Stripper Boyfriend in Jail - Check out why
goldmongerATL
The Square Above Charlie Weaver
Talked to a dancer while traveling a while back. Got some dances and she was giving me SS about her boyfriend being in jail, etc. The club was not real extras friendly and I was at a hotel, so I hinted at OTC. She said the last time she went to a customer's hotel her BF found out. He came to the room and got into a fight with the PL. Hurt him a bit and the guy called the cops. BF in jail for assault.
Many thoughts here.
1. He away in jail, so no problem!
2. Over the top way of declining OTC.
3. If it went down that way, how did he find them? Stripper had to text or call him to let him know what hotel and room.
4. Robbery setup gone bad.
5. The guy stiffed her (punny), leading to #3. In this case BF doubles a pimp.
6. She mentioned the hotel and it was 4-star. How did the guy get up to the room?
7. Exactly what story do you tell the cops (not that you do not deserve to be protected and have him arrested)?
Many thoughts here.
1. He away in jail, so no problem!
2. Over the top way of declining OTC.
3. If it went down that way, how did he find them? Stripper had to text or call him to let him know what hotel and room.
4. Robbery setup gone bad.
5. The guy stiffed her (punny), leading to #3. In this case BF doubles a pimp.
6. She mentioned the hotel and it was 4-star. How did the guy get up to the room?
7. Exactly what story do you tell the cops (not that you do not deserve to be protected and have him arrested)?
19 comments
One time he got pissed at me for something and over the phone threatened me. I told him there was no doubt that he could kick my ass, but wanted to remind him that assaulting an elderly person was a felony. He calmed down.
Anna (stage name Skye) at the Columbia Platinum Plus. "I was in jail for drugs".
Translation: Just got out of 8 years in prison for luring a customer to her hotel room for sex. Her boy friend came in robbed and killed the guy.
Strippers have drug dealers and thugs in their circle of friends.
Walk in the lobby, hang by the elevator until someone goes in it and inserts their card into the elevator to get access, after they do that all he has to do is say “oh can you please hit floor number 7,” and it’s home free.
I can’t even recall the last time I saw security personnel standing by the elevator with the exception of Vegas and NYC hotels.
That being said, if the bf is locked up, that’s good. Also, she might be offering a veiled threat regarding acting up or not paying (once you get her otc).
If her bf is actually locked up - she might not have him to act as her security. So she might be wary of doing otc with you (if she’s not done it with you previously). So she’s just saying that you’d better pay - or else her bf will come looking for you once he’s out of the big house.
Seriously? How exactly do you imagine that playing out? This wasn't some random perp wandering the hallways looking for an opportunity. The perp was only there in the first place because the customer brought his GF hooker to the room. Then the perp only got in because someone already in the room, most likely the GF hooker, let him in. Good luck finding a jury who would side with the John on this issue.
goldmonger posted: ---> "I take it that in South Carolina major felony convictions are no deterrent to either permits or the club's good sense."
You could say the same in many states. The number of jurisdictions that have permit or other background check requirements are in the minority - most don't. Did you really believe that most clubs are recruiting primarily from local colleges? ;) In many places, clubs would have far fewer hot dancers if not for the fact that the girls involved have criminal records that make it hard for them to get decent paying vanilla work.
Simply put, there is always a risk in taking strippers OTC and we cannot rely upon others to protect us from our own bad choices. Taking these girls out safely involves good judgment and following one's gut instincts. I've probably taken as many different girls OTC as just about anyone on this board, and likely more than most, and I've never once had a serious problem with a pimp/SO. I think the fact that I don't look or act like an easy target helps, but so too does simple common sense and a willingness to walk away from any girl giving off a bad vibe.
Though, as I mentioned above, if she was giving off a weird vibe, then maybe it was better that you just let it go.
I don't like them, for one thing because I don't go along with the chemical intoxicants approach to life. I don't see it as social rebellion, I see it as social conformity.
Most of the girls in strip clubs are not like that, only a few. And of these stripper boyfriends, I don't like guys like that and I wouldn't ever put myself in a position where I would be around them. I am careful about ever going places with people. I don't 'hang out" with people.
This world is full of druggies, even many of this forum. But you will not find me hanging out with them.
I am not like a stripper boyfriend, but this is not because I devote my life to making money, not because I believe in some 'work ethic', not because I go along with some norm of keeping up appearances. Its more just because I am always focused on bigger things.
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