dancers aren't happy til they've gotten me off and many of them are very very good at what they do.
crazyjoe
6 years ago
Or maybe stop cumming in your own pants? Who really does that anyway? ☺


Does ricky cum in someone elses pants, like a bouncers pants
crazyjoe
6 years ago
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shailynn
6 years ago
I think warrior15 wins for the best comment in this post.
NJBalla
6 years ago
@crazyjoe Do you find it takes a lot of work to manage that account and san_jose_guy? Im sure the logging in and logging out must be tiring
san_jose_guy
6 years ago
"No one can go as long as you!"

As spoken to me by a young Korean American Hottie from Los Angeles, basically ditching her parents and working at a local AMP.

It was also around that time that I learned that I have to change styles, use much more varied rhythms and a lot of time just claiming that place at the top of her vagina and feeling the energy flows, and just also appreciating her face and her curves, and also letting air get out and making some vacuum and pulling back and angling her hips to give G-spot massage. One has to learn to make it more reciprocal, even if the girl does not know how to ask for this. Usually they that can't take that much steady thrusting, and it is easy to over work them if one does not understand this.

LDKing is idiotic.

SJG

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6 years ago
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6 years ago
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Countryman5434
6 years ago
I do not get why anyone would want an ldk!
san_jose_guy
6 years ago
"I do not get why anyone would want an ldk!"

Countryman and I are in full agreement.

Where there are no front room makeout sessions and where FS might be available but too expensive and maybe non-GFE, I have substituted DATYing girls in the dance booth. Always goes over well and has an obvious positive effect on them. And of course they recognize that I am saving my load, potentially for them.

SJG
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Mate27
6 years ago
My fun is finding a long time ldqueen that knows how to go for that nut, and I try to hold out for as many songs as possible. I call it “LDK rodeo”, and I can usually only go two or 3 songs tops before jizz oozes and drips out of my gym shorts, squirting onto the concrete worn carpet from the dive bar dancer who proudly kisses me and tells me to come back soon. The veteran girls know how to jack it so it’s standing solid, pointing downward as they work my topside. If you tip $5-$10, they appreciate you.
Jascoi
6 years ago
last time I LDKed was back in 95 or maybe it was 1996. maybe I need to get checked. but I'm a fucking old fart. so maybe it's just natural at my advanced age. but I'm not saying I like it.
san_jose_guy
6 years ago
^^^^^ With civvies, virgins, mostly just fooling around, clothes on.

But otherwise, women like to be fucked, not to dry hump.

Otherwise, DATY them in the dance booth.

SJG
Countryman5434
6 years ago
I will never understand why anyone would wanna be teased do damn bad they ldk! Good dances then handjob maybe, blowjob yes, fuck absolutely ldk i will never understand!
SirLapdancealot
6 years ago
@Meat72 LOL LDK rodeo is best the way to have a great LDK. Get to the point where you can ASAP and then hold out for as long as you can. A good LDK like that to me is better than any HJ. And with an expert stripper it is almost as good as a BJ. Plenty of good LDKs over the years have made me go home with an afterglow as if I just had a BJ or sex.
SirLapdancealot
6 years ago
@Countryman I don't want sex or extras from strippers. All I want is LDK. And to me it it fun and enjoyable as fuck.
Jascoi
6 years ago
it's is goooood. and absolutely bareback blow job. and then even beyond that... a bareback fuck ... oh my goodness.
nicespice
6 years ago
You are really brave, MisterWonderful!
IHearVoices
6 years ago
I think it was flag who said if the goal is to LDK then most guys try to do so quickly so they can save money, and I have to agree. If I really like dances with a girl and want to get a lot of them, that's an entirely different process than if I want to LDK.
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