So when I'm getting a terrible, waste of money lap dance, I'll occasionally look around at some of the other dances going on around me and see if there could be some good potential later on in the evening. Just last night I was receiving a boring, vanilla lapdance and observed a fellow patron receiving a fabulous lap dance. This intel helped turn my wasted $30 into some solid dances later in the evening, whereas if this had not been observed, I may not have chosen this dancer. Anyone else ever try to salvage a shitty dance by doing this?
Yeah - I have a bit of a wandering-eye and at times I have to force myself to focus on the dancer giving me the dance - could just be my PL-imagination but I think some/many dancers may feel a bit bad if you are checking out another dancer while she's giving you a dance (as if she was chopped-liver).
The small clubs I hit the dances are on the floor/main-room so one sees everything including the dancer on stage which is close-by due to the smallness of the club - not uncommon for me to be getting a bar-side dance and be checking out another dancer on the stage inside the bar.
I've checked other dances while getting one in the lapdance area before. Why not, as long as it's not weirdly intrusive staring?
One of the funniest bad dance stories I can remember was in LA. Back years ago. I think I was in Jet Strip, but wherever it was the dances were in these tiny booths where the bottoms were cut out like bathroom stalls. I saw this amazing latina in purple lingerie walking around and I'd just missed her, but settled for a black dancer who had a ridiculous body with an average face.
She looked great on stage, talked a good game, but was a cold fish in the dance area. Not an air dance but not great. What made it particularly galling was the gal in the purple was on her knees in the next booth giving insane head to the guy who'd snagged her right before I could make eye contact. Her outfit was dropping to the floor so I recognized it. There was no attempt at all to keep things quiet by either party, and there's nothing worse than hearing a guy about to blow his load (loudly) in a flurry of slurping while you're having a staredown with a bitch who's contracted GPS.
Cold fish was mad because she was trying to run a game about mileage being hard to get while some random dude was getting his soul extracted through his dickhole. At the time it was frustrating, but I can still see the look on her face when I called bullshit and did a quick nod to my left. It was basically an "I know you can hear that so let's cut the crap".
Remember, YMMV. The dance you're watching another guy get might not be the one you get.
Plus, you guys must have some X-ray vision to see through the girl on your lap and actually get a good sense of how another girl dances. Unless you're in a really brightly lit lapper area where the booths aren't separated all that well (there aren't any clubs like this I frequent), I don't see this being all that easy. Maybe part of the reason you're getting bad dances is because the girl can see you ignoring her and looking around at the other girls dancing.
If she's that bad, I'm just thinking about how quickly I can get her paid when we get done so I can get back out on the floor to do more scouting.
I laughed when I read this cuz a couple of weeks ago I was witha newbie on her second night dancing and had just finished a nice Champagne Room. In this club there's a second floor sitting area outside the CR's with nice leather couches. The two of us were on a couch and another dancer started giving a couple a lap dance. The gal with me moved from my left to my right so she'd still be looking at me but could watch the other dancer. She whispered to me that she was red to see how to do a couple. I guess sometimes the dancers want to see how others do it.
This strategy (rubbernecking during bad or even average LDs; i don't know why anyone wouldn't focus on their girl during a great LD) only seems to work in open LD areas. Even then, i tend to look only to check out the naked hotties than to see how they are dancing, lol, but i definitely notice if they're swatting hands away or chewing out the PL, or only in one boring position, etc. My favorite clubs tend to have private or at least semi-private dance booths or cubicles where you can't see what other girls are doing. I mean when you finish your dance, you might stop and gawk in a booth that another girl and PL are using, but that is considered very rude to them so i just surreptitiously look (mostly using peripherals) in my slow walk out of the chump station. I don't usually see much or enough to make a definitive decision about a girl.
Not a likely scenario, but once was getting non-hot dances in VIP, and we both could tell chick near us gave her dude head, put a condom on him and started fucking. Next song, they’re still goin at it, and another dancer takes the booth next to us and audibly obviously started fucking her customer. Next song, I look Miss Proper in the eye and ask her why the hell are WE the only ones not getting laid? That apparently finished turning her on to the point that we joined the “cool kids” and banged away. Still tapping that a year-plus later, plus, I gained valuable intel on 2 other “gamers”, that I capitalized on shortly afterwards.
Funny how much you can observe just by watching.....!
I had a similar experience - but it wasn’t my curiosity - it was the dancer.
I found a very hot Romanian dancer - who had an incredible curve to her ass. She was wearing a thong that looked like two strips of white tape (I apologize if that’s not a great visual).
The lap dance stalls were similar to wallanon’s description - like men’s room stalls with a gap at the bottom - and no door. There were 4 stalls - and they were all occupied when she lead me back.
I’m standing there - getting a nice squeeze of her ass. She smiles at me - and says “Watch this baby!” - she goes to the back occupied stall and pulls the girl over to give me a peek. The dancer is totally nude - hair and lipstick are a mess. She says - “Shes a fucking whore! She just swallowed another load!”
I was thinking - usually I don’t get great mileage and extras from the Romanian dancers - but maybe this one is a real freak. We finally get into a stall. She starts grinding against me even before I can sit down. I’m thinking - this is a great start. But after I’m seated it’s just a grind - nothing extra. I cut her off after 2 nice grinding dances.
I then found the Brazilian - who had cleaned up a bit - and took her for a few dances.
Cash -- you know, when you t old that story, it sure sounded like your Romanian was slut-shaming the other girl, not trying to turn you on or indicate she was going to do more! Which sounds like what actually happened... but hey, happy ending, she introduced you to the Brazilian lol
Subraman - I never looked at it in that way. It’s entirely possible - and it’s a very interesting take on her interaction (with the other dancer - and me).
If she was slut shaming - it was her mistake. There were three people involved - and two were filthy sluts.
Buying dances is a chump's game. They don't have girls you actually like at the clubs you go to?
SJG
NOLO, Chartres - Iberville, doesn't the black girl in purple look good? I think this picture originally came from Google Street View
https://s.hdnux.com/photos/42/00/35/8914…
I used to do that all the time at one of my former favorite clubs. They had one big room where everyone did their lap dances. Sometimes they would chat with each other, so I thought it was all right to look at the other dancers.
Just to clarify, I'm just glancing and taking peaks, no fixed stares, and the glancing and peaking usually occurs when the girl I'm getting dances from is facing away from me.
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The small clubs I hit the dances are on the floor/main-room so one sees everything including the dancer on stage which is close-by due to the smallness of the club - not uncommon for me to be getting a bar-side dance and be checking out another dancer on the stage inside the bar.
One of the funniest bad dance stories I can remember was in LA. Back years ago. I think I was in Jet Strip, but wherever it was the dances were in these tiny booths where the bottoms were cut out like bathroom stalls. I saw this amazing latina in purple lingerie walking around and I'd just missed her, but settled for a black dancer who had a ridiculous body with an average face.
She looked great on stage, talked a good game, but was a cold fish in the dance area. Not an air dance but not great. What made it particularly galling was the gal in the purple was on her knees in the next booth giving insane head to the guy who'd snagged her right before I could make eye contact. Her outfit was dropping to the floor so I recognized it. There was no attempt at all to keep things quiet by either party, and there's nothing worse than hearing a guy about to blow his load (loudly) in a flurry of slurping while you're having a staredown with a bitch who's contracted GPS.
Cold fish was mad because she was trying to run a game about mileage being hard to get while some random dude was getting his soul extracted through his dickhole. At the time it was frustrating, but I can still see the look on her face when I called bullshit and did a quick nod to my left. It was basically an "I know you can hear that so let's cut the crap".
Remember, YMMV. The dance you're watching another guy get might not be the one you get.
Plus, you guys must have some X-ray vision to see through the girl on your lap and actually get a good sense of how another girl dances. Unless you're in a really brightly lit lapper area where the booths aren't separated all that well (there aren't any clubs like this I frequent), I don't see this being all that easy. Maybe part of the reason you're getting bad dances is because the girl can see you ignoring her and looking around at the other girls dancing.
If she's that bad, I'm just thinking about how quickly I can get her paid when we get done so I can get back out on the floor to do more scouting.
Funny how much you can observe just by watching.....!
I found a very hot Romanian dancer - who had an incredible curve to her ass. She was wearing a thong that looked like two strips of white tape (I apologize if that’s not a great visual).
The lap dance stalls were similar to wallanon’s description - like men’s room stalls with a gap at the bottom - and no door. There were 4 stalls - and they were all occupied when she lead me back.
I’m standing there - getting a nice squeeze of her ass. She smiles at me - and says “Watch this baby!” - she goes to the back occupied stall and pulls the girl over to give me a peek. The dancer is totally nude - hair and lipstick are a mess. She says - “Shes a fucking whore! She just swallowed another load!”
I was thinking - usually I don’t get great mileage and extras from the Romanian dancers - but maybe this one is a real freak. We finally get into a stall. She starts grinding against me even before I can sit down. I’m thinking - this is a great start. But after I’m seated it’s just a grind - nothing extra. I cut her off after 2 nice grinding dances.
I then found the Brazilian - who had cleaned up a bit - and took her for a few dances.
If she was slut shaming - it was her mistake. There were three people involved - and two were filthy sluts.
SJG
NOLO, Chartres - Iberville, doesn't the black girl in purple look good? I think this picture originally came from Google Street View
https://s.hdnux.com/photos/42/00/35/8914…
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