Most dances overall are vanilla so it seems to be the bread and butter of the industry but this site seems to be pretty advanced with extras.
Do you enjoy vanilla dances or use them only as stepping stones to extras? Seems the bulk of club goers overall are happy with vanilla?
sjguy... some of us like the dances.
pyroxi... i used to enjoy the vanilla alone but now use them as stepping stones.
Its just a bad choreography for interacting with the girl.
Giving her front room money is fine, but not going along with the idea of dances.
SJG
I mostly hit all-black dives and I do enjoy the dances there - the girls usually never stop grinding on you and grind their cooch right on your junk instead of avoiding it and allow constant groping - so I mostly still enjoy them but it seems for the hardcore SCer he usually tires of just dances and needs to up the anty to sex - the non-black dancers are often just meh for me.
A newb may get excited by just looking - a non-newb needs more than looking and wants contact-dances - an experienced SCer wants more than contact-dances and needs sex.
Papi likes chocolate, not vanilla.
Haven't been to an all-black club, sounds like a feature request for TUSCL.
in your opinion sjguy. with youth, looks, charm, riches you are better material for front room action. at my age of 68... and not a celebrity or rich or with charm my access to the ladies i desire... it is slightly easier where i go.
sjguy... my ideal girl is way out of my demographic... beauty, personality, youth, sexuality... nine and tens are my kriptonite. and marriage OR monogamy is NOT my goal. to ENJOY her IS.
This post feels racist.
is vanilla racist? i consider ‘vanilla’ as not a color in this context. in this discussion i define ‘vanilla’ as action of her dance involvement in providing some but not too much of a sexually stimulating dance. another words an entry level of tease.
and at my level of what i want now in a dance ‘vanilla’ ain’t satisfying to me anymore. it’s still nice but i like passion. preferably honest real attraction with the sexual chemistry flooding over.
and i certainly do enjoy ALL races. she just needs to be sexy and attractive.
I prefer the girl. The dance and money exchange is how I get to spend time with her.
Seems like there actually is some confusion around vanilla. Vanilla just means no extras. Not air dance, that's a scam, but just a regular ol dance.
So if someone were to refer to a type of dance as a "chocolate" dance would that be racist?
I go to th3 club just for these vanilla full contact dances
I'm an LDK only PL so as long as there is some grinding on my cock I'm all good with vanilla and as much mileage as possible.
What is a "vanilla" dance?
^^^Here you go flagrant gooner google.com
I don't get it.
When was a ruled passed that its either or? I like it all ...inside the club. Chat, dance, whatever, its entertainment I enjoy.
justme62, you are grossly underestimating the number of young women who really like older men.
SJG
I don't get it.
Just because I have been sleeping on the couch this week doesn't mean you have to tell the world. Those 2 dollar bills meant nothing to me and besides, it was a bachelor party!
Need to spend some time in Viet Coffee Shops. Zero mileage, zero OTC, but you will see how flirty and interested some young women are.
SJG
Pyroxi - TUSCL has the black-belts of strip-clubbers. Pay well and demand the best experience. I agree a general strip club customer is happy with a full contact lap dance.
Followup question would be how can vanilla dances satisfy the average PL to sustain business. I got past it after 2nd or 3rd. LDK was 1 answer but not my thing. Not looking to be a whale so in no-man's land currently.
Sometimes guys are not looking for a release, just good scenery, cold beers, sports on tv and possibly something to munch on. ... Sometimes.
Front Room Friendliness!!!
That way you can lead it. And its easy to make up excuses for handing a girl money, without her feeling like it is a fee for a service. Let her know you want to take care of her and that you know that high heels and slut wear cost money.
The place to find out if things are really going to happen between you and she is not the back room, its the front room.
Save the back room until it is really necessary, like when it is time for your own pants to come down. Then you invite her.
SJG
Buying dances is a chump's game.
SJG