Question for experienced mongers only.
bvino
Florida
How often have you gone to a club and left with almost all of your money? I regularly indulge in extras and I was at my usual club today but I walked out with over 90% of what I brought in -less drinks. The room was full of dancers-mostly young and some pretty but nothing really did it for me. I am 60 years old -How does this happen? Naked girls willing to perform and I passed on all the offers. None of my favorites was there and I really did not want to start over with a new girl. One tried very hard to lure me back but it was the same old SS that the young ones all use.Does this happen to all of us sooner tor later. No newbies need reply nor lookie loos. Just serious practitioner responses please.
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No cover charge.
No drinks.
No dances.
It was so crowded because first VIP was only $100.00
When I checked I didn't see the best dancers.They are inside VIP. so I decided to leave instead of waiting for hours.
Does experience make you a tougher mark? I'd hope so. How much a person spends in the club is not always a factor in how the time went.
I had a few beers - tipped some tits - and chatted up a few half nude girls - so it isn’t always bad to leave a club with most of your wad intact.
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To break this down a little further, if I am clubbing in a place where I know the talent and have a few OTC hookup options, the odds are good that I'm going to spend my money. However, if I am checking out places that I do not frequent, either locally or when I'm road clubbing, the odds that I walk out with a lot of my cash improve dramatically. Now I'm not sure that I would use the term "most" as I will often do some drinking and, where warranted, barside tipping, which is how I get to know the club and some of the girls. But I have to be pretty motivated to spend anywhere close to the whole wad.
When you club regularly, ROI starts to matter a lot more, unless of course you have inexhaustible funds available for frivolous pursuits.
I think Bullwinkle hit many good-points - for me it's part burnout due to SCing too-regularly where it kinda loses its effect - and also sometimes the club/club-scene changes not to one's liking - in the past I'd hit many different type clubs b/c I like variety, but was spending too-much by hitting clubs that were not really my cup-of-tea just for the sake of variety - cut down to mainly my type of clubs (black dives) but most of the black-dives around me have changed in a direction I don't like - thus for me over-SCing and clubs changing their M.O. have me not having the same gusto I used to have for SCing.
I leave with a pocket full of money well over half the time. It’s because I can’t find anyone I really like, I can’t get the attention of who I am interested in (they’re too busy on their phone, they don’t come out of the dressing room, too busy talking to staff and other dancers) OR dancer is tied up with a regular.
But if you find yourself having more bad than good visits, then it may be time for a break or maybe moving on to something else (escorts, sugar-daddy, etc).
Walking away with decent cash may feel disappointing at first but certainly happier the next day with that much more to spend whenever you return.
For me, I turn it into a positive by spending some of that unexpected extra cash on a fine meal...finer than Taco Bell at least!
So, yes it happens from time to time but it can be a good thing...
It usually depends on where I'm clubbing, if its an area with clubs that I've visited repeatedly I know what to expect and I usually spend at least half of what I brought by the end of the night. I may not spend it in the first club of the night but by the end of the night I can usually find what I am looking for at one club or another.
If its a town I'm unfamiliar with, or like today when I only have time to hit 1 club, it can be hit or miss. Sometimes I spend it all and sometimes I take it all with home with me. I'd much rather leave disappointed by still having most of my cash than leave disappointed because I spent the money on a subpar experience.
Lately, it has been a combination of a few things. Sometimes I don't find a girl that really stands out as someone I feel I must spend money on. Sometimes it is because I went to a club with a lot of young college-age girls that use lazy hustle tactics that I have become immune to.
There's been enough times where I've gone in and spent on subpar girls and I've wished I'd had just had a little patience and seen a girl I know is a good time that I've learned to have that patience. I also don't really mind going in, having a few drinks, watching the stage, maybe flirting a little bit or getting a table dance or two. It's still a nice break and change of scenery from the office/airport/hotel.
If you go often enough, even a strip club and the somewhat predictable flow of conversations with scantily clad women may lose its novelty. It might be time for a break (as in "absence makes the heart grow fonder" or is "it absence makes the hard grow harder?") or a change in routine.
Of course the other issue to to make sure that you are still healthy, etc. Old age happens to all of us.