Stripper Boyfriend in Jail - Check out why

With regard to No. 6, not only how did he get into the hotel, but how did he get into the room? Every hotel room door automatically locks when you close it, so someone on the inside would have to open it.

My ATF's BF was incarcerated when we met (larceny, robbery, & class A drug possession) but when he was released I met him and even gave him $100 to let me watch the two of them fuck. He knew we were getting it on but he also knew my money was paying for his dope. One time he got pissed at me for something and over the phone threatened me. I told him there was no doubt that he could kick my ass, but wanted to remind him that assaulting an elderly person was a felony. He calmed down.

Also, except for the publicity, sue the hotel for lack of security.

MAY 13, 2011 Anna (stage name Skye) at the Columbia Platinum Plus. "I was in jail for drugs".

Translation: Just got out of 8 years in prison for luring a customer to her hotel room for sex. Her boy friend came in robbed and killed the guy.

I've been threatened with blackmail, the police, threats to customers, employers, but never violence...Though violence is always implied...The problem is these strippers will tell their bf's just every damn thing about you....So you start getting your OPSEC straight ahead of time....stop giving real names, close down social media holes, and of course my employer knows ahead of time, due to the nature of my work that I'm subject to blackmail threats, robbery, and other crazy stuff, so it is going to take a lot to really faze them. I'm used to carrying large amounts of cash so I carry concealed and always watch my back...and always secure my cash...I have had strippers gently try to steal some cash out of my pants, no problem I expect that....At any rate, watch what you tell these girls, and especially what you text...many times it gets handed over to the bf.....

@shadowcat - I take it that in South Carolina major felony convictions are no deterrent to either permits or the club's good sense.

I still don’t get why PLs take these hos to their own house for OTC. That’s just plain crazy. Paying for a hotel is worth the peace of mind. Strippers have drug dealers and thugs in their circle of friends.

Shit was a setup that went bad. Room had to be opened from the inside. GPS or phones will only get you 10-15 feet. So how he get the right room. 4 star hotel. Had to be many floors. How did he know which floor to start looking.

goldmonger - permits are not required. I wouldn't have known except I was sitting with my ATF and she recognized her and went up to her and asked her about her absence.

It's so unfair. These hot young strippers prefer their abusive, drug-addicted criminal boyfriends to me. Could it have something to do with the fact that strippers are lying, thieving whores?

Some of them yes for sure...lol...try to show them love and kindness and in many cases you'll be taken advantage of. Sometimes telling them about my felonies and drug laced past makes them feel more at home..I have a lot of good stories of how bad my life was when I was using.

As for staying in hotels all the time it’s not too hard to get into a nicer one.

Walk in the lobby, hang by the elevator until someone goes in it and inserts their card into the elevator to get access, after they do that all he has to do is say “oh can you please hit floor number 7,” and it’s home free.

I can’t even recall the last time I saw security personnel standing by the elevator with the exception of Vegas and NYC hotels.

If youre worried take her phone and shut it off in the lobby...she can get it back when you're done.

As far as what her explanation meant - it’s stripper logic that leads to stripper shit coming from her mouth - so a roll of the dice would be more logical.

That being said, if the bf is locked up, that’s good. Also, she might be offering a veiled threat regarding acting up or not paying (once you get her otc).

If her bf is actually locked up - she might not have him to act as her security. So she might be wary of doing otc with you (if she’s not done it with you previously). So she’s just saying that you’d better pay - or else her bf will come looking for you once he’s out of the big house.

goldmonger posted: --->"Also, except for the publicity, sue the hotel for lack of security."

Seriously? How exactly do you imagine that playing out? This wasn't some random perp wandering the hallways looking for an opportunity. The perp was only there in the first place because the customer brought his GF hooker to the room. Then the perp only got in because someone already in the room, most likely the GF hooker, let him in. Good luck finding a jury who would side with the John on this issue.

goldmonger posted: ---> "I take it that in South Carolina major felony convictions are no deterrent to either permits or the club's good sense."

You could say the same in many states. The number of jurisdictions that have permit or other background check requirements are in the minority - most don't. Did you really believe that most clubs are recruiting primarily from local colleges? ;) In many places, clubs would have far fewer hot dancers if not for the fact that the girls involved have criminal records that make it hard for them to get decent paying vanilla work.

Simply put, there is always a risk in taking strippers OTC and we cannot rely upon others to protect us from our own bad choices. Taking these girls out safely involves good judgment and following one's gut instincts. I've probably taken as many different girls OTC as just about anyone on this board, and likely more than most, and I've never once had a serious problem with a pimp/SO. I think the fact that I don't look or act like an easy target helps, but so too does simple common sense and a willingness to walk away from any girl giving off a bad vibe.

Oh, and I got so distracted that I didn't opine on the original post, lol. The only way you'd know what she was trying to communicate is to press the issue. If I were in your shoes, I'd probably have responded back to her with 1 and see what she said. The worst she can do is say no.

Though, as I mentioned above, if she was giving off a weird vibe, then maybe it was better that you just let it go.

Exactly agree with Cashman. I would interpret it is an invitation since he is caged up and also a veiled threat for no funny business. She wont tell you he is in jail for not paying child support and shoplifting video games from Walmart. Soo gangsta...

You are way over thinking it. Strippers are not super criminals with complex Mission Impossible plans to rob you.

I'm not really at risk of being involved with girls like that, because I don't like them and most of the time they sense that and so they quickly shun me.

I don't like them, for one thing because I don't go along with the chemical intoxicants approach to life. I don't see it as social rebellion, I see it as social conformity.

Most of the girls in strip clubs are not like that, only a few. And of these stripper boyfriends, I don't like guys like that and I wouldn't ever put myself in a position where I would be around them. I am careful about ever going places with people. I don't 'hang out" with people.

This world is full of druggies, even many of this forum. But you will not find me hanging out with them.

I am not like a stripper boyfriend, but this is not because I devote my life to making money, not because I believe in some 'work ethic', not because I go along with some norm of keeping up appearances. Its more just because I am always focused on bigger things.

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