Is it normal for dancers to hate this and tell you not to? It seems to vary from dances to dancer but one recently told or it's not allowed and that's why but I don't think that's the case
Dude, what is normal about a random dancer in a stripclub and a guy who presents no context?!?! I will try though from my perspective ... no not for me but does that help you in any way?
Seriously, it runs the gamut. I've met one or two dancers who basically didn't want me to lay a finger on them during the dance, but then I've also met a dancer who literally asked me to please eat her asshole out during a VIP. So it varies. Just bathe, maintain dental hygiene, and follow the rules of the club, and I'm sure you'll find dancers who will allow you to kiss their, um, torsos.
“For some odd reason, many of them dislike random peoples unwanted slobber all over their bodies.
Go figure, right“
Last Tuesday, I had a dancer state her rules before our dance started. She said (1) don’t try to kiss her and (2) don’t put my mouth on her. This sort of killed the mood, but only to a small degree. I can totally understand why she wouldn’t want a customer to do those things, but it comes with the territory of being a dancer.
It doesn't matter if we say it's normal or not. What a dancer does for me she might not do for you. And what she might allow another guy to do may not be an option for me. Also, our opinions don't change your reality in the strip club.
If you're not a troll, then you test somewhere on the spectrum or you're just plain creepy. At this point, you should be coming to the conclusion that the problem is not with the dancers.
WTF is this shit? All these basic questions - that can’t be answered from the information provided!
If you aren’t trolling us - then you definitely have the look and smell of a troll!
If you are straining to maintain an erection - and then you start licking a dancer - as you strain - there’s a possibility she thinks you are having a stroke or health crisis!
These questions are idiotic at best. Take an introspective look at yourself. The answers to your questions are probably right in the mirror.
^ this appears to be the remedial version of that thread.
If you feel the need to kiss or lick a dancer - and you don’t know the dancer - ask her if it’s ok. Some dancers are skittish with any sort of fluid transfer.
Man, i feel for you. First overpriced dances, and now also low mileage. If a girl refused me the use of my lips (not even tongue mind you), and shut me down even before the dance started, although getting shut down mid-dance isn't really any better, that would be more than just a little buzz kill for me. At least i would already decide that she was one and done forever. That would mean no titty feeding or even nipple brushing with the lips, no soft kisses on her neck and other areas. The fantasy aspect is quite important IMO; and i can't stand these type of dancers anymore and don't support them ($), especially if such activities are "allowed" by the club or other dancers.
@dirk...I know what you mean. But I’ve very rarely had a dancer state rules before a dance started. In my experience, a dancer stating rules before a dance starts is very unusual
+100 : Dancer starts telling me her rules before the dance starts, 90% of the time it's because she has conservative, hard-and-fast rules. Once in a while there's a nice surprise, but it's usually a bad sign
Ish-->"It doesn't matter if we say it's normal or not. What a dancer does for me she might not do for you. And what she might allow another guy to do may not be an option for me. Also, our opinions don't change your reality in the strip club. "
You know, last time I said something like this, I was accused of desperately trying to pretend strippers do different things for different guys, because I "need" to believe this for my own overly-romantic reasons. Which surprised me, I'd never before found someone who didn't know YMMV was true, much less someone who thinks it's romantic. And it's not a guess, it is something I KNOW is true -- I usually SC in a group, and it's a fact that the guy sitting right next to me might get more or less than I did, for the price I paid. It's the guys who "need" to believe the girls are coin-operated automatons who have to ignore what actually goes on.
Sorry, little off topic rant, too much caffeine this morning
"... You know, last time I said something like this, I was accused of desperately trying to pretend strippers do different things for different guys, because I "need" to believe this for my own overly-romantic reasons ..."
1. Obviously I respect boundaries when stated
2. It was a private dance, I kissed her stomach then she said you can't kiss my manager watches and I'll get in trouble" which didn't seem to make sense based on other people actually french kissing one of them in the main floor (not trolling)
Then when it gets to where your own pants need to come down, then you invite her to the back room. Then take her home with you to continue and keep on seeing her regularly.
From my experience black strippers are more clean. I have had several use wipes and sanitizer before starting a dance. One of my club favs always gives me hand sanitizer before starting her dance. She normally wipes her breasts but this time she did her Y. Well with in a minute she had it right there, so I leaned in and gave it a lick and told her yum. So for the next 5 songs got to try many different tasting positions of it.
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That's not true.
Go figure, right?
Go figure, right“
Last Tuesday, I had a dancer state her rules before our dance started. She said (1) don’t try to kiss her and (2) don’t put my mouth on her. This sort of killed the mood, but only to a small degree. I can totally understand why she wouldn’t want a customer to do those things, but it comes with the territory of being a dancer.
If you're not a troll, then you test somewhere on the spectrum or you're just plain creepy. At this point, you should be coming to the conclusion that the problem is not with the dancers.
But.. yeah... I think you're a troll.
If you aren’t trolling us - then you definitely have the look and smell of a troll!
If you are straining to maintain an erection - and then you start licking a dancer - as you strain - there’s a possibility she thinks you are having a stroke or health crisis!
These questions are idiotic at best. Take an introspective look at yourself. The answers to your questions are probably right in the mirror.
If you feel the need to kiss or lick a dancer - and you don’t know the dancer - ask her if it’s ok. Some dancers are skittish with any sort of fluid transfer.
Man, i feel for you. First overpriced dances, and now also low mileage. If a girl refused me the use of my lips (not even tongue mind you), and shut me down even before the dance started, although getting shut down mid-dance isn't really any better, that would be more than just a little buzz kill for me. At least i would already decide that she was one and done forever. That would mean no titty feeding or even nipple brushing with the lips, no soft kisses on her neck and other areas. The fantasy aspect is quite important IMO; and i can't stand these type of dancers anymore and don't support them ($), especially if such activities are "allowed" by the club or other dancers.
100% a troll. Actual newbies are not this self-assured. It's one of the regulars here, amusing himself
You know, last time I said something like this, I was accused of desperately trying to pretend strippers do different things for different guys, because I "need" to believe this for my own overly-romantic reasons. Which surprised me, I'd never before found someone who didn't know YMMV was true, much less someone who thinks it's romantic. And it's not a guess, it is something I KNOW is true -- I usually SC in a group, and it's a fact that the guy sitting right next to me might get more or less than I did, for the price I paid. It's the guys who "need" to believe the girls are coin-operated automatons who have to ignore what actually goes on.
Sorry, little off topic rant, too much caffeine this morning
I’d love to hear a dancer say “Ok. Here’s the rules. I don’t do double anal in the club anymore. Everything else is wide open.”
I guess you are just one of those "pinnacle" PLs
Just yanking your PL-chain
2. It was a private dance, I kissed her stomach then she said you can't kiss my manager watches and I'll get in trouble" which didn't seem to make sense based on other people actually french kissing one of them in the main floor (not trolling)
Then when it gets to where your own pants need to come down, then you invite her to the back room. Then take her home with you to continue and keep on seeing her regularly.
SJG
Ray Bradbury
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PF3uZf4G…
Sephiroth and Plagues
http://www.kabbalah.torah-code.org/kabba…
https://www.chabad.org/kabbalah/article_…
Also, Mtent is a troll.