I was out-whaled by a bigger whale...
Cowboy12
If you fall off a cliff, get up and try again...
Not that I'm that big of a spender, but I think I spend more than most daytime regulars at the small club I visit.
Usually my CF is quick to seek me out when I arrive, but it looks like she found a bigger whale.
It was such a great feeling to have a beautiful woman rush over to me right after I arrive.
Now, I am only second on her list. She did come over and say she was sorry....but doesn't make me feel any better.
Oh well, on to the next....
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Fuck the bitch go to tj!
I suspect the dancer sees it as a lack of neediness and a more solid regular who adds to her income rather than causing her to substitute one source for another. I would rather go more often on a lower budget with better value, so e.g., when she sees me, my $100-$150 makes it a $500 shift rather than trying to hog her spending $250 (or $500 or wherever a bidding war would end up)
It has surprised me how well they have responded to this.
If one came over to say sorry, I would likely cut my losses and try again on a day with less customer competition. Going to a couple of different clubs works for me to only spend time with the dancer or two at a club who I really like rather than rebounding to a dancer I'm not really into because a regular was busy.
Of course, sometimes, I see Miss Available in a new light and she ends up becoming one I really like. :-)
You don't play well with others do you ?
John Smith out spent me and I still had fun waiting and sharing the same girl
Actually that was kinda hot
Exactly right attitude! If you didn't make an appointment, there's always a chance you'll get out-whaled or bumped by a regular who DID make an appointment. Grab another girl you've been wanting anyway, or use the opportunity to get dances with lots of girls to see who will be your official emergency backup. And make an appointment with your main girl next time, if it's so important to you to spend time with her!
There are a couple of other girls I've been wanting to try, so I spent time with one of them.
I'll still spend money on my CF, sometimes, but not as much.
Good luck
2. Many strippers are loyal to money, and not much else.
3. Many strippers don't think long term. So, even if you'll give her more cash over time, she'll choose the guy who gives her more cash tonight.
And many of us happily use the above to our advantage.
Far be it from me to argue with that :) But I do think that the girls whose business model is built more on regulars, tend to honor appointments pretty well; hell, even girls whose business model isn't built on having regulars, seem to be thrilled and honor their appointments when they do get a regular. I say this because I've been thinking back on the past 4 or 5 years of SCing, and I can think of only 2 times when a stripper didn't follow through to my satisfaction on an appointment; both were by the same girl, one was nightshift so I figured it was unreasonable to expect compliance, the 2nd time was dayshift, and I next'ed her because of it. And this was not for lack of opportunity, there have been lots of times when my CFs seemed to have high-$ options.
In short, my experience is that, short-term thinking or not, strippers do tend to honor appointments with their regulars. At least, if you're a slow-shift regular. If you go during busy shift, you better have $$$ to get the same behavior. It's not about "loyalty", it's about her recognizing that a consistent regular $200-$400 payout beats a one-time $800-1000 payout at the risk of losing her regular.
I guess my point is life isn't fair. In strip clubs... double that.
On the other hand, isn't it selfish for a PL to expect a dancer to drop everything to give him a couple of dances when she has found a customer to arrange in advance to cover her goal on what is typically a slow shift?
It comes back to the middle way for me. Selfish would be dropping in unannounced and expecting the same treatment from her during Subraman's appointment with her as I would get during a typical slow shift. At the other end of the spectrum, there's being a pussy when she says: "I'll be right over, a customer just asked me for a dance" and then proceeds to try to hustle 5 more guys.