In a polite way, I think you really do have to do it that way. And that is the advantage of strip clubs over other venues, like AMPs, Lingerie Modelling, and Escorts.
You have to learn how to be friendly and engaging, and generous with them. And then just deflect the dance offers via money, front room friendliness, and talk about yourself and the outside.
Helps also if you selected and approached the girl yourself.
If she is ready to engage with you, she will not be promising about what she will do in the back room, She will not be trying to verbally sell you dances. She will be ramming her tongue into your mouth right there. Nothing she has said or done can be credible if she is not letting you makeout with her.
Even in amps it goes like this, with the resistant ones, the shoulders will eventually drop and she will get real, and soon you'll be ramming tongues into each other's mouths.
In a strip club, if she decides to split, and you were giving her money, she may well come back. But another girl might well decide to take her place so that she can't.
Even in DV SF clip joints, girls who have recited to me the "I don't kiss" line, were not too long after demonstrably reversing themselves.
But also, if you do engage that way and continue to see them outside, you will not need to be going to strip clubs very often. The girls will keep you busy and the times will be wonderful.
But there in the strip club front room, it has to be a sincere attempt to engage in a civilian way, not just trying to make her jump through hoops.
And again, even in our no touching clubs, very strict, you still can occasionally find girls engaging in fiery DFKing when it is getting close to closing time and they want to set up an OTC. That is how they show that they really mean it and are worth spending the time, and money, with. One girl did it by lying down on the bar.
And on stripper web they complain about all sorts of things. I looked up stuff about kissing all different ways. They denigrate the girls who do it. But this means that they see girls doing it!
And then they also talk about escorting, there they all do it.
They wrote about a girl who was going around giving thank you DFK's to anyone who had given her $1 when she was on stage. Probably she is trying to get back room action, and OTC too.
Where I learned that things could really be much better than they are was in our Latina underground circuit. The underground club gets to break rules, but the girls really are wired up differently. Kissing is no big deal to them, they are more than flattered if a guy tries to kiss them.
DATY is the recovery back up plan, but not ejaculation services.
What you want though is that front room makeout session followed by FS.
When the girls get to do whatever they want, this is what they want too. And this is evidenced by TJ and how things have been done in our Latina underground circuit. You let the girls do it and there will always be DFKing followed by FS. Used to be front room, then the mini-van, then coming and going as they pleased with local motels.
The money the got in the club was minimal, but they did not care. They wanted these GFE-FS motel sessions, and that was also how they got their money.
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You have to learn how to be friendly and engaging, and generous with them. And then just deflect the dance offers via money, front room friendliness, and talk about yourself and the outside.
Helps also if you selected and approached the girl yourself.
If she is ready to engage with you, she will not be promising about what she will do in the back room, She will not be trying to verbally sell you dances. She will be ramming her tongue into your mouth right there. Nothing she has said or done can be credible if she is not letting you makeout with her.
Even in amps it goes like this, with the resistant ones, the shoulders will eventually drop and she will get real, and soon you'll be ramming tongues into each other's mouths.
In a strip club, if she decides to split, and you were giving her money, she may well come back. But another girl might well decide to take her place so that she can't.
Even in DV SF clip joints, girls who have recited to me the "I don't kiss" line, were not too long after demonstrably reversing themselves.
But also, if you do engage that way and continue to see them outside, you will not need to be going to strip clubs very often. The girls will keep you busy and the times will be wonderful.
But there in the strip club front room, it has to be a sincere attempt to engage in a civilian way, not just trying to make her jump through hoops.
And again, even in our no touching clubs, very strict, you still can occasionally find girls engaging in fiery DFKing when it is getting close to closing time and they want to set up an OTC. That is how they show that they really mean it and are worth spending the time, and money, with. One girl did it by lying down on the bar.
And on stripper web they complain about all sorts of things. I looked up stuff about kissing all different ways. They denigrate the girls who do it. But this means that they see girls doing it!
And then they also talk about escorting, there they all do it.
They wrote about a girl who was going around giving thank you DFK's to anyone who had given her $1 when she was on stage. Probably she is trying to get back room action, and OTC too.
Where I learned that things could really be much better than they are was in our Latina underground circuit. The underground club gets to break rules, but the girls really are wired up differently. Kissing is no big deal to them, they are more than flattered if a guy tries to kiss them.
SJG
Worst worst case, opt to DATY her in the dance booth. Present it in an affectionate way, a counter to the standard dances.
So no ejaculation services, let her see that you are saving your load for her, and let that sexual tension remain, until you can be with her outside.
SJG
What you want though is that front room makeout session followed by FS.
When the girls get to do whatever they want, this is what they want too. And this is evidenced by TJ and how things have been done in our Latina underground circuit. You let the girls do it and there will always be DFKing followed by FS. Used to be front room, then the mini-van, then coming and going as they pleased with local motels.
The money the got in the club was minimal, but they did not care. They wanted these GFE-FS motel sessions, and that was also how they got their money.
SJG
You really haven't experienced strip clubbing until a ze/zir gives you a pronouns pass.
SJG
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